| I am looking for a balanced relationship with someone with whom I can share many common interests.
In a nutshell, I'm very outdoorsy - I love to rock and ice climb and I enjoy skiing. I also enjoy riding my motorcycle in the summer. I stay in shape. I would like someone who is also active, outdoorsy and in shape. If your preference is towards more sedentary activities, we will not be a good fit. If you want to get in shape, hanging out with me is probably a good way to do it.
I look for someone who doesn't mind the fact that I have an independent streak, who can respect the fact that my life is well put together and I don't need anyone to "fix" me. My "real" life doesn't need someone to run it for me. I've tried that before and it's been an epic failure, since most folks don't seem to be that skilled at managing their own lives and do even worse when they try to apply that lack of skill to someone else's life. I'm a person with a positive outlook and like other people who have that same sort of outlook.
It would be nice to be with someone who enjoys the fact that I have a service oriented side and would like someone who can enjoy that as well someone with whom I can be quite submissive and enjoy that side of myself. I want someone who can appreciate those sides of me without taking them for granted by assuming that I *have* to do any of them.
I've been in the lifestyle for about 16 years. I consider myself a masochist and have a strong preference for sadists who enjoy intense play.
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