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Nearly all of the people listed as friends know me and have met me.
Serious, masculine, sane, single, athletic, educated, nonsmoker, no STD's, faithful to You. This is my real age. Would rather share thoughts directly. Photos available on request. i can supply references from a group of Dominant Women who know me personally. i think they will attest to my sincerity, honesty and stability. As a part time member of a Femdom/male slave group, i'm able to see and talk with couples and triads who are in stable, longterm relationships or marriages. When people think of Femdom LTR's, many imagine a situation in which the Woman has to look and act a certain way all the time. Actually, in the successful ones, both partners - the Woman and the man - are working as a team toward the same goal: a Femdom/male slave relationship that is loving and stable. They often 'brainstorm' together to overcome any obstacles to deeper male submission or greater Female dominance.
Sex, if any or what form it will take, is entirely up to the Woman. Chastity devices, though a major hassle to fit correctly, are a common feature in these relationships. These relationships cover the spectrum from vanilla to very kinky. Basically, the Woman gets to indulge in Her deepest, darkest fantasies with a man who is trustworthy and who loves Her.
A man enters into a Femdom LTR or marriage and begins to truly fall in love. he might be placed in chastity. he starts aching for his Beloved. A husband head over heels in love and sexually aching for the Wife. Isn't that the ideal of even vanilla marriages or LTR's? Ideally, when a less-dominant man submits to a more-dominant Woman it's an act of love. he'd rather surrender his freedom than not be part of Her life or be in a relationship with Her in which there's a constant tug of war. Secondly, submitting doesn't come naturally for most men and by submitting each time they make it slightly easier the next time to live a submissive life going forward.
Males i've seen in the longer lasting Femdom relationships appear to be extremely monogamous and faithful. The Women have more options regarding sexuality and permanently marking Their mates, but that doesn't mean that they all do it. The males in all the Femdom LTR's or marriages i've seen should realize that in all likelihood the Women will play with other available men during play parties. Some Women keep their slaves for themselves and others allow other Women to play with them. i didn't see any 'golden nectar' drinking or sexual 'fooling around' myself, but i did hear that some Women would avail themselves of this option maybe once or twice in order to elicit from the male the deepest level of ego surrender.
The slaves combine pure love with deep lust for the Women and appear "ruined" for any other Female or any other type of Female. Power struggles are set aside and more productive strategies are employed.
In vanilla settings the couples act no differently than other couples except the guys are a lot nicer to their Partners than most husbands or boyfriends. The natural selfishness of the men has been trained away and their instincts now are turned toward serving the Women.
It's my observation that Women in stable, settled Femdom/malesub LTR's or marriages seem more relaxed and confident than unattached Women. They don't posture, strut , pose or try to impress.
Many men submit for wonderful reasons: the chance to be kind, gentle, loving and nice to a Woman you care about, a furtive glance at Her bottom as She walks away in Her stilettos as you kneel there chained, the approval of other Women, vanilla and D/s, of the way you act so caring around Her.
Femdom LTR's or marriages can bring out the best in men. Despite this, i'm sure i'll make a lot of mistakes. i hope You'll be patient as You train and polish me.
Less romantic, more logistical matters follow:
If You don't want to be part of any groups, that's fine and You would decide any participation i may have with outsiders. The dominant Women i know are very down to earth and normal looking and acting.
Since i'm not into online anything and i really want a real life relationship to work, i'll answer Your questions honestly and not try to string You along and waste Your time'. Distance seems to be the biggest problem for both Femdoms and male slaves.
If You think it will work in a vanilla sense, but are not sure of Your Femdom skills or experience, don't worry. A vanilla foundation is by far the most important. Trust me, You'll pick up the Femdom/male slave aspect of our relationship and have fun doing it.
A triad or poly situation is theoretically possible athough much more difficult. It would have to contain the stable elements of a relationship involving just two people Triads can work out, but I haven't seen too many. They shouldn't be ruled out, but the odds are stacked against them.
If You see me 'looking' at Your profile and/or adding to 'Favorites', but not writing, it's most likely because i see distance, too great an age difference or some other impediment making a petition from me a waste of Your time. It's important to me that a Femdom/male slave relationship succeed and we shouldn't pretend that impediments e.g. distance or age don't matter.
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