| **** Not interested in whatever you're selling.****
I have a great many ideas and the depth of my perceptions are not always easily put to text, chatting with me is the best way to guage my definitions and expectations. I'm also very eager to please, in the respect I take great enjoyment from coming to know, and understand a person, and thus try to anticipate their needs and wants. This applies to friendships, as well as any deeper bonds I may form with a Dom. If you wish to talk, feel free to send me a message, please try to be articulate in your written exchanges with me. I am far from a great typist, I do typo a great deal, but I appreciate a person who can over come chat speak. The better you are able to express yourself in text, the more you can gain from a textual conversation.
I'm not interested in 'online' whatever it is you call it. Through the online venue all you will recieve from me is friendship and hopefully interesting conversation. I am not adverse to meeting people in person, but that would be a step I would only consider after knowing you for some time.
While my first hand experience with the 'kink' of BDSM is limited, my experience with submission and service is not. Being submissive to authority figures in my life, and providing service to my family, friends, and community all strengthen my deep satisfaction in servitude. For me it's not about titles, spanking, and collars (don't get me wrong, those things are fun). It's about the pride of enhancing someone elses day, or life in general, with my company, and my willingness to help them, or make them more comfortable.
Volunteerism is a big thing for me, I have been involved with Girl Guides of Canada for many years, as well as local community fund raisers and events in which I also give my time when possible. These are important parts of my life, and allow me to channel some of my needs to serve in a healthy manner, especially when I am not in a more intimate relationship.
I am listed as a submissive, but more recently I think the term switch can accurately be applied. My inclinations vary depending on my SO. Labels mean less to me than pocket lint, so just consider me a person and don't worry about my sexual preference unless I've invited you to my bed.
Kinks and Fetishes are all well and good, but BDSM holds appeal for me in the psychological realm first and foremost. This is difficult to describe without writing an essay so feel free to question me on this!
The only other note to add here is that while I appreciate some people enjoy having their position as a D-type or s-type recognized, I give everyone the same courtesy and respect equally until given reason to modify that perception. I'm not big on capatalizing certain letters or using a different mode of speach depending on who I'm talking to. My submission is a natural reaction to recognizing authority figures in my life, and to those who show both intelligent wisdom, as well as a concern for mentoring. Unless you develop a rapport with me of meaning, none of these apply to people I really don't know online. In short, if you expect me to 'act' a specific way when conversing with you, don't hold your breath. I am me, nothing more or less.
Disclaimers and Caveats:
- I won't respond to "Hi nice profile." I thank you for the compliment but it won't inspire me to write a return message.
- Don't send me your fantasy of the month, I can write my own erotica, and probably much better than you, I find it impolite at best, and offensive at worst.
- Attaching a picture is fine, of yourself or of an item or topic, but make sure it is appropriate, I can find much nicer sexual art elsewhere on the internet.
- I like asking questions about people, and I like being asked questions. Giving me a long winded self description is probably the fastest way to make my eyes glaze over.
- I don't mind some chat speak such as 'lol', 'lmao' or others, but when it gets to the point of using 'r' and 'u' I'll probably lose interest. |
