| I am: short, zaftig, red-headed, blue-eyed, Pagan, polyandrous, and kinda poor! Enjoy reading, writing fiction (erotic, of course!), poetry, painting, sculpting, trying new experiences. I love fine dining (and not-so-fine dining), getting nice gifts just because I'm me, and getting my way.
READ all of this, if you want me to talk to you:
Go to the "Ask a Mistress" forum. Read the FAQs. Select the link at the bottom of the FAQs ("CMail help: How to contact a Dominant Woman"). Then, proceed with the following:
Demonstrate that you've read my profile - not just the first line, not just viddied my picture. If you want my attention, make sure you note my words and my interests, as well as my looks. Comment on similar interests, ask me about something you don't understand or wish to know more about. Read my journal entries.
I am NOT interested in online "Dominance," getting you your get-off or chat. So, please, don't ask.
My profile is long. So, go get yourself a cup of coffee and a piece of pie. It's okay, go get. I'll wait...
You are: SINGLE and HERE - or close enough that you can get here whenever I call for you; or looking to relocate and have the funds to return home, if it doesn't work out. Preferably petite-ish (5'6" - 5'10" and not badly overweight - twinks or moderately muscled with a pinch is fine), somewhere between the ages of 25 and 40-something, not a hard-headed challenge, nor hard-core religulous. Goth, tatted, or plain-clothes, straight or bi, and a lifestyle submissive - not just "sexually submissive," *snork!* I have no use for the useless.
You are useful only if your goal is to satisfy my needs, by MY definition, by MY definition, by MY de-fi-ni-tion - not your own.
Want bonus points? Ask me how! (There's an Amazon "wish list" in there, somewhere.)
I'm not terribly pretentious, but I do like some elements of high-culture: Literature, theatre, music (opera, musical theatre, country and rap are O-U-T), fine film and fun flicks, travel to foreign lands (buy me a ticket and I'll go! Sure!), fine wine and good sushi, oh, just ask me. (Yeah, I mention food, a lot. It keeps me "well-rounded!")
Please read on if you are a "real submissive" or, better, a "real slave." Those who submit only to what *they* desire do not meet my definition of "submissive." That makes you a bottom - NOT a submissive. While negotiations are essential, prior to commitment; those who believe they may dictate their own terms, beyond maintaining the right not to be damaged physically, financially and emotionally do not meet my definition of "submissive" or "slave."
I am looking for slave/submissive males with whom to forge real, local relationships -someone (or two) to hang out with, date, and beat the hell out of.
Ultimately, if we are compatible, you may become a member of my household. When the time arrives, we can negotiate whether you live with me full-time or stay part-time (occasional days and nights). I won't take on more boys than I can feasibly care for properly. I know my own limits.
You don't have to have a college degree, but must be able to hold, or, at least follow, an intelligent conversation. (No discourse on huntin', fishin', WWF, atvs or spit 'baccy, okay?)
Those who will meet my needs and desires and are willing and capable to learn to anticipate them are the kind I seek. Full (but private) power exchange desired.
Read checklists for other likes, loves and lives fors.
Now, if you know you don't qualify, but just want to talk about life, the universe and everything, I welcome that. This, "Gosh, you're pretty" stuff is all very well (and thank you), but it doesn't have anywhere to go, if you can't or won't get yourself here.
After you've read this entry, if you wish to try the waters, drop me a line.
Ta!
Music: Queen (hence the first part of my name), Bauhaus, Cure, Joy Division, Siouxsie, Echo, Soft Cell, Ministry, NIN, Cocteau Twins, Perfume Tree/Veloce, Narada and Windham Hill compilations, Kottke, DiMeola, Klugh, flamenco, baroque, romantics, Bartok, Dvoräk, classical piano, cello and guitar, Loreena McKennitt, Sinéad O'Connor, Kate Bush, REM, U2, MC5, Traffic, 808 State, Coldplay, Thin Lizzy, there's more, but really?
Books (A short list): SF/fantasy (fave authors: Gibson, Herbert Sr., Cherryh, Varley), linguistics, foreign languages (teaching myself Spanish, relearning French, attempting to learn Italian, hoping to learn Portugese, should consider Latin), cultural anthropology, mixology, and a very rare commodity indeed - good BDSM lit. (Mostly my own.)
Fine Films and Fun Flicks: Mostly fantasy and SF - Serenity, Highlander (there should have been only one), some classics like Casablanca, Meet John Doe, Comic book hero and graphic novel turned film, My Own Private Idaho, Buckaroo Banzai Across the 8th Dimension, Shawshank Redemption, Mr and Mrs Smith, Edward Scissorhands, Grosse Pointe Blank, vampire genre (but, only the good ones) Interview with the Vampire, Queen of the Damned (yes, I do like it and I have watched it many times. shut up.), series: HP, Pirates of the Caribbean (just wish that tw*t Kiera Can'tactherselfoutofapaperbag wasn't in it), Matrix, LoTR, even Star Wars (could have been a good story - great special effects, though) |
