PLEASE READ MY PROFILE FULLY BEFORE CONTACTING ME.
Just an odd woman trying to figure out who I am sexually ever since a dom declared me, "Too submissive for vanilla sex, and too vanilla for kinky sex and no true dominant is going to waste his time with you."
While it angered me at first, it did give the incentive I needed to get out there and start trying to find answers to the questions I've have most of my life. Slowly but surely, I'm finding them, and I'm happy with what I've discovered.
For the most part, I lurk here finding answers to my questions and new insights in the message boards. I'm not actively looking for anything other than friendship at this point. I have no interest in being a slave or relocating either, I am submissive in the bedroom only.
While I am not against meeting people from this site in real life, I need to be perfectly clear in what I am looking for. I'm at a point in my life where i want to find the mythical 'special someone.' Finding that person involves meeting, getting to know them and how they are in a vanilla relationship FIRST and then exploring the kinky side (if there is one) after we've built a relationship based on mutual trust, attraction, and respect.
As for what I am looking for in a man/dom, I would prefer someone with at least a few similar interests as myself both in D/s and regular hobbies and activities. Since I'm looking for something long term I would prefer nobody more than 10 years older than myself and my limit is 40. Physically, I don't mind a man with a few extra pounds as I myself am a larger girl but if you are overweight to the point that just going out to do outdoor activities (swimming, hiking, etc) is a serious challenge, then I'm not interested as I enjoy physical activity myself and want a person who can keep up, if not lead the way! Haircolor, eyecolor, and other physical features are irrelevant to me provided that you believe in good hygiene and practice it daily. The one exception to this is facial hair. I know that it's very popular but I find it very unattractive, this is my own little hang-up that I've had my entire life and it will not change.
I also am absolutely NOT INTERESTED in a long distance relationship of any sort. I have tried them and discovered that for my schedule and living situation, LDR's DO NOT WORK. Please do not contact me assuring that you are willing to travel, even at your own expense to visit me whether it be regularly, or once in awhile, I am not interested in this. Having said that, please do not message me trying to get me to change my mind about this or chiding me for "being too uptight/having too many rules," as this will earn nothing but my contempt and your message deleted, and my mind even more firmly set to these rules. Similarly, DO NOT contact me asking to have cyber-sex, or perform on camera for you.
***WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.***
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