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Everything you know is real,
That's the first part of the deal,
Less than partner, more than pet,
And if you think you've had some loving -- HA!
Ain't seen nothing yet.
A few things that I must state first before anything else:
I do not hold with the new tradition that has cropped up over the last decade or so of all subs/slaves calling all dominants Sir/Ma'am/Master/Mistress/Whatever.
Forcing the use of a title lessens the power behind that title.
Thus, I do not expect a sub/slave/whatever who is not under my wing to call me anything but my name.
However I will not correct anyone who calls me "Sir" simply due to upbringing or if she feels uncomfortable not to do so.
Likewise, I do not abide by the assumed service and respect which wannabe doms think is owed them from any sub they encounter.
Respect and service are EARNED. It's not an entitled right from any chucklehead that calls himself Sir Master Grand High Poobah or whatever other silly online moniker they've assumed.
Only a weak person needs to DEMAND something that his presense and actions do not do on their own.
I don't view either gender as significally more or less suited towards dominance. There are some women who are well-suited to run things. There are many men who are not capable of running their own lives.
The role suited for you is determined by the head and the heart. It's not predestined due to what lies between your legs or within your chromosonal makeup.
If any of the above bothers you; think twice about messaging me.
... now that we have THAT is out of the way ...
I'm a smalltown man with a big city heart. In my lifetime, I've seen every continent save one. And frankly, I can do without visiting Antarctica. I adore the cold. But that's taking it a bit far for my tastes.
I lived in Buffalo New York for the eight years prior to moving back to within spitting distance of the eastern shores of Lake Michigan. Almost two years later and I still have issues with the change of pace.
Personality-wise I am fairly laidback in most things. I like to laugh. I am also a snarky smartass with humour which could be described as a tad caustic.
I am also the first one to admit when I screw up or make mistakes. Being in control of situations does not make one perfect. Failing to admit one's own mistakes is the fatal flaw which differenciates the dominant from the domineering.
This does not mean I hesitate at disciplining a sub under my command if she crosses the line into misbehavior. And I try to be most ... inventive in the ways I discipline my girls. :-D
I am open for all to contact me who are looking for a potential friend or mentor. I am not opposed to considering taking a lass under my wing if the spark is there.
But be prepared for me taking my time. I do not take a girl lightly. A dominant position is as much a responsibility as it is a pleasure. This seems to be something the typical online dom seems to have never learned.
Anything else you wish to know ... ASK
Thank all the idiots who message me claiming how much they enjoy my profile yada yada yada ... then ask me questions which are clearly answered in my profile for the following new rule.
Anyone who contacts me claiming to have read my profile must include the phrase " butter barley badgers " somewhere in the first message.
Those failing to do so will be put in my ignore file.
That way I can be fairly sure of who actually read the profile and who are simply soulless scammers who are doing nothing but wasting the time of real people who visit this site.
... A little update ...
Do not assume that my messaging you is an attempt to initiate a collar.
I actually enjoy *gasp* conversation for the sake of conversation. There does not need to be an ulterior motive behind chatting.
... Update the Second ...
I wrote this in my journal here about eight months ago. Certain twits who've messaged (or replied to) me caused me to add the entry up here in the profile area.
*** Well, it finally happened. I wondered how long it would take before I got my first, "You're not a real Dom!" message from someone here.
It would seem that a fair number take my kindness for weakness. That's as much a mistake here as it was when I was in the army. Only those who have something to prove to themselves have to be Billy Badass 24/7.
A confident man doesn't need to show the HARD LINE every waking moment.
A man who cannot laugh at himself has too fragile of a spirit.
That being the case, it is just as foolish for a "sub" to message me with that statement as it is for a "dom" to state the corresponding accusation about a submissive who doesn't immediately fall to his feet and worship him.
My style and method of D/s differs from a gorean. It differs from the "gender dictates position" type. It differs from those who's only experience in this comes from online chatrooms and fiction.
I am not the right master for every potential out there. Nor would I wish to be.
What I am is true to myself. Which is what I demand of any girl I take as mine. ***
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