I'm not looking for anything other than friends. I am monogamous (though I find poly fascinating) and I already have a boy.
What I am looking for are people with whom I can talk with about various aspects of bdsm. I was a submissive for a long time, but lately I've been leaning heavily toward domming my boy, so I finally updated my profile to say switch. Titles and labels are annoying, but it fits well enough for now.