| "It's better to light a candle than curse the darkness"
Long way 'till I finally got here, and don't expect it to be the end of my search.
I consider myself a switcher. If you consider yourself strong enough to make me want to be just one thing, give your best. I can accept the idea of having others to complete our sexual needs (only sexual), if you think that would be nice, let's talk about it.
I'm out and very straight forward, but I'm able to understand other people ways of living. I find ways of having fun, with others or on my own. I use to pay attention to the details, I am a demanding person sometimes, easy others. . . but I'll always let you now what I'm feeling. I have a few good friends, and care for them as if they were my younger brothers; I don't expect my partner to get along with them, but I expect him to respect them, as any polite man would. I'm not perfect; don't expect me to be right all the times. I like to laugh (yes, I'm a sadist, with a dry sense of humor), but most the time I act serious and focused at being a fair person, the best I can be.
Talking about sex, I'm clearly interested in S&M. I'm a beginner, but a fast learner. I've studied S&M lifestyle and its scenes for the past 10-11 years, but my real experiences started about 8 years ago. Far from me to make sex the most important thing in a relation, but I believe that if that is going to exist, it should be a complete experience; that would include S&M to me. If you're not interested in domination/submission, and think you can change my mind, good luck, you might succeed. But know this: right now I'm more inclined to have a LTR with no sexual activities rather than one with just "vanilla" sex.
I've been with types like: politicians, beauty models, business men. . . and after them I got tired of those who truly believe that their beauty or money alone can make them interesting people. Of course I want someone who is interested in taking care of me and, that's important, someone who'll let me take care of him sometimes. I agree it is important when developing a LTR to make your partner your priority. Beauty fades away, money is easily spent. Honesty should go on. I won't dismiss someone just because he's good looking, nicely perfumed, give me lots of gifts or have fine tastes (these would be wonderful things), but they're no prerogative for me.
What I'm looking for
Let's get real and worry about the important issue: the quality of our relation.
I hate instability, especially of ideas. If you're not sure about what you want from life, that's fine, I have doubts myself. At least try to be sure when starting a LTR with me. I don't get attached very easy, but once I do, I like to have more good times than bad ones.
I'm not a prostitute, so I give myself the right to decline any proposals that I find not worth to listen to. I hope you're able to respect that.
For more details about what I'm into or more pics of myself, drop me a line.
Peace to us all. |
