| I am here for friends and the message forums better known as Collar Chat. I'm not looking for involvement at this time.
If you send me an email equal to talking on IM, I'm not likely to bother replying unless I already know you, or I'm bored and in the mood to play with trolls. If you choose to contact me, be sure to tell me why.
I am a 41 year old submissive switch and masochist. I am active locally and attend parties and events monthly on average, sometimes more, sometimes less. I own 5 bdsm yahoo groups, three of which are local only groups, the fourth a discussion group, the fifth a group strictly for discussion of s/m play and implements, etc., plus a 6th group for reading enthusiasts. I also have my own bdsm message board.
If you are interested in checking out or joining my groups, message board, or becoming friends, drop me a line here. I will provide the links or you can use any or all of the three links in the signature of my forum posts. I am more than happy to talk with others as friends, but am likely to end contact if things are pushed beyond that, especially early in cmailing.
I have good friends in my area as well as a select few farther away. I am so very blessed with the friends I have in the community. I have several top friends who are more than happy to top me when opportunity presents itself; and I have several friends and acquaintances who identify similarly to me as well. Wonderful people who care and listen and offer opinions and I'm very happy to do the same in return.
I enjoy my time online in the forums here and my groups, and message board as well as reading, blogging, listening to music and spending time with family and friends.
Update 10-12-09: As of last month, I am now a part of The House of the Dark One by virtue of my long standing friendship and play partnership with thedarkonekc, who is the Head of the household. Still not looking for a relationship and still for the same reasons, only friends and play partners. I'm a regular play partner and friend to him.
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