I'm half of a Dom/Domme couple (ScooterTrash & ShiftedJewel) and we had what we considered to be a very functional and quite fulfilling Poly family, with us and a female slave, for several years actually. We didn't consider Poly as a fantasy, we felt it was a real dynamic which required work and cooperation by all, with benefits for all involved. I can't explain the failure, I'm thinking human nature just doesn't allow for multiple people to be honest with each other, but it would be sad if that was the case. No matter, it ended in a crash and burn when our slave simply left overnight, never to return. Poly is all about family, all for one and one for all and apparently something broke and we honestly do not know what. Are we interested in ever trying it again....I wouldn't rule it out, however it would take someone very special, but who knows? Scooter |