I discovered this community because this chick let me tie her up! That would be me!!! She crawled onto my lap and changed my life. On September 22, 2008, I took ownership of her. I tend towards dry and sarcastic humor with a touch of geek. I'm Quirky. That type of humor can translate poorly to prose so the f'ing emoticons will be employed as necessary. :-) My silly submissive is writing this with me (she's the one in purple), so pay no attention as she is currently delirious. And i really need spell check! Just sayin'. Don't mind the comments from the peanut gallery dispersed throughout. Her insertion of comments are the only insertions allowed (in me, that is...) That's not true Sir, my tongue gets to be inserted in all sorts of your places! Hah!
I was introduced to BDSM by my beautiful and perverted wife and Domme of 20+ years. OMG! She sure is both!! (how time flies!) Hi! Although I didn't know it when we first tied the knot (figuratively), I was serving as her domestic. Needless to say I was a bit surprised to learn, after two years of marriage, that she was in fact a lifestyle Domme and top (since 1978, actually). She was on hiatus during the first years of our relationship so as not to frighten me away ;-). I'm fixin' to frighten Sir away ... I had Mexican for lunch and Chili for dinner! And as I write this, I'm sitting on his lap! *giggles* Stuff a sock in it girl! Jeez... Anyway, my strict fundamentalist upbringing has pretty much been nuked into ash (cause he's dirty!) after so many years of observing floggings, single tail whippings, needle play, CBT -- my lovely wife has done it all! My s to her D is through service. I only s to her. I've always been a sadist and had secret fantasies about doing frightful and painful things to people. Must be a fundie xian thing ... (Jesus, that hurts!) I realized after sharing some of my truly twisted written fantasies with friends in college that the general populace doesn't take well to this; nor do the local constabulary. :-) It was established that I'm not a bottom through an unfortunate wax play accident which left me partially hydrogenated. I don't like receiving pain -- it pisses me off. He does like my teacups though!!!
Although I've had a broad spectrum of exposure to and one-off experiences of different play styles and techniques over the years, I've never chosen to explore the D side of the kneel, nor to top on my own. Pinchy Pinchy Pinchy!! My first real experience of what the D side feels like occurred way back in 1993 after I'd given a recreational massage to a close female friend of ours. She slid off the table, knelt in front of me naked and kissed my feet. (freakin' hot!) The rush I felt in that moment is still with me after all these years. Finally, after 15+ years, both mindset and opportunity have coincided in amazing ways. Now I'm finally getting what the big deal is thanks to my thoroughly delightful sassy submissive k. *blushes* - don't forget me Daddy Sir! The message boards are my primary interest here because of the broad range of opinions and experiences present. I've already experienced growth and learning thanks to all who have contributed here. I hope to add to the milieu as well.
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