**Added: I have been asked why I don't have a picture. I work for a very large and very conservative company. To protect my identity and my job, I do not post a picture but I do have some pictures that I am more than willing to share if requested.**
In reading about Dominance and submission, I am amazed at how little Dominants seem to care about the fit of their partner. How many choose to ignore their responsibilities to protect, nurture, guide, and strengthen.
It is my view, and my practice, to find someone that completes me. One that can give herself to my guiding hands. I am not a Dominant that will grab a woman and force her to her knees. I am the type that will live my life in my way, lead from the front of the battle lines, hold out my hands for her, and let her lay her head in them.
Strength, true inner strength, is gift I give to one that serves me. I am strict, but fair. I value the input the other will give, will take their counsel in all that I do, but in the end I expect the decisions I make to be followed to the best of their ability.
Also, I am a father of a 9 year old son. He will always come first with me. I am an active part of his life even though he doesn't live with me. My children (and yours if you have them) will always come first. You need to accept that because it will not change with me. I will NOT be an absentee father.
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