| Around 14 years ago, I discovered that the desires I had were not only not unique, but not even all that uncommon. I was able to put words to my inclinations and began to self-identify as a dominant man. The road from there to here has not been straight...nor has it been easy. Relationship difficulties, being outed by in-laws, divorce, and a bit too much drama for my liking made the trip arduous, but interesting. Not that it was all bad. I got to own a few slaves, in real life, which is something I have always wanted to do. But, again, a bit too much drama.
Seven years ago I met an amazing woman, who also self-identified as dominant. We worked on so many levels, that despite our inability to satisfy each others need to "toss someone around", we simply had to make it work. We got married in August of 2010, and have been very very happy, except when it came to needing someone to "toss around".
A few weeks ago, my wife found a "boy toy". (I have never been a jealous man, and, since the beginning, my relationship with my wife has been an open one.) This boy allowed her to exercise her dominant muscles, and it did wonders for our physical relationship. No matter how hard we tried, our two dominant natures always collided, and put one, the other, or both of us off. Yet, when she was able to do whatever she wanted with her boy, it removed that in our relationship.
So, with her explicit encouragement, I am now looking for a toy of my own. What, exactly, this relationship will look like in time, I simply do not know. I am looking for someone who wants to take an adventure...who knows where it might go. |
