| I have to say, that I do switch, but I am dominant.
Another thing is that this profile needs updating. I need to collect my thoughts, what's more how specific should I be ? Can I be happy with someone who's interests do not jibe with mine perfectly ? I think so. It all depends.
Honesty being the best policy I should mention that I am not a "hound dog". I don't even persue sex in the vanilla world, I simply have no interest in doing it the regular way. Oh yeah, sex is great, but it is not the main thing.
Giving and recieving pleasure are what it's all about, sex works, but it is not all that works, and after awhile some things work better.
The only problem now is getting along. I am a slob, so if you are a neat freak you might want to move along. I don't need a hell of alot of sex, but I'd like to play almost every night. So if you really are a nympho, you might want something else. Sex is, I dunno exactly how to put it, but there are so many other ways to get off that it is not center stage.
Now for a warning about me. Bondage to me is a real thing. Normally dominant, but bottoming, I expect to be treated the same, so no whining. Bondage IMO is not bondage until you are really tired of it. But I will not dish out what I cannot take.
After you cum a bunch of times, the first thing you want is out. You want to be held, you want to be warm. So do I. But that is exactly when bondage becomes bondage. That last half hour when you are exhausted and it is starting not to be fun anymore, that is when it sinks in. Even if we agree on a short twenty minutes, it may seem like hours. But it will be enforced unless the safeword is used.
After that you almost need to cuddle, and be warm. It is that aftertime that makes it meaningful, at least that is the way I see it.
My rig is secure, and I mean the firemen would have a hard time getting someone out without the key. Leather lined stainless steel. Even overnight they leave no marks. Everything is screwed to the floor. When I say don't go anywhere you may chuckle.
It feels so strong, and when you see those metal bands around your wrists, you'll know that you are not in control. But then wasn't that the idea ?
And then (this jibes with something else, someone I actually contacted), when playtime is over we have lives. I don't want a slave, I don't even want anyone to clean my house, nothing. I do not want a servant.
Although, if you come around, some people will figure it out, mainly because I am out to a few people and they know I wouldn't go after a gal if she weren't kinky. But that's all they got. Other than that, join the party, do your thing.
Those who are kink aware will be aware, those who are not will not.
Anyway, some people are into looks, not me. Looks do matter but there is alot more. But then some might not want to be with someone with features that might be described as grizzly. That would be me. But I have been described as a big teddy bear, and with my shoes off, as Fred Flintstone. I'll find a picture. CM bounced the other ones.
I don't know why but one was very poor quality and in the other I had a beer in my hand. Of course I am over 21, over twice that in fact, but maybe it was the brand name ? Never know. But now I have a digital camera, a real one. All I need now is the appropriate background, so check back.
All you have to lose is time.
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