| Hiya. I go by Val, or V, here on CM. I'll probably be willing to give you my real name if we meet face-to-face, or if we've been talking long enough. I'm a very feline, sadistic, straight dominant male in my mid-twenties. I'm in a polyamorous marriage with my kitten, AquaticSub, and possibly interested in finding another girl for myself or a partner for the both of us. Not really in any hurry on either count, because it takes time. If you're interested in either one of us, it's probably for the best to at least be able to get along with both of us. We've also got a couple's profile up, ValyraenandAqua, with some info that's not on our individual profiles.
We're both geeks, and both very much enjoy our geekdom. I love words, love to read, and I'm an absolute fantasy nut. Role-playing games, both table-top and computer/console, action games, strategy... basically, if it can enrapture me, I love it - Firefly, for example. I own all of Brian Jacques' Redwall series, love Anne McCaffrey, R. A. Salvatore... yeah, like I said, I'm a fantasy nut. I love movies as well, and have a soft spot in my black little heart for crappy action and horror movies - the worse, the better.
I refuse to take anything too seriously, particularly myself, and I've often said I can't stay serious for more than ten minutes at a stretch. I love to laugh, until my cheeks hurt and I've got to wipe my eyes, and the list of things I find funny is longer than the list of things I don't. I'm none too concerned with dignity, and have been known to break into moments of absolutely ridiculous behavior at the drop of a hat. I also do a pretty damn good Stitch impression, if I say so myself. So, if your ideal dominant is a stone-faced, imposing authority figure, I'm probably not the guy for you.
I'm very much more of a daddy dom, I'm coming to find. I'm a nurturer by nature and inclination, and won't hesitate to offer my advice or experience if I think that someone could benefit from my input. When I want to be, I'm very cuddly and affectionate... when I don't want to be, you're likely to get swatted. See above where I say I'm feline - I like attention on my terms, and I'm just too damned big to be swept up and snuggled against my will. So, I suppose you could say I'm an interesting bundle of apparent contradictions.
None too big on high-protocol or micromanagement, but I've got my moments of OCD, things that I like just so... I'm pretty easy-going, on the whole. I'm always game for a good conversation, so feel free to message me if you'd like to chat. |
