PLEASE NOTE: The position of dominant who drops by a few times a month for sexual service is no longer available.
The position now available requires far more of a time and energy commitment. In return it offers great benefits and numerous perks. Please keep this in mind when contacting about this posting.
I'm an assertive submissive, looking for more than just casual, kinky sex.
I'm not an intense masochist. I don’t enjoy pain for pain’s sake. I do, however, feel that there’s an interwoven dynamic between pain and submission, and I enjoy playing with that dynamic.
Cyber holds no interest for me nor does online BDSM or long distance relationships. I love my computer, but it’s just a tool, my life is what happens away from the monitor.
I’m not passive in nature, although I’m so deeply submissive that I sometimes use the word slave in reference to myself. That word, and its connotations, never fail to send intense shivers up my spine. Our definitions in this lifestyle are often dependant on whim.
Yes, there's a side of me (perhaps unrealistically) that longs to be owned, slave-like. Sometimes I warn myself "Be careful what you wish for..." But ultimately, I do hope to experience that feeling of truly belonging to someone; a possession of sorts, but an actively engaged one.
I consider my brain to be one of my finest assets. (Playfullness, is another!)
It’s my belief that being emotionally transparent is vital to a working D/s dynamic.
I’ve worked hard to become a skilled communicator, something I feel is essential to every healthy relationship.
I’ve also worked hard to hone my empathy skills. A submissive should be able to move in quiet harmony with their dominant, like a well-trained servant, filling a need with grace, and very little fuss.
[B]I don’t switch, I don’t seek out long-distance relationships, and I’m highly unlikely to be attracted to dominants under 40 years of age. I’m sorry, but men who are already in a relationship hold no interest for me. These guidelines have developed from experience, and they work best for me.[/B]
I appreciate anyone taking the time to read this whole profile. You’re welcome to approach me here with a polite email.
Play Safe, Play Often...Enjoy Life!
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