| For me, submission without love is as empty as ownership without it. At my side, I want a woman with a kind heart and keen mind as well as a submissive nature. I think such things are often overlooked.
I don't want a short term relationship, a "hi & bye" kind of deal. I want a woman to join my household as a partner, whatever our individual dynamic may be. I admit to being more drawn to women that identify as submissives rather than slaves, partly because I do not want to run another person's life. I do want to bring in someone service oriented, preferably bisexual, honorable, faithful and kind hearted into my house. My ideal woman is smart, sassy, understands sarcasm, is intelligent (there are many kinds of intelligence) and loving.
Honesty is also a big thing- if you're unwilling to talk with my on Skype or call me, please don't waste my time. I am 100% natural born woman and I'm seeking another woman for my home. If you're too chickenshit to talk to me verbally, I have no use for you and it'll make me think you're hiding something.
To the men, I am not looking for males in any context. Not PYL, pyl, whatever flavor of switch or any other type. I am aware that female PYLs can be difficult to find, but keep searching. At least I'm upfront and honest about it. I won't friend you, I won't chat with you and if I do respond to your messages it won't be what you want.
In my life I have a husband that I adore who understands that I am seeking something more. While I would like my husband and my girl to be friends, nothing more is required or asked for between the two. If things work out and we can all play together, great, but its not my primary or even tertiary goal here.
What I won't do:
Anything involving animals, children, the consumption of bodily waste products be they fluids or solids, or anything that causes permanent harm in a negative way. I won't help you cheat on your spouse. I won't cheat on mine (cheating is something done without your partner's knowledge/acceptance in my book). I don't do cybersex or role play via messenger because honestly, I don't get anything from it.
Want to know more? Ask me.
PYL/pyl stands for Pick Your Label for Dominant/Top/Master/Mistress/etc and submissive/slave/bottom/slut-toy/etc. |
