" Married couple. He is dominant and straight, she is switch and bi.Honesty, trust, and se..."

Married couple. He is dominant and straight, she is switch and bi.

Honesty, trust, and security are all important to us.

We have about 12 years of experience in the lifestyle and have been a couple since 1993.

Not into cybersex, but very interested in corresponding with bi females to determine compatibility and suitability for real-life activity. That could mean a potential house girl or just casual friends with or without benefits.

We're enjoying being DINKs and bought our first house in march 2007. With the house we now need a house girl. As there are no children in our past or future, we intend to have a sub to mold and nurture even as she serves. She might be a full time member of the family for BDSM and vanilla activities. One who's devotion shall not go unrewarded just as her missteps do not go unpunished. The exact details are negotiable and will depend a lot on the personality and makeup of the girl. We have considered more severe M/s situations as well as more relaxed relationships and really it will all come down to chemistry. Finding the right rules for the right person.

She should be adaptable and enthusiastic. A girl with intelligence is a bonus. In any event she must not be put off by intelligence. She must enjoy learning new things and experiencing new things. A good traveller would also be a bonus. Must be at least decent at housework and willing to learn to be good at it. An interest in massage (giving and recieving) is a bonus but not necessary. (He was a massage therapist for 10 years and taught massage for a while as well).

Absolutely no smokers. Infrequent drinker prefered. Must be honest about history and health, though a perfect record is not required.

Should be our age or younger.

Must be truly bisexual (no "curious")

We've recently been re-examining our needs. Previously we had thought more of a "sister sub" but now it's clear we need a girl to co-own. She needs to be at least somewhat service oriented.

Above all we seek a healthy and realistic relationship. One that might not easily fit a mold but that will stand the test of time.

She must have a need to be made into something more than she is.

Baby steps are expected. In other words we do not expect to find a perfect girl who simply steps into the perfect role the first day, or week, or month.

Likely the relationship will begin on a limited basis with clearly defined expectations and limits. As time goes by and affections, understanding, and needs increase, so should discipline and expectations. On the other hand perhaps a particularly twisted girl will decide to just enter our dungeon and never leave

The girl will have some leeway regarding social activities according to her needs: perhaps she might frequently go out and enjoy the party life or perhaps she might be the quiet house girl as personality dictates. On the other hand a girl might need more control and that is also a possibility.

She would attend to us in private and ocasionally in public in both scene and vanilla contexts.

She would gain new skills as Master and Mistress see fit. She might be sent to school, or not.

Hopefully all of this will help whoever might read it to know whether she should be in touch with us.

Leto and j