I have a Daddy Dom and he doesn't wish me to meet with others for play any more, so I've deleted those aspects of my profile. I continue using this profile instead of some other one, because all my friends know me as YHMA. I do not wish to start over and explain to every one who may have known me, I am so and so and this is my new name.
I am in a committed Daddy, little girl relationship.
I am extreamly loyal to him, and I have a strong sense of integrity with in our relationship. Do not think, you can be the exception to that, and that I should * or will* keep secrets from him or do things I know are wrong just cause you want something from me.
.Your excuses and justifications that he'll never know , and plenty of others do it, will not sway me. I'll block and stop all contact any one I find who has ulterior motives other than platonic friendship and comradery.
Daddy will be aware of all friendships I make and maintain, and he may be a part of my friendships with others, IE We may all hang out, all go do something too, since he's a part of my life. I want him to know those I am hanging out with.
Daddy and I are live in. He moved in with me and my family in February.
We live with my parents, I have all the freedom and privacy of any other adult, I come and I go as I need to and do as I wish, and they do not pry into the business of my life, so hopefully this little tidbit doesn't put any one off, and if it does "oh well."
I don't drive, never learned how and with my bad eyesight, and other considerations I don't believe it's wise to be behind a wheel. You'd be doing all the driving and I'd help out with gas, or buying lunch when able to, or we'd split the cost of a cab fair if we wished to go somewhere and James was not going too.
I don't work, however being on SSI I have my own source of money and I am financially stable. I won't leach off any one, and nobody will have to "pay my way". I do not think my career status or not, is any valid reason to base a friendship or not on, However if you have issues with me not working I don't care please just pass me right on up..
I'm in poor shape physically and I am over weight, I also have a back injury that rears its ugly head every now and again, and would like to work on that. So any friends who had a desire in fitness and wanted to go swimming or for walks or other easy for beginners activities would be awesome as well.
You could be very into fitness or out of shape and trying to change that as well. Doesn't matter to me:) If you have issues with fat out of shape people, please just quietly pass me on by. Don't waste my time or yours sending insults or rude messages, they won't faze me and I'll just block you and report you for harassment.
I am a very friendly, bubbly, perky, quirky and out going person, and I am open to meeting new friends of any orientation, and new social experiences . I'm not a very private person as a rule, and I really don't believe in tmi,* to much information unless in extreme cases* and I seek friendships with like minded people, Who they themselves are not very private, and who themselves will not call the tmi card very easily.
I am a switch, Dom to women, Bottom to men, a bottom, will play with any one cause being a bottom is about the situation and the play but a bottom who is dominant in their play desires and I am a baby girl, and I am a cat persona.
I have a Daddy dom, and we're live in 24/7. We've lived together for a year almost 2. We've been together though on an average of 4 years. It is ironic that I say daddy DOM, because I really do not give him the chance to dominate me or control me, I am very bossy and I am always calling the shots, or demanding to or attempting to.
I am a very fun loving and down to earth person and am easily approachable,
who enjoys crafting, photography reading, video games, and being a forum whore lol. I love to be on as many forrums as possible, I enjoy being amongst them and reading them and participating in them, and often get bored with just being on one or two since my mind goes a billion miles a minute and most groups are to slow to keep me fullly interested on a regular basis.
I am currently exploring the thoughts of making my own ageplay clothing, hats and accessories, and stuff, and making my own bdsm toys like customized paddles.
Anyway I am very approachable, and very friendly and I LOVE to chat appropriately of course, for i have a daddy and won't chat about leaving him or playing with you behind his back or trying to convince him he should let me play with you So feel free to come chat me up. And certainly feel free to contribute to any threads I may make, or comment on my comments in said threads.
You must be able to show up in public with us, this will not be a bedroom only or discreet only friendship
It would be lovely to make local friends and those close enough to get together regularly, to hang out with, socialize with go to Bdsm events including classes, and things like Folsom street fair with. I don't much care for munches, they tend to be rather boring in my eyes, but I would consider going with friends.
You MUST be drug free. this of course does not apply to any medical prescribed drugs, just illegal drugs and recreational drugs.
I would like to ask no smokers, and and should we become friends anyway if you do please do not smoke while with me or around me or just before coming to meet me. It's a very offensive habit and frankly one I think stinks. I do not wish to be exposed to.
NO SEVERE MENTAL ILLNESSES or ones that interfere regularly with your life. Serious mental illnesses and ones that interferers with your life regularly are deal breakers. I am sorry to say but numerous past relationships with people who had mental illnesses have burnt me out on being with or around people with serious mental problems. .
You must not be cheating on a spouse or significant other if you want to create a friendship. I have no tolerance for cheaters or liars.
Daddy has a dog, you must like animals, because liking animals is a character trait in people that's important to both Daddy and I, and disliking animals is a deal breaker, pretty much with us both loving animals as we do. Ginger is around 7 She's a Springer Spaniel Collie mix. She takes a while to warm up to strangers, but when she does, she's good to go.
I am a fan of horror movies, if you liked them too it'd be nice, because they're the only type of movie I can't get any one in my family, including Daddy to watch.
Some of my other interests I enjoy are renaissance fairs, no experience with SCA would like to but so far just the fairs. Bdsm events, going out to dinner, trying new alcoholic drinks sometimes while at dinner. Crafting, I do a wide assortment of crafts, Reading, video games, expanding my many collections.
Some of the items I collect are stuffed animals, mainly teddy bears, Books, video games computer games, horse figurines, candles, basically anything that interests me. And of course I have an interest in buying Bdsm toys. One day it'd be nice to have room for some of the bigger items.
I'm interested in all kinds of outdoor activities such as camping, going to the lake, nature walks, ect ect, but currently am not involved in any such activities though I'd very much love to be, I just would like to share those activities with a group of friends, and well right now, there's a severe lack of people to go with. I'm also into photography, and I love to take digital pictures, and I think I have a good eye for what'd be a good photo, and I enjoy that hobby very much. I am an amateur at that hobby, since I don't know things like shutter speed and ISO and stuff, but I've gotten a lot of complements on the pictures and subjects I photograph.
I dislike loud noises, loud music, noise for noises sake,* IE having the radio on just cause you can't stand silence* and I most especially hate being trapped with it i.e. in a car while you're driving or in offices or dining establishments. My ears are very sensitive, and after a short while my head begins to hurt, so please, if you like loud noises crowded busy loud places, or loud music, be aware that I am sensitive to such environments and try to respect that.
So if we're hanging out and I ask you to turn it down or express a need for quiet it's not cause I am rude, or trying to put down any ones tastes in music, IF I ask you to turn it down or if we could turn it off for a bit, it truly is disagreeable to me and most likely is having a negative effect on me.. After a while of being surrounded by noise I can't get away from or have no choice of being subjected to I begin to feel all stressed and up tight and cranky, you know I feel the way a cat who's seen a dog does lol.
I enjoy movies, mostly horror like I stated earlier, but not limited to horror alone. I enjoy comedy, kids movies, and fun easy going movies. I rent all the movies I get from blockbuster, and I have a Que with 900 movies and I am always adding more. I've exceeded the allowed limit and now have turned my attention to building Daddies Netflix account up with more of my choices hehe.
I like going to play parties with Daddy; we try to go to one at least every month. Master's Den is probably one we'll be going to most often. This year's major events I want to go to will be Kink in the Caribbean, in November, happens to be a bit before my birthday to so if we get to go happy birthday me!! SM Odyssey and the Folsom street fair. Eventually I'd like to get to attend the leather Carnival in New Orleans, and I'd like to go to other events such as the Dark Odyssey in Maryland. And any others that we become aware of that interest us, should we be financially and time wise able to go to, will be on the list of must sees.
Traveling is a huge interest of mine, and if it's travel for a Bdsm event, and if Daddy can come, well woohoo mores the fun.
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