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 afireinsideSD

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 San Diego 

 California

 Willing to Relocate

 6'0"

 130 lbs

 23

 Middle Eastern

 01/07/05

 11/20/08

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I've been doing a lot of that thing people call "thinking."  I suppose it has it's uses.  It seems the more I think the more I figure out.  But then again, isn't that how it's supposed to work?

As of now, in this early stage of my life, I've lived on both sides of the tracks.  I've been submissive to a few Dommes, all of which had their own style, their own desires, their own expectations etc etc.  Basically they were all different, some for the better some for the worse. 

I've also had my own fair share of Dominance.  Despite what I used to think about 4 years ago, I am quite capable of comfortably embracing my natural Dominance.  It's doesn't feel forced or diluted (at least from my point of view) and despite the lack of interest I have in receiving pleasure from pain, I actually relish in administering pain for someone else's pleasure.

In any case, I couldn't quite say which state of mind I am more in tune with.  A lot of people might say that switching is a cop out, but I think it's just for people who need to figure out exactly what makes them tick and when it comes down to it, one needs to test the waters before jumping in.

With all that said, I am open to either side of the spectrum.  I have a decent amount of experience with the things I have tried, but I am always wanting to do more.  I don't really care if someone isn't experienced because everyone needs to start somewhere.  I am perfectly comfortable at your feet, or having you over my knee.

One thing, there are a lot of crazy people in this scene.  I will not even consider meeting anyone until I've spoken to them on phone at least once.  If you're nuts, stay away, I can't deal with crazies.

As for LTR, I am open to it.  However, I am NOT interested in a 24/7 lifestyle.  I like to live my life normally most of the time, with kink being an outlet for sexual desires and a great way to spend time with someone.  With that said, I have a strong sexual appetite and I love to think of new exciting ways to fit bits and pieces into life outside the bedroom.  In the bedroom, well, the possibilities are endless.

NO GAMES PLEASE, BE REAL, BE SERIOUS AND BE SANE.


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