" I guess this is where I tell a little about 'me' - Just to clarify - I am not looking fo..."

I guess this is where I tell a little about "me" - Just to clarify - I am not looking for a relationship. I am looking for friends and to extend my network and if play should come of it (Please see remainder of profile) then so be it.

I am a 26 year old female based just outside London, a short train/tube ride away, I don't fit well into boxes (unless they have bars on the front *weg*) as I am a little bit of a mixture, BDSM wise I am a switch sexually sometimes with females but lifestyle wise a sub to the core, there’s also a streak of sadism thrown in, also have been known to be a Daddies girl. I am a curvey girl so if your after a thin/boyish figured woman then it isn't me!

Style wise I guess I class as alternate/goth/fetish style of dress though I can easily blend into a "vanilla" environment. I like rock/metal music as well as some pop, soul, jazz... a little of everything really. I also love to write poetry, read, sing, watch movies and do a million and one non lifestyle related things. I am articulate and enjoy using my brain; I believe a good mind is a tragic thing to waste.

I am in a somewhat unusual relationship situation I will admit, I am engaged to a wonderful man in a vanilla relationship, and I have the most amazing and wonderful Dom that I love deeply and so I am not seeking any sort ownership etc. His name on here is Dominus and yes before anyone asks I am totally honest, I do not do cheating in any way, shape or form and in fact I abhor it. I sometimes play with others non-sexually, CP etc but this is really secondary, I don't meet people just to play, if I play with someone they will be someone already close to me and trusted. Please do not bother messaging me if all you want is a quick screw because I'm not the girl for you. All "Play" I do with men is non sexual.

Regardless of if I am in a relationship or single I am not instantly physical and even when single I will not fuck or suck on a first meeting just because I am sub and thou art Dom, I don't work like that, I have respect for myself and for my body and being sluttish is very different to being a literal slut which is something I am not - some do and that is fine for them I however prefer not to. I do not do casual sex, I do play non sexually with several people dear to me but I am not the local bike so please, to cut the amount of mail that comes in from guys looking for an easy lay, lets just say don't bother then you wont waste either of our time :)

I have been involved in the scene and lifestyle for several years now and have come to the realisation that part of what I enjoy most is the struggle so to speak, yes I can bend myself over a bench and count strokes like a good girl, the majority of my experience and training has been along those lines but I have found over the past year or so that I really rather prefer a little fire, It all sits so much better with me if I am "Beaten"  Maybe this makes me less submissive I don't know, I am not rude nor an I uncouth I just have my own form of personal preference. I am also very much into mind control and have started to develop interest in hypnosis and NLP - I am fascinated by how the mind works including mine and always interested in finding out where the boundaries lie and feeling Master push them.

I am always interested in talking to and meeting new people and experiencing new things, I enjoy fetish clubs and events and socialising,

I would also like it noted that I do not discuss sex with strangers so those that ask me intimate personal questions straight off will find them selves ignored rather quickly, what I do with my Partner/s is between us, not every Tom, Dick or Harry that wants to know so those that e-mail me with questions like "Tell me what your man does to you, does he do..Etc etc" Expect to get a short sweet two word response. 

In a general sense, play wise I’m into a lot of things, particular fetishes being breath play, edge/fear play, humiliation, degradation, CP, knives and swords, face slapping, anal play, fisting and I'm developing a love of shibari and suspension.

I like to go out and am quite a social person sometimes, other times I'm quite a loner, I'm usually at the Watford munch and also enjoy going into Camden market and spending the little money I have on interesting clothes, my main clothing addiction being steel boned corsets but also keen on latex, velvet, anything slightly unusual with a little bit of the style I class as "me".

Outside of the scene I am reasonably bubbly, I enjoy mixing with different social circles and when doing so can be both the lady and the tramp which is always an advantage.

I like tattoos and piercing, I believe the body is beautiful and whilst I don't look like a painted lady I view my tattoos as art, I have my ears pierced and my hood and nipples - also considering inner labia piercing (oooh the possibilities!)

I can't think of much more to say here, I'm thinking that anyone who is interested to know more will most likely ask, feel free to PM me on yahoo or msn for a chat or drop me a memo, I am quite a blunt person and tend to speak my mind but am easy to get used to. Please be aware however that you are more likely to get a reply if I feel that you have read my profile - if it is obvious that you have not bothered to read my profile then I am unlikely to respond to you on principle, If someone msgs me because they find me interesting but if you message every girl in the hope that one will help you get your rocks off, that isn’t me x.

Dia