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MischievousWench - View Full Profile   View All Photos

Straight Female Submissive
Age: 44, Height: 5ft 10in (178 cm), Weight: 166 lbs.
Location: Massachusetts

Last on 5/19/13 at 8:24 AM

I've been on this site 19 days now, & I have just changed (not drastically in terms of content, but definitely in some VERY IMPORTANT ways) the profile description that I first wrote the majority of 19 days ago:  The following was posted by me on 5/16/13:   ***If you smoke cigarettes AT ALL then PLEASE do not waste my time or yours by contacting me?  I will not EVER become intimately involved with any man who smokes cigarettes-NO EXCEPTIONS-not even if I just happened to bump into 'the man of my dreams' & noticed that he had a cigarette in his hand:  I WOULD WALK AWAY!   Intro:  I'm single-never married-no kids, & don't want kids-EVER=I'm not exactly your typical 'normal' or 'normative' woman.  I am a 'mother' to a 6 year old pug dog whom I LOVE TO DEATH, but that's it!  Good or Bad-that's as far as my 'maternal instincts' go, & if you happen to be the curious type who wants to know 'WHY' (ie WHY I am the way I am)-you'll just have to read all about it in my autobiography (if I ever get around to writing said autobiography), & even then you likely will still not 'really' know 'Why' anymore than I 'really' know...   So, I have been a member of this site for a whopping 19 days now, & I have reached the conclusion that I should not be limiting myself as being a 'Submissive Woman' who is ONLY ISO 'Dominant Men'.  You may or may not get a 'chuckle' out of the following 'confession', but when I first signed up to be a part of this 'alternative' site I 100% believed that ALL members of this site had to select only ONE option from the list of CHOICES when it came to what each member was actively seeking in a partner out here?  It was only very recently that I became aware of the INTRIGUING to me fact that there were men on this site who had listed themselves as being a certain way yet who were actively seeking out all different types of women!  When a DOMINANT man wrote to me & I noticed that his profile stated that he was ISO 'submissive women', 'dominant women', & 'switch women', I truly did not understand HOW this guy could truly be DOMINANT (since he didn't call himself a 'Switch' as did the ONLY guy from this site whom I've met with so far-a guy who ALSO didn't wish to 'label' himself or limit himself) yet want to be with Dominant Women as well as the EXPECTED by me 'submissive or 'switch ' women, but now I do 'understand':  It's simply called NOT 'LABELING' YOURSELF AS BEING ONLY 'one thing' ISO 'one thing', & it's what I've decided that I now want to do:  Not LIMIT the type of guy I'm ISO, since when it comes to human sexuality (especially when it comes to any person's 'kinky' side or POTENTIALLY 'kinky' side) there are ALWAYS 'grey areas' to be found & explored in ALL human beings...   I have come to realize via all the messages I have received/read & all the profiles/journals I have read that were written by 'DOMINANT MEN' ISO 'SUBMISSIVE WOMEN' that while I most definitely have 'Submissive Tendencies' I'm most definitely not submissive in the sense of what MOST of the Dominant men who have contacted me thus far have been actively looking for, & that's fine!  I don't have to be any 'one way' in order for me to be out on this site, & I don't 'have to' be interested in even chatting with men I'm not interested in even chatting with (let alone meeting in person).  If I'm not interested in you for 'whatever' reason you shouldn't get so ANGRY!  Just go find somebody who is RIGHT for you & allow me to do the same, because the TRUTH is that you may simply not be my physical 'type', & that's the reason why I'm not interested in pursuing anything further with you, OR you may not even have a profile picture posted that allows me to determine whether or not you are my physical 'type', OR you may be exactly/close enough to my physical 'type' but 'into' all sorts of 'things' (like 'Swinger's parties', 'orgies', 'couples', 'live in slaves', 'sharing your woman with other men/women', 'sleeping with other men', etc) that I simply WANT NO PART OF!   This is ALL so new to me.  I list myself as being Submissive because I know that I'm not Dominant, & I have to CHOOSE something from the list of CHOICES:  When I think of 'Dominant Women' my mind conjures up images of leather/latex clad 'Mistresses' holding crops & whips & constantly ordering around really wimpy men, & that's just not me!  I would 'occasionally' become 'that' OVER THE PHONE back when I used to do professional phone sex part time from home a 'lifetime' ago, & I didn't AT ALL enjoy doing those types of 'Mistress' calls=I wouldn't EVER refer to myself as being Dominant per se, but I do ADMITTEDLY 'live for' receiving massages, & I RECENTLY discovered (to my DELIGHT) that I also 'live for' having my feet/toes rubbed/kissed/licked/bitten, so I have now CHOSEN to still list myself as being Submissive but to not LIMIT myself to only being ISO Dominant Men.   P.S. A LARGE variety of 'things' that I will 100% ADMIT turn me on BIG TIME in FANTASY are not necessarily 'things' that I would feel at all comfortable doing in 'Real Life' unless such time arose that I had really gotten to know a particular guy much better & trusted said guy enough for me to be able to completely 'let go' with him sexually...  It's not like I'm looking for a 'Serious Boyfriend', but neither am I looking to experience a long string of 'one night stands' (been there-done that-NOT INTERESTED in going back to 'that'-EVER)!    ***I'm TRULY ENJOYING in & of itself being out here on this site because even if I NEVER wind up meeting any guy I 'click with' enough to explore my SEXUAL FANTASIES with IN PERSON I'm still having oodles of FUN 'playing' online=I'm BORED, & LONELY, & online 'FUN' is still better than nothing when I'm too scared & simply not (no longer) the 'type' to just DIVE INTO THE POOL HEAD FIRST*...   (*At this time in my life I wish to simply 'dip my feet in the shallow water', & then SLOWLY wade in & allow said water to eventually cover my entire body rather than to IMPULSIVELY DIVE IN THE DEEP END HEAD FIRST & RISK GETTING HURT VERY, VERY, BADLY-SORRY, but that is just how it is-HOW IT HAS TO BE.) As an 'aside':  A guy I recently met with via this site actually 1/2 apologized to me because he had not read 'ALL' of my journal entries.  I've been writing CREATIVELY practically since I was in diapers=I LIVE to WRITE, & I was thrilled to discover that this BDSM site actually had a place where I could share my WRITINGS with other members of this site, but I do not ever EXPECT any guy I start chatting with online, talking to on the phone, or even seeing IN PERSON to read even a single one of my journal entries let alone to read ALL of them.  I'm not like that!  My journal is for ME & for anybody (male or female) out there who 'feels like' reading my WORDS as a means to delve DEEPER into WHO I AM...  (THE END)   BTW:  Nearly all my pics were taken w/in the last 2 weeks, & as of EARLY this morning (5/16/13) I weighed 162.4 on a very accurate digital scale that I stepped on when I was completely naked & had not yet put a single drop of liquid or single morsel of food into my voluptuous body that stands 5'9 1/2 IN BARE FEET.        

ALL human beings who are old enough & fortunate enough to have "working parts" can give themselves one of "those".  I ACHE to finally experience sexually that which I have SADLY never experienced sexually in my life:  I WANT to be TEASED (& not just behind closed doors)!  When I met with that "Switch" 3 Saturdays ago I got just a "taste" of what I had been missing out on sexually my entire adult life, & now I've decided that if I can't have what I want from a man in bed then I would simply rather be all alone because it's just not worth it to me, anymore, especially since I'm not in any manner whatsoever ISO a "Serious Boyfriend" or "LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP"* (those types of life changing scenarios where I have ALWAYS had to sacrifice fantastic physical compatibility in favor of fantastic MENTAL COMPATIBILITY, since I could NEVER find BOTH in any man, & I've ALWAYS had to CHOOSE which one meant more to me).  At least this site (unlike other more "vanilla" dating sites) gives you some indication of what any particular person on here might be like in the sack?  (I also have ZERO interest in "sleeping around", so I guess I'm looking for something in between the 2 extremes?)

5/19/13 at 7:54 AM

MischievousWench - View Full Profile   View All Photos

Straight Female Submissive
Age: 44, Height: 5ft 10in (178 cm), Weight: 166 lbs.
Location: Massachusetts

Last on 5/19/13 at 8:24 AM

I've been on this site 19 days now, & I have just changed (not drastically in terms of content, but definitely in some VERY IMPORTANT ways) the profile description that I first wrote the majority of 19 days ago:  The following was posted by me on 5/16/13:   ***If you smoke cigarettes AT ALL then PLEASE do not waste my time or yours by contacting me?  I will not EVER become intimately involved with any man who smokes cigarettes-NO EXCEPTIONS-not even if I just happened to bump into 'the man of my dreams' & noticed that he had a cigarette in his hand:  I WOULD WALK AWAY!   Intro:  I'm single-never married-no kids, & don't want kids-EVER=I'm not exactly your typical 'normal' or 'normative' woman.  I am a 'mother' to a 6 year old pug dog whom I LOVE TO DEATH, but that's it!  Good or Bad-that's as far as my 'maternal instincts' go, & if you happen to be the curious type who wants to know 'WHY' (ie WHY I am the way I am)-you'll just have to read all about it in my autobiography (if I ever get around to writing said autobiography), & even then you likely will still not 'really' know 'Why' anymore than I 'really' know...   So, I have been a member of this site for a whopping 19 days now, & I have reached the conclusion that I should not be limiting myself as being a 'Submissive Woman' who is ONLY ISO 'Dominant Men'.  You may or may not get a 'chuckle' out of the following 'confession', but when I first signed up to be a part of this 'alternative' site I 100% believed that ALL members of this site had to select only ONE option from the list of CHOICES when it came to what each member was actively seeking in a partner out here?  It was only very recently that I became aware of the INTRIGUING to me fact that there were men on this site who had listed themselves as being a certain way yet who were actively seeking out all different types of women!  When a DOMINANT man wrote to me & I noticed that his profile stated that he was ISO 'submissive women', 'dominant women', & 'switch women', I truly did not understand HOW this guy could truly be DOMINANT (since he didn't call himself a 'Switch' as did the ONLY guy from this site whom I've met with so far-a guy who ALSO didn't wish to 'label' himself or limit himself) yet want to be with Dominant Women as well as the EXPECTED by me 'submissive or 'switch ' women, but now I do 'understand':  It's simply called NOT 'LABELING' YOURSELF AS BEING ONLY 'one thing' ISO 'one thing', & it's what I've decided that I now want to do:  Not LIMIT the type of guy I'm ISO, since when it comes to human sexuality (especially when it comes to any person's 'kinky' side or POTENTIALLY 'kinky' side) there are ALWAYS 'grey areas' to be found & explored in ALL human beings...   I have come to realize via all the messages I have received/read & all the profiles/journals I have read that were written by 'DOMINANT MEN' ISO 'SUBMISSIVE WOMEN' that while I most definitely have 'Submissive Tendencies' I'm most definitely not submissive in the sense of what MOST of the Dominant men who have contacted me thus far have been actively looking for, & that's fine!  I don't have to be any 'one way' in order for me to be out on this site, & I don't 'have to' be interested in even chatting with men I'm not interested in even chatting with (let alone meeting in person).  If I'm not interested in you for 'whatever' reason you shouldn't get so ANGRY!  Just go find somebody who is RIGHT for you & allow me to do the same, because the TRUTH is that you may simply not be my physical 'type', & that's the reason why I'm not interested in pursuing anything further with you, OR you may not even have a profile picture posted that allows me to determine whether or not you are my physical 'type', OR you may be exactly/close enough to my physical 'type' but 'into' all sorts of 'things' (like 'Swinger's parties', 'orgies', 'couples', 'live in slaves', 'sharing your woman with other men/women', 'sleeping with other men', etc) that I simply WANT NO PART OF!   This is ALL so new to me.  I list myself as being Submissive because I know that I'm not Dominant, & I have to CHOOSE something from the list of CHOICES:  When I think of 'Dominant Women' my mind conjures up images of leather/latex clad 'Mistresses' holding crops & whips & constantly ordering around really wimpy men, & that's just not me!  I would 'occasionally' become 'that' OVER THE PHONE back when I used to do professional phone sex part time from home a 'lifetime' ago, & I didn't AT ALL enjoy doing those types of 'Mistress' calls=I wouldn't EVER refer to myself as being Dominant per se, but I do ADMITTEDLY 'live for' receiving massages, & I RECENTLY discovered (to my DELIGHT) that I also 'live for' having my feet/toes rubbed/kissed/licked/bitten, so I have now CHOSEN to still list myself as being Submissive but to not LIMIT myself to only being ISO Dominant Men.   P.S. A LARGE variety of 'things' that I will 100% ADMIT turn me on BIG TIME in FANTASY are not necessarily 'things' that I would feel at all comfortable doing in 'Real Life' unless such time arose that I had really gotten to know a particular guy much better & trusted said guy enough for me to be able to completely 'let go' with him sexually...  It's not like I'm looking for a 'Serious Boyfriend', but neither am I looking to experience a long string of 'one night stands' (been there-done that-NOT INTERESTED in going back to 'that'-EVER)!    ***I'm TRULY ENJOYING in & of itself being out here on this site because even if I NEVER wind up meeting any guy I 'click with' enough to explore my SEXUAL FANTASIES with IN PERSON I'm still having oodles of FUN 'playing' online=I'm BORED, & LONELY, & online 'FUN' is still better than nothing when I'm too scared & simply not (no longer) the 'type' to just DIVE INTO THE POOL HEAD FIRST*...   (*At this time in my life I wish to simply 'dip my feet in the shallow water', & then SLOWLY wade in & allow said water to eventually cover my entire body rather than to IMPULSIVELY DIVE IN THE DEEP END HEAD FIRST & RISK GETTING HURT VERY, VERY, BADLY-SORRY, but that is just how it is-HOW IT HAS TO BE.) As an 'aside':  A guy I recently met with via this site actually 1/2 apologized to me because he had not read 'ALL' of my journal entries.  I've been writing CREATIVELY practically since I was in diapers=I LIVE to WRITE, & I was thrilled to discover that this BDSM site actually had a place where I could share my WRITINGS with other members of this site, but I do not ever EXPECT any guy I start chatting with online, talking to on the phone, or even seeing IN PERSON to read even a single one of my journal entries let alone to read ALL of them.  I'm not like that!  My journal is for ME & for anybody (male or female) out there who 'feels like' reading my WORDS as a means to delve DEEPER into WHO I AM...  (THE END)   BTW:  Nearly all my pics were taken w/in the last 2 weeks, & as of EARLY this morning (5/16/13) I weighed 162.4 on a very accurate digital scale that I stepped on when I was completely naked & had not yet put a single drop of liquid or single morsel of food into my voluptuous body that stands 5'9 1/2 IN BARE FEET.        

***You have to CRAWL before you can WALK...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

TAME fantasy #1:  To be with a man who can't keep his hands off of me IN PUBLIC-who is naturally inclined to whisper naughty things in my ears IN PUBLIC, but who will never do anything IN PUBLIC that might land one or both of us IN JAIL...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

TAME fantasy #2:  To be TIED UP & at the complete mercy of a man whom I 100% TRUST will never INTENTIONALLY hurt me (as in PHYSICALLY). 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

TAME fantasy #3:  To be with a man who ACHES to "devour" me from head to toe... 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

TAME fantasy #4    To be with a man whose UNBRIDLED PASSION is focused SOLELY on me as the willing & eager OBJECT of his UNQUENCHABLE Desire & "Thirst"...  (:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

(I hope you do realize that while these 4 "FANTASIES" are loads of FUN for me to "imagine" experiencing I would probably have to change into an entirely different person ON THE INSIDE in order for me to ever be able to "handle" even just one of these "fantasies" MIRACULOUSLY entering my reality for the very first time in my life?)

 

 

 

 

5/19/13 at 7:53 AM

SubSlutSlave11 - View Full Profile

Straight Female Submissive
Age: 35, Height: 5ft 6in (168 cm), Weight: 115 lbs.
Location: Philly area, Pennsylvania

Last on 5/19/13 at 7:50 AM

  PLEASE READ JOURNAL AS WELL; INFO THAT WILL BENEFIT   Had a profile, but was an Ode and tired of answering questions about it...     I am a normal girl who has some 'kinks', and am looking for a Dom/Master to help lead me into and navigate my darkness...to help coax my beast out.  I have a deviant mind,  and an appetite for learning.  I am eager and know I have an infantile mind when it comes to the lifestyle, but am willing to learn with One who can show me all.   He will be educated, intelligent, successful and know how to live life and have fun.  I am not looking for or want a Sadistic 'pain' person.  Mental is ok, prefer someone who can mentally stimulate or challenge me.     He will be my superior in all things, and of course I will recognize this.  NOT ALL MEN are greater than me, but Mine will be...has to be for me to have any interest. He can walk into a room and command it if He wished.  He will know that being kind is not a form of weakness, and that laughter can work wonders.   My mind and loyalty are a great thing to have as Your's...only if You can handle it.    

The profile pic is NOT me.  I do NOT have a baby (or any kids at all).  It's a piece from one of my fav artists.  So, in short; NO KIDS. JUST A PICTURE.

5/19/13 at 7:50 AM

QueenSassy66 - View Full Profile   View All Photos

Straight Female Dominant
Age: 46, Height: 5ft 4in (163 cm), Weight: 145 lbs.
Location: Willow Hill, Illinois

Last on 5/19/13 at 7:48 AM

~~~I AM 4 HOURS SOUTH OF CHICAGO~~~1 HOUR PLUS SOME TO  TERRA HAUTE ~~~1 HOUR WITH TRAFFIC TO EFFINGHAM~~~2 HOURS PLUS SOME TO INDY~~~   Hello Aall, I found My way back to CM :~) Found a good Man and moved from Maine to IL. Scenery shock!   ***I am looking for those serious about visiting. I am looking for those who need to be Dominated and are willing to compensate My time*** There are various ways to achieve this money is not always the answer***   Do you want to spanked or enjoy CBT(mild to extreme). Do you want to be tied down and spit on? I'm the One. Do you want to walked on? I am the one.I will hog tie you the use the crop and piss on you treating you like the useless piece of meat you are.I will put you in the corner like a dog with dog food for dinner. After that I will Make you clean My dirty feet. PLEASE DO ME A FAVOR AND LOOK AT MY LIKES,LOVES AND NO WAYS AM I DOING THAT. I HAVE FILLED OUT THOSE LISTS FOR A REASON.GO LOOK INSTEAD OF ASKING WHAT MY FAVORITE FETISH IS.I DO NOT HAVE A FAVORITE...THINGS I LOVE AND LIKE ARE WHAT I LOVE AND LIKE.ITS THAT SIMPLE PEOPLE.   *******I AM NOT LOOKING FOR SEX********* I am NOT a Sexual Dominant I AM a Sadistic Dominant. Any inquiries for sex or for 'servicing' Me will be deleted with NO REPLY,except maybe a nasty one because you cant read the rules.   I practice RACK and have the tools to hurt you until you cry. you can beg Me to stop but until I hear that magic word I will not stop. I can be kind at times so dont be afraid to write if you think I'm all about pain. Its not. Its about dominating you and putting you in the place you should be not just physically but mentally until you slip into the oh so special sub-space.   I AM NOT INTO HEAD GAMES. I AM NOT YOUR WHACK FODDER. Serious Ppeople will be talked to all others will be rejected.   I am NOT looking for a TPE as a live-in situation. ~~~~~I am looking for a part -time slave please see latest journal entry for info~~~~~I AM NOW ABLE TO DO WEEKEND SESSIONS~~~AFTER 1PM~~~ PLEASE NOTE: My Man lives with Me so that means I am not looking for a mate.   Looking forward to meeting Ppeople in the area.   Be Well, Queen Sassy66   Please call Me 'Miss' when communicating with Me. P.S. The room pictured is not the same room I have now.Like I said I relocated to IL. So the space I have now is a bit different. No pics yet sorry.I will be working on it maybe with the help of a special sub/slave who deserves to help? I am not a morning person at all. So dont even ask to be here in the AM. I also do not offer any overnight stays at this point in time. There is a hotel not far(15 miles) from Me.I will gladly meet you there and leave you chained for the night with a key frozen in a jug,just within reach. !!!!!!!!! ATTENTION: WILL BE ABLE TO SESSION ON WEEKENDS NOW !!!! AFTER 3pm!!!!! M-F 3pm-10pm are times when I am most available weekends are not always open.

anyone using the words "pussy" "cum" or "licking it up off My ass" will not be considered a serious request and will not be seen by Me ever. Dont even try to apologize and rewrite.Once its done its done.

5/19/13 at 7:48 AM

misssue2u - View Full Profile

Straight Female Dominant
Age: 51, Height: 5ft 10in (178 cm)
Location: Modoc, Indiana

Last on 4/19/13 at 7:47 AM

Still seeking a good lil cuck or sissy slave for live in. 
Good news! I have a play place again for all you bad little sluts and sissys and subbys that need punished!! Hurry and book a session!
5/19/13 at 7:47 AM
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MasterTortureFor - View Full Profile

Gay Male Dominant
Age: 61, Height: 6ft 0in (183 cm), Weight: 290 lbs.
Location: Phoenix, Arizona

Last on 5/19/13 at 2:38 PM

  NOTE: Read no further if it is a submissive personality(This includes those submissive personalities CALLING THEMSELVES SLAVES. I don't work with them so it can stop reading now.     I am a sadist and as a Master I torture my slaves in unusual ways. This torture is done on CAM ONLY and by my direction and is self inflicted. My slaves must wear a chastity device which locks their cock in between sessions with me. I use Skype and Yahoo to torture my slaves.   I am seeking TPE slaves(use Bing search for information regarding this term). My ultimate goal is to have my slaves give over Total power to me and I state rules for how to live their lives when I am not present. My slaves must follow my orders without question. If I give it an order and it does not follow it then it is a submissive personality maskerading as a slave. Furthermore if it does not follow orders then it should examine deeply it's own soul to find out if it is a hypocrite, someone whose words do not match it's actions. I find such persons repulsive and repugnant a.   I am a strict master who expects my slaves to do anything (except illegal activites). If it cannot live this lifestyle then it has no business calling itself a slave.   This recent journal entry encapsulates my approach:     I am down one TPE slave. He was insubordinate, not responding to my messages with even an acknowledegement that he was busy with a crisis(something he later claimed to be true, but his actions speak otherwise). After repeated warnings(2) on the third he was out. I revealed his secret life to his wife. He has responded to me in horror over what she might do(something he should have thought about earlier).       This is real life not role playing. So if it approaches me it had better be a slave and not a wannabe submissive. For there are real consequences.    

Beware of this slave:

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
slave4older89
 
 
Male Slave, 23,  Limassol, Cyprus
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

" looking to be owned 24/7/365 - willing to relocate      & n..."

 

That is slave slave4older89.  He is a liar and a runaway slave.  His promises mean nothing for he will say anything.

 

 

 

Beware of this slave:

 

 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
slave4older89
 
 
Male Slave, 23,  Limassol, Cyprus
 
 

 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 
 

 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

" looking to be owned 24/7/365 - willing to relocate      & n..."

 

That is slave slave4older89.  He is a liar and a runaway slave.  His promises mean nothing for he will say anything.

 
 
 

He is very dangerous and a psychopath

 
 
5/19/13 at 7:46 AM

wisbechslavegirl - View Full Profile

Bisexual Female Slave
Age: 36, Height: 5ft 6in (168 cm), Weight: 140 lbs.
Location: UK

Last on 5/19/13 at 3:15 PM

I am a proudly owned slave girl and I am currently looking for female playmates for my Master to have fun with, please message me if you're interested in joining us for occasional play sessions, preferably a sub or slave who likes pain.   IMPORTANT MESSAGE FOR DOMS: I'm not going to leave my Master; he is my world, so stop asking.  I'm not going to have sex with you either, unless it pleases my Master.   wsg x
I'd give anything to be in my Masters arms right now.......warm, safe, loved, protected xxxx
5/19/13 at 7:46 AM
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sugarspice927 - View Full Profile

Straight Male Dominant
Age: 53, Height: 5ft 10in (178 cm), Weight: 190 lbs.
Location: wilmington, North Carolina

Last on 5/19/13 at 12:00 PM

the exchange of power between d/s can be channeled. the direction of this energy will have positive or negative aspects. channeling this into venues that improve, enhance, or retrain the submissive. is my view of structural dominance.   just be yourself.  people are unique and thats their charm. introduce yourself if you are interested.   me?...oh, im master of the universe.    

please be yourself. having a sweet submissive that becomes disenchanted with obedience, discipline and service... is like having a crazy girlfriend that hates/loves you intermediately.

 

i am a dom that wont be jealous.

 

i have trained 2 women that once they understood and accepted their place.

 

i set them free. they both are different people than when we met.

 

both were submissive because they didnt have the confidence to make their own decisions. after training they saw themselves as capable, self sustaining and their self esteem has improved. thats the goal of a good dom. encouraging his sub to be the best. even when her best creates a vacuum that the dom cant fill.

 

allowing a submissive to blossom into her full potential. to be the person she desires to be... thats why i am dom.

5/19/13 at 7:46 AM

DogTrainr4NewPet - View Full Profile   View All Photos

Straight Dominant Couple
Age: 25, Height: 6ft 0in (183 cm), Weight: 200 lbs.
Location: Reseda, California

Last on 5/19/13 at 9:19 AM

I'm no longer a dog trainer :( but I am still looking for a new slave girl. :) I'm looking to own two beautiful, young slaves. I am well educated, with several areas of focus. My original line of education was in marine biology, animal training, and animal behavior/management. I have since studied engineering and business management. I am currently considering real estate or law. I'm also a bit of a Disney lover. I typically go twice a month to Disneyland, and have many friends who work within the park. As a result, I have an intimate knowledge and connections with the parks here in California. As for day to day life, I like animals. I have three dogs and three semi-exotic cats. I work buying and selling storage lockers much like the TV shows. I used to be a domestic and exotic animal trainer, as the name implies. I'm a huge nerd, fascinated with learning and building. I enjoy table top games as well as video games, but I don't obsess. Lately, I've been building and painting a lot, expressing my more creative side. I am a student, and plan to be for life. I feel that a person is only as valuable as their skills and actions, so pursuing education is my method of constant self improvement. I own two slaves currently and a total of five slaves in 9 years. I will introduce you to My slaves if you are interested. No, neither is not available for any form of use, and they shall be spoken to with the same respect you'd show your mother, sister, or daughter. She is not yours to treat like crap. I am after a poly home in which all participating slaves are committed for life. I believe that submission in service is a beautiful gift and should be cherished and not abused or exploited. It should be guided and directed towards the best for the family. It seems to me that most Doms don't appreciate that fact. I firmly believe slaves should have no limits and should be prepared for any and everything her Dom asks without hesitation or objection. Of course, I train to my tastes using both rewards and discipline. And I make my own collars from leather, metal, or both. Unfortunately, I'm not dexterous enough to make my own locks yet. What I seek is a woman who finds herself happiest when serving a Dom, who is bi, friendly, out going and social; yet submissive and well mannered. This girl should have skills in cleaning, massage, and basic organization. Also, she should be pet friendly, fit, and eager to please. I expect she be able to contribute to a family beyond being a whipping post, locked up in a cage, only around for entertainment. I'm a sucker for petite, young, and flirty girls. I prefer thin to average girls, who have fair skin, hair, and eyes. I'm sold on pretty eyes, though. Looks don't mean much if there's no substance under the skin. Above all, she should be a friend and family to me and my current slave. This means she must share some interests with us, as well as bring some new ones to the family. It also means we must be able to trust and respect each other. Trust is earned, respect is given. I expect everyone follows this.
I think I've completed My search. I have two very loving, obedient slave girls and a very good potential for the third. I thank everyone who has submitted their offer, or reviewed Mine. Please feel free to message Me for conversation, or throw in a last second attempt. Who knows, right?
5/19/13 at 7:45 AM

BossLady4You - View Full Profile   View All Photos

Straight Female Dominant
Age: 59, Height: 5ft 6in (168 cm), Weight: 180 lbs.
Location: Myrtle Beach, South Carolina

Last on 5/19/13 at 3:12 PM

“Is there anything more attractive than a handsome, intelligent, accomplished man on his knees, with his head down and his naked butt up in the air, in the classic posture of submission?”   She was mocking him now, deliberately heightening the feeling of degradation he was experiencing.   As she talked she tugged lightly on the leash that helped hold him in this humiliating position.   'You will obey me, won't you now?'   to be continued at end of profile........ I am a single, attractive, gregarious, intelligent, sensitive, sensual, dominant female seeking a long term relationship.    I desire a successful professional, articulate and educated gentleman who, in private, is a submissive.  It is a strong man who can surrender his power and submit.  This would be vanilla on the outside, kinky on the inside!  You must be alpha in your daily life, seeking balance through service and discipline.  I see it as the Yin-Yang of life.      For the record, I earned an MBA and have considerable business experience, so I understand the world of top level executives and entrepreneurs.     Ultimately, I seek a harmonious and monogamous relationship that would include intimacy, servitude and ownership.  I expect obedience at all times and do believe in discipline!  If you earn it; I will administer the reward or punishment (all in perception) you crave from your Mistress!     Sincerity, integrity and honesty are qualities that are critical to any relationship, especially one like this.  Discretion is the better part of valor.   Our brain is the largest and most powerful sex organ; it is the computer of the body!  Our skin is the body's largest organ; it is a sensor, shield and a communicator.  Nothing is more of a turn-on for me than a sub with a good mind/brain.    Communication comes in many forms....written, verbal, listening, and body language.  It is innate...it is critical...and ironically, this thing we desire, we also fear the most!  Communication and honesty are paramount to a healthy, happy, and lasting D/s relationship.  Common goals and interests are important as well.    I want a relationship in all the best senses; intellectually, emotionally, physically, and spiritually.  Laughter, wild adventures, creating memorable moments and making each others dreams come true should all be major components of a good D/s relationship. It is paramount to understand that protecting the trust we establish is critical.   To speak and be spoken to....to hear and be heard.  The latter is much harder to do. I enjoy traveling both weekend and extended.  I enjoy theatre and fine dining. I enjoy theatre and fine dining.   I enjoy the outdoors with activities that include golf, walking, biking, beaches and mountains.  I honestly love the water….being in it, on it or just near it; swimming, sailing, kayaking, beaches.   Laughter is the shortest distance between two people. (Victor Borge)   I have provided you a vanilla photo; if you write, I expect the same courtesy.  I do not want cartoons or cocks, I just want a simple vanilla photo.   I am flattered that many in their twenties and thirties are attracted to older women.  I, however, draw the line and do find joy in younger subs.....but only consider subs from their forties forward!  ........story continuation..   The leash was attached to a leather collar that she had put around his neck. She threaded the leash between his legs and up his to the small of his back. By holding the leash she could ensure that his head was down.   She had handcuffed his hands together between his legs. He wondered how long he would stay in this supine position.   'You have a nice body,' she said. Her hands ran appraisingly over his. She enjoyed the sight of his shapely ass, glut muscles so nice and tight, invitingly jutting up. It was a pretty picture.   He was mortified at the thought of appearing like this. But he felt an intense excitement. She was so attractive and so masterful. 'You certainly know how to touch a man', he thought. He wanted to please her, to show herself off and obey her every command.   She slid her hand between his thighs. He twitched as she caressed his sex.  'Already hard,' she said.  He began to move, to signal that he wanted her to touch him there again.  He knew that if she did he would soon be oblivious, jerking and moaning as she played with his swollen penis, running her hands along the shaft.  He waggled his butt, another invitation.  He felt like an animal...and then realized....he was the prey.   She played on this sensation.  'I am going to take you out to the horse training rink for some obedience lessons, but first, you are to get dressed and immediately drive over to The Heavenly Spa; Amanda is expecting you.  She is going to wax your entire body; won't that be delicious?!!  You are a hairy mess; I like my boys acomoclitic!  Because you did not follow my directions you will have your entire body done; that should teach you a lesson.  I will get a detailed report and do not expect to hear that you whined or uttered one syllable, other than thanking her at the end.  You need to tip her generously, and report back for training. Understood?'  she said. When you return you will be prancing around the rink, on a leash, wearing nothing but some high boots and little bells attached to your nipples so you will jingle as you move.' He could imagine the delicious feeling of humiliation this would evoke.  Facing a total stranger and having his entire body waxed will be utter humiliation, knowing I will be exposed to a total stranger and a report will be given to Mistress.Returning to her for further inspection and training will be even added humiliation.  Oh my....this is the ultimate humiliation.  He won't be the responsible professional; rather, he would be reduced to a chattel, treated like a dog or a horse being disciplined by his Master.   'When you return I'm going to hitch you up to a little carriage and have you pull me,' she continued.  'You will be naked and I will be fully dressed.  Can you imagine how degrading that will be?  Imagine that you are pulling a group of women, who are casually making sport of your humiliating predicament.'  He felt the beginning of an orgasm.  It was embarrassing, but she knew exactly what excited him, and the knowledge that he knew gave him a delicious feeling of helplessness.  He could only submit.   The touch was gentle, but insistent.  He had never experienced such ecstacy before.  It came in waves, transporting him.  He moaned and began gyrating.  This added to the humiliation, but he was too intent on the growing glow coming from his loins to care.  'I am a wanton slut,' he thought dreamily, as the waves of lust passed through his shuddering body. to be continued....... The scene had begun with an inspection. He had shown up at the rendezvous as scheduled, wearing the prescribed outfit. Under his pants he was to wear a frilly pair of panties.     'Stand at attention,' she had said. He stood with his hands clasped together meekly in the small of his back.     He looked good like this. She kissed him, wrapping his hand behind his shoulder and pressing her mouth over his. A wave of pleasure flooded him. It had already happened. He was hers to command, a captive of love.     Their tongues met. He signaled his submission by kissing back, balancing precariously with his hands behind his back. 'She can do with me what she wills,' he thought, dreamily.     Her hands began exploring his body. The touch was electric. His fingers playfully played over his butt, then up his midriff. She started to unzip him. A thrill went through his body. Soon he would be exposed.     But she was in no hurry. She teased him, unzipped a little more, then began loosening the belt. The sensation almost made his swoon, and he momentarily lost his balance.    

Is it testing the waters....or WHY is it that subs will send a message and all it says is, "Hi..or are you having a nice day."

 


 

Do they fear writing the purpose of their communication....or have nothing better to do?

 


 

So many write wanting to be my sub....or slave.  Communication starts and then falls off quickly.  Is it the fear of commitment, or is it the fear that this fantasy may become reality?  I believe it is more the later; for most submissives it is a fantasy they live in their minds and the act of writing even a word is trepidatious to them.  

 


 

As a Dominant, it is very frustrating to have submissives waste my time.  I seek a sub who is not only professional, but values integrity.  This is NOT a game to me!

5/19/13 at 7:44 AM

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