an is good with this. So if you don't have hang ups with this, then 'Come on Down............'

Male, Real Time Dom (don't do the cyber thing, as this is a hands-on experience), 6 ft tall 230lbs, burly and very muscular with some padding - subs love my back, chest, and legs . Blond hair blue eyes. Currently living in Oakville, Ont. Looking for a play partner with the heart of a true submissive. 
I am trustworthy and have many long-standing lifestyle friends who can vouch for my character, stability, and skill set as well as provide a context for our D/s experience as it evolves. I have a very strong Dominant presence, am kind, patient, very sensual,  sadistic, trustworthy and a good listener. I expect a submissive to be honest and responsible for her part in honest communication, responsible in her life outside, employed, and emotionally mature; I like intelligent, attentive, and creative subs with a flair for service. I'd like to meet a devilish sub with a sense of humor... no brats; I am not interested in obnoxious subs with the 'make me' attitude. If you need to get attention by behaving badly you are not the sub for me. 
Regarding physical play, I am extremely well versed in the fine art of flogging; I like caning, knife play, single tails. The St. Andrews cross is my favorite piece of furniture. Of course I do enjoy setting up the Mind Fuck. 
I have been active in lifestyle for about 10 years, have been a DM at public and private parties. Keep in mind the above play stuff part is a no brainer in comparison to the rest of D/s which is hard work.........and a lot of fun... 
Learning the psyche of whomever you're with doesn't come with picking up a flogger. The challenges of developing relationship as well as 'play' are a learning experience for both Dominant and submissive. I would say, I don't have time to micro manage and not interested in reconstructing your personality; I would rather find a compatible sub and build on her strengths, than take over living her life. 
I do enjoy taking a novice and bringing her along in her journey... helping her bring together her desire to submit with her intelligence and strength, overcoming her prejudices toward her own submission, helping her explore submission in a relationship, and understand protocols and customs of the lifestyle scene. 
As far as why I Dominate... well the ultimate reward of Domination is finding my own 'Dom space,' when I feel pumped up with power, when I feel intense focus and total control... Also enjoying a sub who truly has the heart of a submissive with a flair for service --Thank You Sir Edward --------- begin ideal person --------------- 
Ideal Person:A good looking, healthy, height weight proportionate, classy, submissive/masochistic woman!. As my status has changed recently to attached, so short term, no strings, playpartner relationships would work the best.My slave knows, an is good with this. So if you don't have hang ups with this, then 'Come on Down............'