The Largest BDSM Community on the Planet uniqueLilBrat Female Switch, 26, Virginia  I haven't ever been in a D/s relationship but I am very curious about it. I'm acctually interested in Domme training spacifically. There isn't really all that much to say about me, but I'll make an effort...I'm an honest person, mostly because lies are just more things that you have to remember later. There are times that I get kind of shy but for the most part I'm a pretty open person, I have no real inner monologue to speak of. Side note... I am not interested in relocating (I only mention it here because it has come up in conversation).***Ok, after having been on here for a little bit, I find that I need to add a little more detail. Here goes, and for all of you that are offended, oops!I have a father, so don't expect me to call you daddy! And if you are old enough to be my dad (in the litteral sense) Please don't bother. While I respect all kinks that are out there, I'm not into all of them. I'm not turned on at all by age play, blood letting, or rape. Not my cup of tea. If that's what does it for you cool, but really, I'm NOT interested.I'm not looking for a fuck buddy, a boyfriend, or a master. I know that I'm a switch, but that's not what I'm looking for right now. Thanks for all the offers that have come in, but no thank you. I'm not going to give you ANY personal information upon first contact (i.e. IM logins, phone number, or bra size!). Please save us both some time, and don't bother asking. Now that I've broken it down, I feel better. I'm not being a bitch, I'm just putting this info out there. If you still want to play pen pal, that's great! Drop me a line and I'll write back*** 8/15/2008 7:37:23 AM: So I'm sitting here, debating the day and something troubles me. What is the point in putting your thoughts on here laying out what you want? Why bother putting out what you DON'T want? Half the people that I've been contacted by obviously don't bother to read it! Lets say you are surfing this site. You come across what you think is a very sexy person. You send them a note saying that you want to Dom or sub that person (based on what side they play it) and wait for a reply. That person reads your profile, sees that what  you are into is a 180 from what they like. You dig rape play, their profile says they aren't into that.You are twice their age, they know for a fact that it says something about age in the profile they put up.You are on the other side of the continent and they were clear that there is no chance they will relocate.Now, some (sadly like me) will reply to your email. They will be polite and tell you no thanks. Then there are those (that I am starting to join) who will either ignore your note or inform you that you should REALLY think about looking at what they offered as insight into themselves before offering yourself up. What's great about this whole thing... 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