** Updated **Greetings and thank you for checkin

** Updated **Greetings and thank you for checking out my profile. I’m not going try to and impress you with how long I’ve been a Dom, how many submissives I’ve had or that I’m some Grand Dark Master of the House of Pain. I’m sure you have come across that more than enough. If you want to know these things just ask.I will tell you I firmly believe that any relationship, especially a D/s one, depends on free, honest and open communication on both sides from the start. From there it is an exchange of wills and not the bruising of flesh. It is fostered in mutual respect and not blind fear.I believe a true Dom is not one that rules by the threat of physical intimidation but rather one who takes the time and makes the effort to get into his submissive’s head and discovers things about her she does not even know of herself. Then with this knowledge help’s her to grow by teaching her, guiding her and molding her into what she should be and not what he just blindly expects her to be. I am seeking a female submissive between the ages of 25 to 40, with an open mind, an eagerness to grow and some expectation of where she wants to go. I see every true submissive not as a blank canvas to be created in ‘my’ image but rather as a work in progress, to be added to and built upon to be the best ‘she’ can be. This is why I prefer no one under 25 as they tend to lack adequate development and maturity. I also prefer no one over 40 as their canvas tends to already be set and offers little room for change and development. I also have an attraction to women of substance, BBWs. Of course these are just my preference and there are always exceptions. If things click well with us then I’m even open to the possibility of you joining my household. I do not want a play toy, doormat or whipping post. If you are just seeking a Dom to exploit you, treat you like crap, beat your flesh and use your body for his own carnal gratification, please keep moving on. There are enough of Sadists and "Wanna Be’s” out there just drooling to get their hooks in to you that you should have no trouble finding what you’re looking for. I do not want a mindless piece of meat. I want a woman with both a mind and body she will give over to my charge to mold, shape, guide, and instill self-discipline. I found this description of a Master posted on another profile and do not think I could have worded it better. I believe I fit it well. - A Man who displays sensitivity will be a Master who is sensitive to you. -A Man who displays humility will be a Master who will show you respect. -A Man who is not afraid to cry will be a Master who understands your tears. -A Man who is quiet will be a Master who will hear your quietest whisper, -A Man who knows fear will be a Master who will not leave you to face yours alone. -A Man who will listen to a child will be a Master who will always work to understand your words. -A Man who can stand alone will be a Master who will not crush you under His weight. -A Man who controls Himself with ease will be a Master with the ability to control you in the same way. -A Man who does not have to prove His point will be a Master with many worthwhile points to share. -A Man who never makes demands will be a Master who treasures anything you give. -A Man who doesn't run after you will be a Master you will never need to run away from. -A Man who is calm will be a Master who can weather your storms. -A Man who has walked the path to peace will be a Master able to guide you along that path.-A Man who does not shout will be a Master who will never deafen you. -A Man who knows Himself will be a Master who will have time to know you. -A Man with an open mind will be a Master who never stops learning. -A Man who never stops learning will be a Master who never stops growing. -A Man who always seeks to be the best He can be for you is the only Man truly worthy of being called your Master.Thank you again for taking the time to read this. Drop me a line if you’re interested or would just like to know me better. Be well on your journey and safe in your search.