The Largest BDSM Community on the Planet SocialObscurity Female Switch, 26, Richmond, Virginia  So much for short and simple...Though I am new to the site, I'm not at all new to the lifestyle.I'm bored with life. I'd say entertain me, but I have enough trouble sleeping at night as it is. I adore males and females just the same. Don't you dare ask me to choose  between the two, because apparently I can't. I am no longer discriminating against doms, but if you're over 35 don't contact me. Period. Moving on...Yes, I am into pain. However, I don't believe in beating someone mercelessly for no apparent reason. The best part of pain is the endorphin rush that follows, and a loving touch after each strike intensifies that rush tenfold. Beating someone black and blue for your own satisfaction and calling it done is just stupid, selfish, and degrading.I am not interested in relationships over the internet outside of friendship, so if you wish to become involved with me you'd have to be willing to chat over the phone and/or meet in person. As far as friends go, I'd be happy to talk to just about anyone who isn't  a complete moron. I'm sure that sounds bitchy and/or arrogant, but at this point I simply don't care. I find that being nice about things on here doesn't do the trick.  Now that I have all of those hateful disclaimers out of the way, feel free to message me if you'd like to get to know me. I'm actually a very pleasant person to know. My pic wont be approved for a bit, so ask if you want to see it.    11/17/2008 5:22:28 PM: Seems I am full of hatred, rage, and spite. Lucky me, eh?No matter what it's the same old song and dance on here. It's tires me to the core... If only this lifestyle were more than a petty excuse to get laid (for the most people). Now that would be a pleasant change of pace. Not fucking likely, though. _______________________________ 10/3/2008 11:59:05 AM: Seems I spoke too soon....Don't you hate it when people disappear for retarded amounts of time? Then again, considering my karma I had this coming....Oh well. Life goes on. You can either roll around in self pity or get the fuck, dust yourself off, and try to make something of yourself....and screw the former. _______________________________ 9/23/2008 2:36:19 PM: Currently all of my attention is focused on a certain sweet submissive male, and I'm not interested in being involved with anyone else. However friends are always welcome. _______________________________ 9/21/2008 12:55:44 PM: I just have to get this out....I need need NEED to go on a road trip and let out some of this pent up maddess seeping from my pores in the form of COMPLETE FUCKING CHAOS!!! .....so who want to drive? XD _______________________________ 7/18/2008 12:33:26 PM: If my heart is a hollow shell, why does it feel so heavy...?  Maybe I have worms. <<  Photo   Photo  >> << Profile   Profile >> View Forum Posts View Full Profile View Journal View All Photos Username Gender Orientation State Any Male Female Couple Trans Any Slaves Switches Submissives Dominants All States Alabama Alaska Arizona Arkansas California Colorado Connecticut D.C. 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