I've been here and a few other sites for over the

11/6/2008 5:53:13 AM: I am who I am......   it is what it is...  ANYWAY you put it you should be able to control your own destiny or at the very least control yourself!   Master, Dom, Domme, sub, slave - makes NO difference since we ALL possess a brain and the ability of cognitive thinking.    For those of you who don't know ME - I AM a loving individual who gives too much way more than looks for a reception of sorts.   I may have several little perversions but also love the warmth of her while falling asleep.   I will NEVER disrespect MY girl in public and quite possibly ever since IF the situation becomes THAT bad - I probably will end it promptly!I have had the honor of having MANY people love Me and have loved a good many in return - I cherish the friends that I have and will be starting a new chapter in life - this time I am approaching it with cautious enthusiasm rather than reckless abandon.... 
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10/23/2008 7:44:23 AM: I had the privilege of talking to a dear old friend today - apparently I'm coming across as the typical negative bad vibe Dom type... Which Is COMPLETELY Not what I am or all about!!!   So... from this day forward as much as I like to share My experiences I will chose NOT to be verbose about the bullshit one finds on here but rather tell of accomplishments and the (rare) positive occurrences that happen.     I can see where even telling things that would have a negative connotation would be a turn off - HELL - I think the same thing when I read a girls profile - like it's collateral damage that she's been so scorned.....   NO MORE!I am a kind, intelligent man who HAS a brain and feels free to use it daily!   I also am respectful and loving - nothing like the warmth AFTER you administer a little "playfulness" now is there!!!!!!    I thank you "you know who!" for showing me a little different side of Me  -  SEE... sometimes we NEED others to show us what's really US and not some figment of our imagination.....   Reality MAY be a "MF".....  BUT it's also the fastest way to acceptance and being happy!!!BTW - how about that spell check device!!!!!!!!!!!  LMAO 
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10/19/2008 2:22:50 AM: FEAR IS TEMPORARY.....REGRET IS FOREVER!!!      Just a little something for all those who MAY be trying to figure out what to do and whom to do it with.   Life is complicated enough WITHOUT all the mental masturbation that we put on ourselves!     I am going to attempt to utilize this Myself in My day to day activities... 
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10/9/2008 12:46:00 PM: It seems I'm more well read than I originally thought!!   At least I can say that I feel good that this is all NOT in vane...   For those of you keeping score at home.... a few FACTS about ME: I'm not married - I'm single and have been divorced since April of '06.   I live alone and don't have any "roommates" that are female or are hiding in the next room (loved that one!).   I have My sights set on a something special someday - when I get a chance to grab it and NOT let go - she'll know!!!   I don't have any kids - at least none that I know about OR am paying for!   I'm not bi and the only thing I'm 'curious' about is this F*cked Up economy because it's KILLING My mortgage biz!   Secrets are JUST that - SECRETS!   So, if you want to know a few then get to KNOW ME and THEN we'll cover some... IF we get that far!    YES I have yahoo IM and use it often - I have a blackberry so I'm VERY accessible.   I'm STILL bald and JUST shaved off the goatee - but it'll be back soon - after deer camp.    I've learned that people don't show themselves for a reason AND people that have a ton of pics DO so ALSO for a reason!   I ask the right questions BEFORE we get too far into things AND I have the wonderful ability to LISTEN... not just hear but actually LISTEN (novel concept - most should attempt this!)  ANYTHING else I didn't cover for all of My inquiring minds???      
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10/4/2008 5:09:32 PM: It is how we handle life's situations, ourselves and others that truly define us!!!   When life is easy and care free we have minimal trials and tribulations.   It is when there is an 'issue' or stress accompanied with an 'I need a decision NOW!' scenario that really sets those who have their proverbial shit together from those that will be wandering aimlessly through life thinking the grass will always be greener on the other side.   It's QUITE ironic that of all the 'bad' things that can happen to any 2 or more people in a relationship that MONEY seems to be the MOST constant where there is more harm done to the congruency of the commitment.   Cheating, lying, sexual and/or physical deficiencies ALL can and have been overcome from time to time.   But a lack of income, loss of job, the faith in one to care for and provide or ability to maintain a certain level in the financial "food chain" for whatever reason has consistently lead to the deterioration of the couple or group.   Why is this.... Do WE put money ahead of all other things in terms of importance or is it just a "thing" that we THINK we know all about as a means of survival?A great (but bullshit if you really have to do it) test for all those who aspire greatness for a long and prosperous path together......   role play a scenario that you've lost or are losing everything and all you would have is each other!!!!   REALLY try your best to visualize what life would be like with ONLY your significant by your side for support and guidance......   The only question that SHOULD be answered is are YOU going to be by their side and will THEY be by yours once it is all said and done................