l, perhaps it is best that you move along.If you write me I expect you to send a recent photo.

3/4/2009 12:01:22 AM: My bond mate has recently created a profile on this site with my permission.http://www.collarme.com/bdsm/v/830272/rzrr/68986/details.htm Feel free to write to him.  If you have questions about my house or serving me, he will be happy to answer them (as long as they are appropriate of course). 
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1/23/2009 3:54:55 PM: I have recently chosen a bond mate. He too is within the lifestyle and as is traditional he is submissive to me. Anyone wishing to apply to serve or be a part of my life must take my male into consideration. He is a bond mate, and hence even though he is indeed submissive to me, his role would be different from anyone else that may be present. N
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9/18/2008 3:01:39 PM: And You Can Quote Me On That II
Quotations and Truisms
By Norische
 
“Should Have” shames a good slave.
 
Regrets are unproductive, even detrimental to an arrangement.
 
Modesty is a false god, held in high regard, yet ultimately useless in a world of functional reality.
 
Success is often viewed as the ultimate goal of a proper slave. However, a failure in which knowledge and understanding is gained is far more valuable than a success, regardless of the magnitude of the success.
 
Within every failure is a success cleverly hidden, yet present nonetheless. One must merely be open enough to understand this fact and revel in its discovery. 
 
In order to serve with an open heart and with all your might you must be complete in yourself first.
 
A collar with all its glory fills nothing, a collar does no more than create a space, which only you may fill, and how can you fill this collar if there are missing parts within yourself. 
 
There is an incredible balance between owner and owned, the sense of knowing your place in the world and the strength that comes with the knowledge. 
 
An action cannot be judged a success or a failure by the action alone, success or failure is based on the knowledge and experience gained from the action and how one proceeds to use this knowledge.
 
There are two ways to speak around slaves and submissives, the artless way of those who truly believe nothing they say will be of interest, and the calculated way of those who know exactly who is listening.
 
It is an essential part of training to provoke strong emotions. There is nothing easier to provoke than anger. One mark of a good slave is the ability to let anger go and continue working, continue service, continue offering respect and indifference. Now if anger and shame and hurt can then be changed into love or affection or lust, then you have the mark of masochism.
 
Pleasure slaves
When your pleasure resides in pleasing others, take joy in the moments where their pleasures reside in yours. As a warm shaft of sun in midwinter, it is natural and rare and to be treasured. Take it, modesty be damned. Offer up your modesty as a sacrifice to your Master/Mistress and revel in the moment. 
 
To become a pleasure slave, one must understand first the very nature of pleasure itself.
 
Pleasure is an intricate weave of needs and desires, fantasies and dreams, the forbidden and the taboo, interests and appetites. 
 
Pleasure is not sexual; it is not even physical. Pleasure is spiritual; pleasure is the marriage between the soul and the universe. One may find physical pleasure to be satisfying beyond ones most secret desires, but even within this most alluring form, to consider pleasure to be purely physical is to place upon this wondrous experience a limitation that squanders it true magnitude.
 
To understand pleasure one must understand pain, for together they walk this universal path hand in hand, arm in arm. 
 
Pleasure is a force so great that mere words leave much to be desired, to be a pleasure slave is to be able to go beyond the realm of mortal man and leap into the realm of the eternal, for pleasure is an eternal force strong and beating within the hearts of all.
 
  
Norische
 
 
 
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4/19/2008 8:29:03 PM: And You Can Quote Me On That
Quotations and Truisms
By Norische
 
 
The mark of the very best slave is infinite patience.
 
It is the imperfections in a slave that make them exciting and challenging.
 
It is the strive for perfection that makes a slave worthy of service.
 
Understanding a command is not necessary, only obedience.
 
If a command is given in error, but followed precisely, then the error is not that of the slave, the error rests solely on the shoulders of the Master/Mistress.
 
A standing order remains in place until another order takes precedence.
 
A pleasure slave must be alluring, captivating, submissive, and utterly available, but more than anything else they must be interesting.
 
A slave cannot be trained to do everything; therefore they must be trained to do anything. 
 
Understanding your slave is the first step in understanding punishment. 
 
Slavery is not a way of life; it is a way of thinking. You know you are a slave when your stomach growls and you wonder if Master/Mistress wishes something to eat.
 
Control is illusionary; you cannot take that which will not be given, hence who is truly in control? 
 
No method or style within the BDSM realm is more or less correct than any other, it is all based on individual desires, needs, and limits.
 
Freedom is a soldier’s dream and a slave’s nightmare. But is a soldier not a slave; willing to do anything…including kill, simply at his or her superior’s (Master’s) command. Also is a slave not free to choose whom he or she wishes to serve and free to make the choice of service or freedom. Hence, the question arises, who is free and who is the true slave. Or perhaps the more appropriate question would be, “Is there truly anything such as freedom?” or perhaps “Is not everyone a slave to someone or something?”
 
To be thrilled by the smell of leather, to be invigorated by the sound of a whip’s crack, or satisfied by the soft caress, is the mark of a lover. 
To be thrilled by at the possibility to serve, to be invigorated by a commanding voice, or satisfied by the knowledge that you have done your best, is the mark of a slave.
 
A slave’s greatest desire is to serve. A submissive’s greatest desire is to subject to the will and power of another.
 
Let us explore the possibilities hidden deep within you; but keep in mine that yes I will hurt you, but I will never harm you,  
 
The skill of observation is the corner stone of building a good slave, a slave must be observant of his or her Master/Mistress at all times; to learn how to please, to learn how to serve and to learn every nuance of their owner’s character.
 
True slaves will forever hone their skills and talents. They will never allow themselves to become stagnant or boring. They will constantly strive to better themselves and will never truly be satisfied with their level of competence. They are always willing to follow their Master’s/Mistress’s command, quickly, respectfully and to the best of their ability. They will always be flexible and willing to explore new possibilities, to learn what they can and to accept that which they do not understand.
 
There is no such thing as a perfect Master or Mistress, to believe this is to lie to oneself, but a good Master or Mistress will know this fact and never claim to be perfect.
 
Never attempt to take that which will not be given, to do so will destroy all respect and trust.
 
Want vs. Need. There is no such thing as need, only want. One does not need to breathe unless one wants to live.
 
To understand an individuals greatest fears, and greatest desires is to understand how to control an individual. 
 
A slave is an individual with a unique need, but an individual nonetheless. Those that cannot accept this fact should buy a lamp or perhaps a cat, something that they do not have to treat with respect or understand its strengths and weaknesses. 
 
A slave is like a building, built stone by stone, experience by experience. Without a firm foundation it will crumble and fall. Therefore is it not wise to build up a slave rather than attempt to tear it down. With each blow to his or her self-esteem the foundation on which they stand gets weaker; soon they will be unable to stand, a pile of rubble at your feet. Then you will have created a worthless slave, or perhaps you have exposed yourself as a worthless Master/Mistress. 
 
A slave is a proud individual, proud to serve, proud to be owned, and proud to be a slave. Do not threaten this pride nor attempt to tear it down, use it, mold it and learn to understand it. To have pride is to strive to achieve greatness. To have pride is to do your best and to know when you have. To have pride is to have the greatest motivator in the world.  Do not confuse pride with an ego, an ego is a shallow man’s replacement for pride.
 
Norische
 
 
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2/3/2006 11:37:32 PM: A slave is an individual who is wholly under the control and or power of another individual. Having surrendered freely his or her rights and privileges as an individual, and with both knowledge and forethought forfeited all freedom to act as an independent entity. A slave is the property of the owner; all that a slave has belongs to the owner, this includes his or her person, labor and belongings. A slave is devoted to the service and the will of his or her owner and serves with both honor and distinction.  Focused on a sense of duty and devotion a slave thrives at the opportunity to provide unconditional service and to exceed his or her owners expectations.  (Norische)