Special Notice: Please be advised since collarme software doesn't allow dual location listings there are only two VALID accounts on this site (collarme) which are mine Sirmagic for Maryland and Sirmagicky for Kentucky. I divide my time bi monthly between locations due to my partnership in an internet based adult web business.
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Before you contact me scroll down to the journal and read the post about contacting me.
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NOTICE to Male subs, Trans-Sexuals, CD's, TV's:
I'm flattered and I'm straight, thus on a personal relationship level NOT my cup of tea. So don't even bother asking.
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What kind of woman:
For those women who are interested. (women defined as having two X Chromosones ) A few things you MUST know up front:
I'm semi polyamorous you will be able to handle that. Many women have tried to change it, all have failed. The woman who can honestly deal and work with it, is most likely the one who will "land me".
My attractions lean toward outgoing (extroverted preferred before introverted) feminine women (skirts, heels, stockings) who are definitely height / weight proportionate. Women as big or bigger than me make great friends however it doesn't do it for me on a primal, chemical, sexual level.
If you're a closet whore who is ready to bust forth out of the closet even better.
You will be emotionally secure, people person with exhibitionist tenancies.
Your life focus WILL to be about finding joy, adventure and fun. NOT about all your fears and hang ups. Been there, done that NOT happening again.
 DEAL BREAKERS:
1) ** History of Drugs /Alcohol / Pill addiction.
2) Disassociated /anxiety/ personalty disorders or serious neurosis along with a long term prescription for various chemical mood stabilizers. ie wellbutrin, zoloft, lexapro, celexa, prozac etc..
(Well... number 2 that just eliminated 70% of the eligible dating pool.) 
3) STDs: Herpes (HPV - genital warts),Aids ARC, Hepatitis, for example.
4) Eating disorders.
5) XY chromosomes
(As in pre or post-operative transsexual)
** If you have your 5 year plus pin /coin we'll talk no promises. I'm NOT in recovery and unlike most I KNOW "there is a tiger behind the door". I don't have to keep opening it every 5 mins and get mauled it to keep proving it to myself.
Who am I: ? (The age old question)
New Guard Leather Black Male Dom-Top, Sexy, Experienced and extroverted.
I love the four "S"s :
Sushi, Sashimi, Scifi and Sluts.
I'm soft spoken, straight, sensual, kinky, very erotically Dominant (not a control freak) 6'1", 250 lb semi-muscular male. I'm refined, articulate, witty, educated, with a bittersweet DARK SOUL.
This is NOT to say I'm negative, far from it. If anything I'm a pragmatist who is perfectly capable of interacting with the rest of society. I may be a Lifestyler however lets be clear, there IS more to life.
As a person I have faced my own mortality, inner truths and flaws. Life for me is a constant journey to "do better and be better". Like most humans some days I live up to it, other days a fail miserably. I follow the teachings of (Anthony)Tony Robbins, Dr Wayne Dyer, John Maxwell, Christopher Howard and other self-improvement gurus.
I have a simple saying:
"BDSM Leather Mastery is not built in a day, it is built daily."
~Sir Magic~
I enjoy what I do and constantly seek to improve. If you come to know me you will find I'm witty, intense, yet a very dynamic person. I am not only comfortable in an Art Museum or Black Tie Affair but the backwoods and trails as well. I have a passion for life, without being materialistic, things can be replaced. I am a ROGUE and proudly so. I do have principles and a clear code of honor. I don't play negative head games however I am no saint. I believe in deeper spiritual meanings and the greater interconnection of life. There is a higher power, unfortunately we humans just can't agree what to call it. Frankly I don't care, to me all paths up the mountain end up in the same place.--
The Dom/Top Side:
I entered formal mentoring training  as a New Guard Dominant at the age of 17 in a Boston area. This translates into 26 years of experience.
~~ Whoopy DO!!! For all you know I could be an ass this really doesn't mean E-coli. ~~
Often "time" is NOT a determinate of ability. I've known people with just a few years of experience with great competence and wisdom and met those with a lifetime who were complete idiots.
As a Dominant, I'm protocol driven as a rule, but then let's be real, we have to function in the real world and reality intrudes often. Good or bad in the past I have tended to let my relationships find there own natural balance and go from there. If I had to label myself I am 65% Dominant (D/s) and 35% Top (S/m).
As a TOP I can be Easy and Sensual (Restraint and Pleasure - R & P) or I do have the skills and ability to be the most Sadistic Mother Fornicator on the planet. Frankly, it has depended on whom I'm with at the time.
I used to live in Tampa Florida and was very active and known in the Central Florida BDSM scene.
I also live in Lexington KY (thus the two profiles) and active in both Lexington & Louisville KY. scenes. I am a member of Kufs and the Louisville Munch Bunch.
For those who are curious enough to want to get a deeper sense of what I'm about I invite you to read my personal website MagicsWorld.Com
If your profile doesn't have a photo, then you need to send one with your initial contact of "you".
Do us both a favor, I detest one line communications. At the very least introduce and tell me something about yourself before you get into your reasons for communication. In short, show some effort.
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