I am Jim and have been in the lifestyle most of my adult life and I am single. I was born raised and spent most of my adult life in the St.L. Mo. metro area and now live in E. Tenn. The kinkier my partner gets the kinkier I get. One does not have to be an as-hole to be a MASTER I can guide you with a gentle hand or if needed the bite of the whip. I will bring you to your knees because of respect and love not fear. I enjoy treating the woman I am with like a lady in public. So I do enjoy a little Vanilla mixed with D`s. Like taking short trips to points of interest, love the theatre live or movie. Like to cook indoor or out and I am good at it. Enjoy anything to do with water and the beach. I will NOT share you with another man. If interested contact me I have both IM and E-mail at yahoo... sand_beach4me