| I'm a happily divorced (2004), professional guy, working in a faintly academic field. I write a great deal, travel pretty extensively as a result of my work. I'm outdoorsey (hiking, camping, sailing), I love cooking (and even as a dom I'll even wash up as I cook).
I'm looking for someone intelligent, creative, sparky. She's unlikely appear outwardly submissive, in fact the opposite is probably true. But underneath she'll enjoy that undertone of submission.
I enjoy a ton of things; I think that it all boils down to that moment when she, knowing that she doesn't 'have' to, submits.
I'm not a micro-manager, I'd expect a partner to have a busy, active, life and to be capable of making her own decisions (indeed she'd prefer to). That said, I do enjoy a degree of control, even when we're not together. As a simple example, I'd expect her to keep herself "bare down there" as a simple act of regular submission.
Our relationship wouldn't be a "D/S" relationship, it would be a regular relationship that has a strong, and present, thread of D/S running through it. If that distinction rings a bell with you then we've made a positive start.
I enjoy adventure, travelling to new places, "discovery". Ideally you'll be comfy in a cocktail dress on one hand, or combat trousers on the other. You'd be the sort of girl who'd be as at home in a posh restaurant in Manhattan or London as you would be in a greasy spoon cafe. She's likely to enjoy drinking pints of beer, and glasses of Veuve.
Kink-wise, I suppose it centres on control and humiliation - I'm not into public humiliation, I get more of a rush from the shared secret, that said, I like to blend public and private, so I enjoy a degree of public exhibitionism.
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