Slave Required to serve myself and my Partner. Read the journal entry for criteria before posting: obvious failure to read it will result in instant dismissal. Note that a Slave will not receive our caring side, but instead will always receive the attentions of the sadists within both of us.
Who am I? Well, I'm a level-headed, mature 40-something, with a submissive partner. We got married last year. I've a wicked sense of humour and a vivid imagination, so expect plenty of delicious variety in the the pleasures and torments I can conjure up. I'm very into breathplay. I also like PVC, latex and leather clothes (on women), TPE, knifeplay, bondage, especially chain and rope and straps and bondage tape and pallet wrap and.... well, you get the idea! Be warned though, some of the things I'm into can be too edgy for most.
I also like the vanilla pleasures in life: I'm very tactile, so lots of touching, cuddling, hugging, kissing, scratching... I just generally like life.
As for being dominant, I'm just wired that way. I prefer to be in control of things. However, that doesn't mean I'm instantly going to dominate you as soon as I see you. If you're not my sub or slave, there's no reason why I should. I feel that D/s can only come once I get to know a person and have gained their trust and respect.
I'm happy to talk to anyone about anything, BDSM and non-BDSM. If you want to get in touch, a polite email or introductory IM message is all that I require. I'm on MSN and Yahoo. However, respect the fact I already have a partner.
I attend fetish events where and when I can. Most often at Swamp and Orgasm in Bristol and BBB in Birmingham.
Seeing as my interests aren't listed, here's a few: Fast cars and bikes are what I'm into, although almost anything with an engine floats my boat... Before anyone gets on their high horse about my carbon footprint: I can only drive/ride one at a time!
Here's something for the eco-mentalists: I've just got into sea kayaking, so there's a hobby that doesn't use petrol.
I'm caring and fiercely loyal to family and friends. |