So where to even begin? I've been dominant in nature, theory and action for the past ten years and I'm old enough, (not creepy old, just 28, fear not,) that I've been in enough relationships to know I want in equal measure a vanilla partner to be by my side day and night and in and out and an at the very least spicy honey vanilla submissive ready to serve however we define it appropriate. There's compromise in play but not in who I want.
Does that mean I'd switch? Sure. I've switched jobs, apartments, underwear, why not roles? But I'd do it with a thorough understanding and deliberation just like with everything else. Except underwear, that's automatic. I'm nasty, but not like that.
And what do I want? I want passion, a punk, someone independent. Be submissive, bi or straight, with or without switch tendencies - testing and growing is part of life, it's okay. Be passionate about your curiosity to explore intimacy, sex, kinks, fetish, play, in dating, in a relationship. Be passionate about being more than bound at my feet or wanting to be locked in a collar. Be passionate about your craft. If you're in school, if you're working, if you're in pursuit of either and just paying bills, if you're practicing or perfecting an art, anything. Come with something to share, to teach, to talk about at least. I'd much rather gag a girl who has too much to say than one who can only moan.
So how does this work? Going from e-mail to messaging, talking, meeting, that wouldn't hurt. (Naturally hurt would come later.) And I know there's only one picture up but it's accurate, it's current, it's me. And after you write or write back, I'll respond with more, not just with a headshot, not a photoshopped advertisement, but more about the real me, in word and image, all me and all modest. You can write someone else if you want to see cock first and I'm sure they'll show them.
And me again. I'm outside Manhattan. By minutes, by stops. Not hours and transfers and trains. I work in the arts. And yes I'm straight. I go to concerts every night, galleries on the weekend, school, a master's degree, during the week. It's true I get tied up sometimes with papers and research but trust me, on such occasions, you'll be tied up right beside me. I have time for this, for someone to pursue this with, and this seems as good a way as any to go about it.
Now come on and come forth - and maybe even come - it's winter and there's no better time to keep you inside so write back and let's work out all the intimate details. My interests listed are just a start and it should take a long time to finish with you.
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