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Note: at this point journal entries do tell the tale (please do read through them) ... I am happily focused, "otherwise engaged," ... so, not seeking and only here now for a peek at forum topics, to share thoughts and to say hello to friends. My original profile follows below.
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Yet another sensual woman looking for the (un)usual and maybe the impossible on yet another BDSm web site.
Me: Described as elegant, reserved, sexy, smart and mature. I love and demand quality and know it when I see, taste, feel it. Responsive, I'm very responsive and sensual. Sometimes I'm insatiable. I am smart and creative. Stylish. Enigmatic. My instincts and intuition serve me well. I am more perceptive and intelligent than any man I've met has realized. Not a boast, just speaking from experiencing surprising mis-steps and assumptions. Paradoxical: confident and insecure, experienced and naive, refined and slutty, cool and hot ... I absolutely love to kiss. I am passionate. I want to be devoured, consumed ... to have layers peeled away and to be vulnerable ... to be taken to that terrifying, exhilarating place, safely, by you. I am hungry and am very, very picky.
You: A creative man, a thinker. You're a leader, naturally dominant/Alpha... you do not switch. Gentle and tough. You are sexy, strong and taller than I. You have a powerful presence. You love women. You lead, and are in control and you are very very experienced. You are patient. You are smarter, more intuitive than I, and very perceptive. You are likely attached (as am I) and seek the regular albeit occasional hedonistic escape to feed a particular need. You are discriminating and discreet and never settle for second best. You are a winner. You are grammatically (if not politically) correct. You are a poet, eloquent at times ... you love words and know how to use them, written or spoken. You've a wonderful sense of humor. You "get" that this is about complicity, not obedience, not "training," not discipline. If that doesn't make sense, we would not be a match. You do not assume that any kind of dynamic exists between us prior to our establishing that there is chemistry. You know that respect is earned, over time.
You are ready and very serious about this.
You are a twisted genius seeking a muse.
What will we have if we are a match?
Chemistry. Intensity. A shared vision and journey that takes us to the edge, that pushes and challenges and rewards us both. One that evolves naturally and is without titles or protocol (or that capitalization thing) other than you lead and I follow even while we conspire on that path. That heady blurring of pleasure and pain, fantasy and genuine fear, danger and safety.
There is no place we cannot go.
Please note: Prefer someone in SF or Oakland/Berkeley - long distance is a no-go.
In any case, for the focus this requires, an on-going dialogue is a must. It's a dance. And an on-going seduction.
Instant-messaging can be wonderful for that on occasion, but please know I do not "do" phone or cyber, nor do I chat with anyone unless we have established some rapport through email first. I don't read messages from those with blank or unrevealing profiles nor do I respond to one-line, un-inspired emails.
And please note: E-mail filters are on for distance and blank profiles.
Hmmm...also note that the words submissive and slave are not used anywhere in my profile.
If you've gotten this far, thank you for reading this lengthy profile and good luck in finding who/what it is you seek!
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