| I'm well educated, well traveled, and good natured with an irreverent sense of humor. I'm open-minded, patient and tolerant except when it comes to smoking. I keep in pretty good shape by cycling when the weather is warm and x-c skiing when there is snow. Also, I'm not married.
A woman with a nice smile and wit is sure to attract me; you'll hold my interest by having the smarts or refinement to discuss world affairs, the arts, science, or other topics to stimulate the mind. Laughter is essential; a good "playmate" highly prized. I'm far more interested in your personality than I am in a kinky resume.
Regarding interests related to this site -- I like a woman who obeys outside of the bedroom as well as in it. I'll put a bit of structure in your life that you follow for me every day, and I'll also enjoy playing with control in subtle ways that could go unnoticed by anyone but us, or in obvious ways like tying you in ropes just to see the look in your eyes as I do "stuff" you like and maybe some things you don't. Though I usually don't get my pleasure from giving pain, I'll go in that direction if you like it; however I'll go there sometimes too if you don't like it just as an exercise in control and to see you submit to it.
Keep in mind that I want a gal with a mind of her own, and I will learn what makes you tick to make you mine. Although I like having control, I don't use it in ways that could inhibit your personality and I'm not a micro-manager -- I only make rules to accomplish objectives and not simply to have rules for their own sake. So you might call it a light touch, kind of like driving a car down the freeway with just one finger on the steering wheel . . . though if you act up both hands are ready to drag you back in line. So most of the time the influence is there but you hardly notice and you can be yourself knowing I far prefer initiative, strength, spark, spunk, and surprises instead of having meek, docile and robot-like obedience. That makes it so much more enjoyable when I decide to really take command and have fun with you, and it will be fun because although I present this refined exterior to casual observers I can also be a real pig when I've got you under my thumb.
So there is a bit about me to start with; feel free to send a note if you would like to talk. |
