| STRAIGHT SINGLE male seeking female dominant or switch.
In the midst of a seemingly continuous re-evaluatiion of my role and what I'm seeking. A personal connection between the two of us is more important to me than the specific roles. Service sub, bedroom sub, pet, slave, partner, lover, they all have their appeal. But without a mutual attraction, there's no excitement.
What I can do for you or with you depends a lot on what you need and want. It's absurd to try to list everything since we don't know each other yet. Let me just say that although I'm not good at everything, I'm versatile, intelligent, a quick learner, and willing to tackle almost any task from the most mundane to the exceedingly complex. Regardless of roles, whether D/s or vanilla, I derive great satisfaction from pleasing my partner.
Who am I looking for? Someone guided by her own desires, rather than one who adopts boiler-plate protocols and cliches simply because "that's the way everybody does it". A woman whose BDSM and vanilla interests have some overlap with mine. One who is D/D free, as I am; I don't want a relationship that puts either of us at high risk of disease. Finally, I have a youthful appearance and am in better physical condition than most men half my age. A woman who has respected and maintained her body is more likely to mesh with me than one who hasn't.
I have a life outside of this, an extensive education, and interests and responsibilities in the broader world; it would be unrealistic to expect them to go away. The same is probably true for you. It will be a balancing act.
There's a lot more to discuss in private with anyone who is interested after reading this far. Please feel free to send me a message.
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