Time for a little profile updating....it's been awhile:
I've read a lot of profiles out there and decided that either most of the expectations (on both sides of the kneel) are just unreasonable and unrealistic....or my taste has just gotten so garden-variety that I'm old fashioned.
So here's a little bit of who I am and what I seek:
I'm a single boy (been divorced 5 years now--my marriage to my spouse & Domme lasted 14 years) -- I have a very demanding, public service oriented job that puts me in charge with a lot of responsibility. In my off hours, I do a lot of volunteer work, and whenever I can, spent time outdoors.
In terms of BDSM, I've been in the scene for more than 20 years--long before there were munches or internet chat rooms--I had a chance to top and bottom and learn from very creative, talented people. Although I have topped and still love to fist, I am a bottom and domestic servant with a love for serving others and a penchant for corporal punishment.
I'm an FTM--fully transitioned, well adjusted and very masculine--I'm fit...but I'm short. (Such is life. better next time on the karmic wheel for me) I am straight (attracted to women) but I do occasionally engage in non-sexual play with male Doms. I live stealth--which means that very few people in my life know anything about my TG status. I'm not ashamed of it--I've worked hard to build my new life and I believe in protecting my privacy.
I'm not actively looking for a relationship with a woman, but if one develops, my heart is open to it. Within a relationship, I believe in equality--while some may call ne a "bedroom bottom" I'm just not looking for 24/7. I've been there--it's exhausting and I'll be honest--it got old. On the plus side, I love keeping the house meticulous, managing other household duties and in spite of my mischievous streak, I really do....do what I'm told. (paddling or no paddling.....if it needs to get done, I'll get it done)
Somewhere out there, I'm hoping to find a Dominant woman who is creative, artsy, funny, intelligent and compassionate. Someone who will love to explore the world with me, hike the back trails, snorkel the reefs, spend a wild Saturday night at a play party followed by a quiet Sunday with Charles Osgood and brunch. When we're out, the world will see you with your man. When we go home, you will know I'm your boy and my heart and body belong to you.
Happy searching to all-- life is too short to be miserable!