| Update 5/6/09: I'm here for the forums - not a relationship. I am in a relationship - yes, a real one, offline, with someone that I can see and touch regularly on a frequent basis - so other than very casual friendships, a relationship is NOT something that I have any interest in at all. It's mutually exclusive, so take that as a hint and don't waste your time attempting to go in that direction.
I camp, fish, and hunt - from which you might figure out that I'm not exactly a girly-girl type. I paint (and even occassionally sell one of my paintings, imagine that) and I've been an avid reader my whole life. I brew mead and various fruit wines, and have begun to delve into brewing beer as well. I own a small business, and it is pretty much my first priority in life. After that comes other responcibiities, then having a bit of fun, then getting chances to do some bdsm play. I try to keep things balanced, and abhor dealing with people who obsess over bdsm or try to turn it into some sort of quasi-religious, "what they are" type of horsehooey. This is absolutely NOT what I 'am' - it is simply one of about a million things I 'do' on a regular basis.
So, who am I and what do I want? I'm a no longer single, bi-comfortable, previously swinger, masochist female who also happens to have a twisted sadistic side at times when playing. I'm a bit of a cynic, very much a realist, have a biting sense of humor, a rather twisted wit, and somewhat ecclectic tastes. I am intelligent and creative, and usually motivated towards those things which could be considered Enlightened Self Interest. What I want are friends - I already found a partner who has some very specific qualities in him - loyalty, integrity, respect, honor, responciblity, maturity, wrapped up in humor, the capacity to keep things in perspective, an adventurous spirit, and whom I find physically attractive.
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