| Update: 22 June
Yes, I am of legal age. I am currently 19. I will be 20 in Jan of 2010.
I thought it was about time that I did a full update of my profile, after all I have been on here since october 07 by now, and I just realised my ic profile was more up to date.
Idealy, looking for a LTR, although I am also open to regular play with Dom(s)
I do go between Southampton and Havent / Portsmouth frequently, so play at either end is fine - though I am in Havant/Portsmouth more often than not, and come Easter/ Summer break, I will be there untill Uni starts back up again come September/ October
Well, a little bit about me... I am a student, I've been playing since October 2007, and have at least basic experience in a number of activities, although I have yet to attend any events (play parties, munches, fetish fairs, etc.)
I love spanking, bondage (particularly rope bondage, though leather cuffs/restraints and metal cuffs can be fun too.), blindfolds, forced orgasum, electro play (pussy probes are so yummy!) along with a variety of other activities  Just ask? 
I am not into blood, perminant marks, scat, anything illigal, face slapping/hitting, needles/knives.
I am not really into canes-nor am I a huge fan of anal sex - I've yet to see the pleasure of it. I find it highly uncomfortable at best, quite painful (in a non-fun way) more often than not...and condoms are always a must.
I am a submissive - I purely have experience as a sub, although I would love to learn about domme'ing, as it certainly fascinates me, and has began to more and more over the past few months. (Although, I would like to make it clear that as I have only sub experience, this is all I am looking for at the moment - I would not want to attempt domme'ing without any instruction / experience)
To be completely honest I am far more likely to reply to the following: profils with photographs, profiles with testimonies, well-written profiles (reguardless of length) or well-written messages, rather than one-line messages and a cock picture (Though those can be quite nice too )
Let me just reiterate one point - I am a sub/subbie. I love submitting during play. I am not a slave, I am not looking or an owner. A LTR would be wonderful, but I would want a vanilla side along with the bdsm side, rather than 24/7. But as finding that type of thing is so rare on here, I dont think that should be an issue.
I prefer to play with local Doms - I play very very rarely with one local Dom from time to time. I cannot accomedate, and as I use public transport at the moment, travelling too far too often gets to be too pricey - hence my preference for local Doms. Though I will travel a little further afeild for good play
Regular play is prefered. I dont like one-off plays, really.
I am currently a size 18, having dropped from a size 24 late last year. Hopefully I'll get down to a 14 by later this year I mention this as for those of you who dont know womens clothing sizes, that's kinda large. As many Doms prefer slender subbies, I thought I would mention it.
I have long-ish dark brown curly to frizzy hair, pale-ish skin (that bruises fairly well ) and I do wear glasses. Oh! And I have a few tattoos - all non-play related of course. No piercings, though.
Although I enjoy being subbie, Daddy's little girl, or Sir's pet, when it comes to role-play, I do prefer straight forward Dom/Sub or Master/Slave. I do want to try rape play, but it would have limits and boundaries, and only, of course, with the right Dom.
I only play with a safe word in place, preferably the traffic light system. I insist on this with all Doms I play with. Safety should be paramount. Likewise, the use of condoms shouldn’t even be questioned. I don’t care if you can show me a blood test that says you're clean. If penetration is a part of play, condoms will be used.
Not willing to relocate at this time (nor to meet the day/evening you first contact me.)
I expect my hard-limits to be respected, NOT tested or ignored. Some Doms I play with can test some of these limits, however, I'm not really comfortable with any of the activities listed as hard-limits, and certain ones I wouldn’t consider trying at all.
I am not interested in 24/7 or in staying overnight or travelling abroad, unless I've played with you before. When it comes to 24/7, I would love to experience this, someday. Five or ten years down the line, perhaps. Just not yet.
Hard limits:
Condoms are a must, alcohol/drugs before or during play, blood play, enemas, knife play, needle Play, permanent marks or Scars, breath play, foot fetishes - no foot fucking, foot worship, licking feet, anal fisting, large anal toys
Soft Limits:
face slapping – no marks lasting longer than the session; hair pulling - not enough to pull hair out, cause bleeding or damage; water sports - not drinking; peeing on/for/tasting (possibly) is ok; scat - bordering on a hard-limit; not into watching/tasting/touching etc; hot wax - depends on the body part & how hot it is;
hoods - I hate the looks of them, but love the feeling they produce. It depends on the style of hood and the Dom; pinwheels - are a no unless I've played with you before
I still need to practice when it comes to oral  . I've had little practice, so, my oral skills (or lack of) are still being worked on Practice, practice, practice
A far as fetish clothes go? I love them. Usually they're way outside of my student budget, but I can buy the occasional outfit from time to time I prefer leather over latex or rubber, and as far as heels go? I tend to fall flat on my face...eep.
I am still quite interested in medical fetishes and pet play (as in puppy/kitty/bunny girl) neither of which I have yet had a chance to explore.
When it comes to various scenarios, the following inparticular interest me:
Patient-Doctor - medical fetish play (sans blood, needles, breath play) - with the Doctor taking advantage of his naieve, trusting patient. Main interests with this type of scenario: restraints, speculum, catheters (possibly), etc.
Master-slave - pretty self-explanatory; whatever Sir wants, Sir gets. (Within agreed limitations)
Rape/forced - 'forced' scene is something that has become more and more appealing to me. I still have a list of limits, and would want to discuss the basics of the scene. However, being 'forced' seems to be something that I feel I would find highly arousing : )
Using unusual objects for insertion - as shown in my blog, I've started trying to insert various objects : ) as long as there is no danger of the object breaking/damaging my pussy, I am willing to try various odd things : ) Inserting things such as cucumbers into my pussy is something I would quite like to try.
More? Ask me.
My Ideal Person:
I have a particular fetish for men with long-hair : ) That is not to say that I do not still like Dominants with shorter hair or no hair, but I particularly like long-haired Doms : ) In addition, bi-sexual Doms are also particularly interesting
Although age etc isn’t a real problem/factor for me, I would like to say that I would prefer it if Doms were at least twenty (late twenties if I'm perfectly honest), and no older than mid-fifties. It's a little strange for me if playing with a Dom older than my father; but, when it gets to the age of grandparents? A little too odd for me, I'm sorry to say.
I prefer playing with Doms with experience; I'm still relatively new at this, and, well, I'll be blunt-if you do not know how to use a cane, how to do a rope tie, how to use an electro toy, etc, then I just cant fully trust you, can therefore not really relax, nor submitt completely during play. I need to know that you know what you're doing.
I like Doms who know what they want, but the initial message of 'talk to me now slut/cunt' is not the type of Dom that I'm really looking for. A Dominant who can be commanding and controlling without shouting or swearing every other word at the subbie they're playing with is the type that really interests me.
Single is a must, unfortunately. I am not into playing with married or attached men. I tried this once. Never again.
Trust is the main issue, and respect; if there is no trust between the two (or more) parties involved, then play just cannot happen.
Having at least a somewhat similar kink list is also a must. I've played with a Dom before who had little interest in painful play, and more in mainly latex and leather. Needless to say, it wasn’t as successful as it could have been.
The more play, the better. If it were up to me, I would play several times a week, if not more. Weekly play is preferred, but it is completely understandable if this is not possible.
Hard limits must be respected. |
