| It truely is, a hard thing, to serve another. It is something I enjoy. The smile on their face, when they are simply enjoying and loving the moment. When my Domme is happy, I am happy. Every Domme I've been around, has been an amazing person. I do not view a future Domme, against the ones in the past. The future Domme, must be herself, as I will be thinking on every part of her.
There are moments I am submissive, and moments I have to be dominant. NO ONE, not even Dommes, can remain 100% Dominant. They would simply break down mentally and emotionally. Same with male doms. No, I do not have to be dominant in bed, but I could be (and often am), when I feel a Domme would be better served by certain actions, then simply being docile.
Apart from what you could find in my profile, I tend to be quite a personal person. I tend to think, and plan things out. I look out for my friends, and generally want others to live happy and exciting lives.
My philosophy on things: Most people will look outside and see its raining cats & dogs, and say "yuck, the weather sucks!". I will look at it, and say "its nice weather." Often, people will ask, what I would considered 'bad weather day'. I reply "When fire and brimestone, rain from the heavens!" Usually people nod and say "Yeah, that would suck!". Its not that I hold a positive outlook on things (but I can strive towards it, right?), but, an understanding in to the nature of things.
I'm looking for friends in the lifestyle. A Domme is a wonderful person to serve. But simply serving a Domme is not enough. Hearing her purr and even giggle when she is relaxed and happy, is the real treat. Doing things, to help make her life easier, relaxing, and more worth living. Its not just about the sex, but alot more. A good relationship times friendship and time to develop. I just wish I could find a friendly Domme...
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