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11/9/2009 7:51:20 PM |
I do not understand people who beg to serve and then do not understand that the first requirement is to show up at the agreed upon time at the agreed upon place. One would think if they have made it to their mid-forties and are gainfully employed that they would have learned this. I really don't ask for much. But I suppose that asking for honesty, openness, communication, and a true drive to serve is asking more than most guys want to give. Alas.
I do not understand people who beg to serve and then do not understand that the first requirem
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10/16/2009 1:50:27 PM |
I do not want to crossdress you. If I am going to buy anyone clothes, it's me. If I'm going to focus on anyone's clothing it's mine. It's so not my thing. Don't ask me to do it. I really have no interest in it.
I do not want to crossdress you. If I am going to buy anyone clothes, it's me. If I'm going to
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10/14/2009 11:32:41 PM |
It occurs to me that I should clarify something, just for those who have managed to obey the initial instruction I give in my profile. I am not, and I am unlikely to be, interested in trying to start or maintain a long distance D/s relationship. The roles that I am seeking to fill require someone I see on a regular basis. Coming to clean my house once every six months is obviously not practical. Coming to serve me sexually every six months is not going to be helpful. Coming to be a painslut and exhibitionist every six month means I don't get to have fun at parties much. So let's just all not waste each other's times, all right? If you live more than about 75 miles away from me, you're going to have trouble being here very often. I have no difficulty with making friends. I don't even have trouble with having kinky friends. But if you're across the country or across an ocean, and you think I'm your goddess? Move to central IN, get a job, rent an apartment, and then message me, and we'll see.
It occurs to me that I should clarify something, just for those who have managed to obey the i
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10/11/2009 7:29:11 PM |
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If a sub wants to put me in a good mood
He could take me out for some nice
food,
Or get me something from my Amazon
list,
Cause like any woman I like little
gifts,
Offer to do something that I hate
doing,
Bring me a Guinness for the beef that
I'm stewing,
Or a liqueur to go in a cake
Offer to wash up after I bake!
Flowers are lovely, yellow roses are
best,
But put yourself available to my
request,
Be honest when you're afraid or just
pissed,
And you'll be the top of the subs on my
list!
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If a sub
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9/11/2009 4:42:16 PM |
The plumber has been and gone, and the Lord and Lady of Avalon House now have a working tub drain and a non-dripping faucet. And a house with mud tracked all through it from the basement, and one very tired Lady who stayed up past her usual bedtime because someone had to be up when the plumbers came this morning....But now I can enjoy a hot bath in a tub that properly drains. Pity there is no personal servant currently to wash my back, but I will manage til the right one comes along.
The plumber has been and gone, and the Lord and Lady of Avalon House now have a working tub dr
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9/6/2009 8:45:39 PM |
Funny thing I've noticed....
I can find a man for all my kinks, except one....
He'll let me spank him. In public. Call him a whining baby and make
him cry. He'll wear panties and carry my purse, let me order for him.
He'll let me cut him and bruise him. Some have offered to be locked in
a dog cage, to drink my urine, to lick me clean and be my toilet.
But I can't find one so far who will do what I REALLY want him to do....
wash the dishes...
Funny thing I've noticed....
I can find a man for all my kin
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9/4/2009 2:40:52 PM |
I'm off to a play party this weekend....who wants to go and serve me and get a good paddling and possibly a nice flogging? And of course I always make sure that my boys get to come, assuming they behaved up to standards.....
I'm off to a play party this weekend....who wants to go and serve me and get a good paddling a
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7/30/2009 9:23:24 PM |
One nice thing about having two young men living with me (besides things like the dishes getting done after meals without my intervention and the good sex and laughter and companionship) is that I am given daily insight into male behavior, which I can then use, suitably scrubbed and rearranged, in my novel. Clearly, I need to include in the novel a scene of the teenaged boys having a pissing contest. In all senses of that term. (snicker)
One nice thing about having two young men living with me (besides things like the dishes
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7/1/2009 3:29:46 PM |
Decisions, decisions. Do I get the lingerie or do I pay for the photo session? On the one hand, the photographer's not going anywhere, and it would be nice to have some good stuff to wear for the photos. On the other hand, I'd really like to have the photos... but I'd really like a new bustier...I hate it when I can't make my mind up. But I can only spend the money once. I suspect it will be on a new bustier. I go to enough lifestyle events that it's worth having some interesting pieces.
Decisions, decisions. Do I get the lingerie or do I pay for the photo session? On the one hand
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6/24/2009 1:42:26 PM |
There are few things more lovely than a man or woman waiting for the touch of my hand, my whip, my strap. Even in the dim light of the dungeon, he was beautiful. I began by simply running the palms of my hands over his skin, feeling it. I was close enough, both hands running strokes of firm comfort and security down his arms, to smell him...not his cologne, his bodywash, or his shampoo, but the essential scent of him. Delicious. Utterly delicious. The strokes of my palms down his arms changed, the fingers flexing, nails scraping back up his arms, then raked gently across the skin of his back. Back scratching is a pure sensual pleasure. I've been known to trade hand jobs for a full on proper back scratch. He clearly felt the same way, purring at my touch. I had, of course, a greater purpose in my scratching...it wakes the skin across the back, sensitizes it slightly. I kept a hand on him as I leaned over to the table and picked up my long thrash. It "popped" gently across his shoulderblades and spine, not enough to do any damage further down, just to patter across the skin and warm it, bring the blood up. Then I brought it back up and lashed harder across his shoulders with it. It's very loud, but just lightly stingy, very nice for things like this. I have a smaller one I use for cock whipping, but we didn't need that today. He groaned slightly,squared his shoulders to take the blows, and I could feel the arousal rise in him. I'd let my hair loose, so I stepped close and ran it over his back, let it fall across the tops of his shoulders and down his chest where he could see it in his peripheral vision. No silk scarf, no, the intimacy of my tailbone-length hair caressing him there as the others at the party watched us. More tools followed. He laughed and giggled infectiously with the use of the pinwheel across his stinging shoulders, and I could not but laugh in response. Finally, though, my foot began to make itself known. I've learned to listen to it, and in the short time we had, he was flying nicely. I hugged him, supported him as we sank to the floor, curled into each other. He kissed me fiercely, and for a moment he would have delighted to sink himself into my body, reproducing in physical intimacy what we had felt as I laid my hair across his shoulders, my body against his, and I had given pain and he had recieved it, ocean striking upon the shore. But not now, not yet, and our kisses turned sweet, and at length we merely held each other, both delighting in the new discovery of each other.
There are few things more lovely than a man or woman waiting for the touch of my hand, my whip
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6/24/2009 7:50:17 AM |
Wonderful party. I met a friend I'd lost contact with and discovered charmingly that he is sub tended, and we still have that little sparkle between us. And he's very very good at making me happy. I didn't realize my toes were that sensitive. (grin) I am a titch not happy with him, though. He left a mark on my pretty white throat, and I am getting teased by the household. I must wear my hair differently today to hide it. But after all, that is what a Beauty must expect from such a wonderful Beast. (smile)
Wonderful party. I met a friend I'd lost contact with and discovered charmingly that he is sub
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6/22/2009 7:16:50 AM |
Out getting this and that, including a new nail polish for myself. I'll put it on after I glaze the pineapple empanadas and finish washing things up from that. I like this one. It looks turquoise, but has denim-to-royal purple iridescence to it. It will look good on my toes, just in case I take my feet out of my boots for a footrub or something at the party. Now I just have to get everyone in the house off to work so that I can get on with things....
Out getting this and that, including a new nail polish for myself. I'll put it on after I glaz
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6/21/2009 12:24:05 PM |
Getting ready for the munch/play party this weekend. I'll go out tomorrow and get a something to put the boy I'm taking along into at the party, and I am working on making pineapple empanadas and beef and cheese empanadas. Yum. It is requiring an exercise in willpower not to eat them up now as they come out of the oven! We have decided to get a couple more bags of the fresh frozen pineapple chunks so that I can cook more of the pineapple filling and can it as pineapple butter for presents and later eating on fresh bread. I might make Sir Bear happy and stir some coconut into that batch.
Getting ready for the munch/play party this weekend. I'll go out tomorrow and get a something
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6/15/2009 6:51:46 PM |
Oh, this is cool! I can put an Amazon "Add to wish list" button on my toolbar, and add yummy things from kinky sites to my wish list so I have it all in one place! How very neat! While I do not turn down gifts, I don't ask for tribute or anything like that. I happen to be dominant, but it's not my profession. But I will invite you over for ginger-pomegranate sorbet if you get me that ice cream maker attachment! (laugh) It is raining like anything outside. The guys are outside commenting, and the cats are glaring at the door to their deck and at me alternately, because, of course, I called this storm up to ruin their plans for hanging out and watching the night. (laughs)
Oh, this is cool! I can put an Amazon "Add to wish list" button on my toolbar, and a
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6/14/2009 4:46:58 PM |
It's a nice vanilla night here, with the Thursday Night D&D game running in the dining room, and me in here reading blogs and listening to thirteenth-century plainsong and petting the cat. But I think it is important for those of us doing WIITWD to recognize that the times where I am a goddess with a flogger in hand and the times where I am just a woman who is feeling hormonal and a little cross with life are just different parts of one life, not two different lives. (I can has mai period nao? Plz?)
It's a nice vanilla night here, with the Thursday Night D&D game running in the dining roo
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6/5/2009 7:19:26 PM |
I'm looking forward to seeing my boy tomorrow. I can't wait to watch him obediently dusting and vaccuming, and then to see him naked on my bed....ah, such a feast of dominant pleasure I'm having. I love to see the blood rise up under his skin when he's spanked, see his cock jump in my hand, hear him beg.... ah, it's a lovely thing. Tomorrow I shall have him brush my hair, and I will have him paint my toenails, and if he is very very good I will let him wash me when I bathe.
I'm looking forward to seeing my boy tomorrow. I can't wait to watch him obediently dusting an
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5/26/2009 6:24:17 PM |
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I love playing Monopoly. I love it even more when the winner gets to be the first one in the middle. Cause then everyone wins.I love playing Monopoly. I love it even more when the winner gets to be the first one in
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5/10/2009 11:15:44 AM |
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A lovely day, after a very rainy night. The peas are grown enough to be tied up to the trellis, so I did that, and moved some of the fire bricks from the back yard round to the front yard to edge the flower beds. The edging's not all the way accomplished, but bricks are heavy and I am out of steam. I could so use a footrub and someone to wash my back in the shower. (looks round) Ah, well. Bear is spending some time tonight with Kitten at her house, so I will go to bed when I feel like it, instead of waiting up to see him after work. We're going to go down and see her house and meet her doggies and have lunch with her on Saturday, I think, since we need to do some shopping for various electronic items. Hint to the universe: I could use either some extra money or a sub who's a computer geek with an extra gamer's CPU....A lovely day, after a very rainy night. The peas are grown enough to be tied up to the trellis
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5/7/2009 10:13:26 AM |
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The playdate was cancelled by some overtime on the part of the other dom. Ah, well, shit happens, and we'll reschedule someday soon. I had a really nice weekend, despite this, and spent time talking to a lot of people I like a lot. We (Bear, Kitten, and I) spent some time Sunday putting in the rest of the garden for this year; some broccoli, some snow peas (for which a trellis had to be created) and a honeydew melon. It was a lovely bright day, and Kitten spent some time picking up sticks and burning them in the firepit. It's little happy domestic times like this that really to me are the sweet parts of a poly relationship. I love them, and maintain my hope that I can find a submissive man who enjoys them too. The playdate was cancelled by some overtime on the part of the other dom. Ah, well, shit happe
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5/4/2009 3:58:12 PM |
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Just an FYI: My computer is down, and so I will not be up for engaging in long IM chats any time soon. I will be checking my CM account regularly, but not as often as usual.Just an FYI: My computer is down, and so I will not be up for engaging in long IM chats any ti
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4/30/2009 6:23:49 PM |
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So what has Lady Alexandra been up to? Well, in the last two weeks I've deep-cleaned the kitchen, hosted three dinner parties, done a metric assload of dishes in the process, met a new heartsister, started editing a new book, and begun serving as priestess to a local coven. My husband and I are hosting a 'play date' and joint training opportunity for our submissive girl, a submissive friend of hers, and her friend's Master. The doms will enjoy an afternoon's conversation and a good dinner, and the subs will learn to serve by doing. It's all good!So what has Lady Alexandra been up to? Well, in the last two weeks I've deep-cleaned the kitch
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4/12/2009 6:54:13 PM |
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The last munch was a really lovely party, with some overdue discipline coming to some naughty subs who deserved it, some birthday spankings, and some lovely long flights into subspace. As always, the food was excellent, and enjoyed by all. I didn't actually get to do much playing myself, but sometimes it's almost as fun to watch someone who really knows what he's doing with something. I also got to pick up a very nice set of balanced longer suede floggers and try them out. It told me I need to get hand weights and begin developing my deltoids so that I can just really dance it down someone's back and up again. For that, I'll definitely put in the work! Kitten served beautifully, and I look forward to seeing her kneel side by side with a boy of mine someday. A lady can dream....The last munch was a really lovely party, with some overdue discipline coming to some naughty
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3/27/2009 8:57:10 PM |
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Those of you who did not attend the Anderson munch missed not only a good meal but a really fun time. The submissives present got a little feistier than usual, because there would be no play party following, but all us dominants promised we'd remember for the April party! The party is on April 11, and those interested in attending may join the Anderson Munch Group on Yahoo!Groups for more information. I will be there. In other news, I am now the happy co-dominant (with my husband) of a lovely girl, and look forward to growing and learning occuring on both sides of the kneel. I am still very open to finding a male for service as well, so do not lose heart, gentlemen. Those of you who did not attend the Anderson munch missed not only a good meal but a really fu
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3/1/2009 5:53:55 PM |
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There appears to be a failure of etiquette among submissives on this site. If we have been talking on IM and enjoying each other's virtual company, it is not at all okay to not show up for our lunch date and then not to contact me in the next 24 hours. I am quite honestly to the point, gentlemen, of telling you all that there is a meeting opportunity once a month at the local munch, and you may come or not, and I will be there regardless. It is profoundly rude to stand someone up. It does not speak well of your submissive nature and interest in serving me. If you read this and find my disinterest in arranging a meeting disheartening, then blame the other submissives who have talked a good game and then never shown up. There appears to be a failure of etiquette among submissives on this site. If we have bee
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2/28/2009 8:09:16 AM |
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There is a perfect place in submission. It is where one's own thought of self as distinct from the Mistress fall away, the ego subsumes and becomes merely another tool to Her hand. The concept of 'I want' or 'I need' falls aside, lying distantly in the past. To articulate the needs of the body, of course, but the 'I' no longer needs, no longer wants. For the ego has become part of Her, cherished, desired, delighted in, lovely in Her eyes, safe and protected. The outside world falls away, and the submissive and his Lady are one.....There is a perfect place in submission. It is where one's own thought of self as distinct from
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2/20/2009 9:45:52 AM |
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Gentlemen and ladies, I cannot recommmend this essay enough. http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/2007/02/19/how-to-negotiate-play-parties-for-men/ It talks about sex parties, not munches and play parties, but the overall thrust of the article is applicable to play parties and meeting people in the lifestyle. Read, learn, incorporate into your life. Gentlemen and ladies, I cannot recommmend this essay enough. http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/
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2/8/2009 1:09:38 PM |
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I do not ask for perfection of slavehood; I ask for your full effort without slacking. I do not ask for physical perfection; I ask for enough health and flexibility to accomplish your tasks. I do not ask for a genius; just someone who can keep up with my mind. I do not ask for a comedian, just someone who also appreciates the occasional farcical nature of existence. Otherwise, I don't care what your hair color is. I don't care how tall you are. I don't care if you're considered handsome or pretty or not. I don't care if you're male or female or genderqueer. I don't care how big your cock is or how large your breasts are. Because I am not looking for someone to play with. I am looking for someone to find the deity within himself in serving the deity within me. I do not ask for perfection of slavehood; I ask for your full effort without slacking. I do no
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1/14/2009 4:46:02 PM |
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I like the thought of having a submissive brushing out my long red hair, and then teasing him with it while he is bound and helpless. I like the thought of a submissive with his cock and balls in bondage washing up the dishes. I like the thought of a submissive walking beside me in the grocery store. I ask him to bend to get something off the low shelf, delighting inwardly in the exposure of his lace panties over the waistband of his jeans. I like the thought of sitting together on the couch watching a movie, dropping my feet into his lap, and having him massage them. I like the thought of us laughing over dinner at an atrocious pun, and the look on his face when he bites into what I cooked. I like the thought of having a submissive brushing out my long red hair, and then teasing him
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