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1/20/2010 5:01:04 AM |
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How is it considered to be submission to me if you are only willing to do what YOU want, when YOU feel like it, and under YOUR terms? That sounds far more like I am the one submitting and servicing YOU since not once have MY interests, desires or preferences come up. If *I* am the dominant, then I am the one who tells you when, where and how to serve. If you tell me what you will be doing or me rather than ask me what I want you to do, then you are already starting out on the wrong foot. (relevant repost from when I was still single. I am still not looking, but the sentiments above have not changed)How is it considered to be submission to me if you are only willing to do what YOU want, when
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12/23/2009 5:35:22 AM |
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Ladies, Gentlemen and anyone who falls in between. Please, understand one thing... just because you intend somehting as a compliment does not mean that you should feel free to be vulgar or demeaning in the delivery. Calling me a 'sweet little Domme' is not going to get you a reply of warm fuzzies... its insulting. Calling me a 'fucking hot babe' or telling me how much youd love to be slammed/fucked/done isnt going to win you points either. Have we all forgotten our manners just because we are on the internet? A hint, if I may... if you intend on managing in real life you might want to learn how to present yourself online as well. While a comment like those above will simply get you deleted (and maybe told off) online, I gaurantee it will get you backhanded across the face or worse in real life. Ladies, Gentlemen and anyone who falls in between. Please, understand one thing... just becaus
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10/10/2009 12:48:26 PM |
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I have gotten to the point, 4 days out, where I realize there is really nothing more I can do that hasnt already been done. Everything is as perfect as it can get on my end. No matter what happens that day, it is only one day in our lives. I wil be married to my beloved Fox, and thats all that really matters. Beyond that, the day and all the festivities are gravy. I hope to have a wonderful wedding, but I can gaurantee I will have a wonderful husband.I have gotten to the point, 4 days out, where I realize there is really nothing more I can do
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8/12/2009 2:35:16 AM |
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It amazes me some people didnt understand that my last post was sarcasm. I am NOT LOOKING. For anyone, anything, no matter what you care to offer. We are MONOGAMOUS, as it says in the profile, which means we do not play with others, and certainly do not sleep with others. It amazes me some people didnt understand that my last post was sarcasm. I am NOT LOOKING. For
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7/20/2009 6:25:29 AM |
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Since people dont seem able to read the Not Looking in my profile, I think I will find another way to discourage them. From now on, anyone begging to serve will have to tribute something to help with the wedding. Yes, I said it, tribute. Since so many people absolutely rail against the idea of giving a tribute for someone's time, maybe that will be the deterent I need.Since people dont seem able to read the Not Looking in my profile, I think I will find another
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6/26/2009 3:50:06 AM |
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If you are going to start a conversation with me, then have something to say. If you start and it sounds like : 'Hi, I want to get to know more about you. And ask me anything about myself you want to know' it is going to be a short conversation. If I had wanted to ask you thinks about yourself... I would have contacted you. I didnt, which means I am not going to go out and do the research so I can carry on a conversation you wanted to start. Start it, and if im interested I'll continue... but dont decide you want to talk and then expect me to start the conversation. It doesnt work that way.If you are going to start a conversation with me, then have something to say. If you start and
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6/23/2009 6:05:46 PM |
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Ever notice how it is always a pity when I am not into what you have to offer?Ever notice how it is always a pity when I am not into what you have to off
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6/10/2009 1:11:29 PM |
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Boys and girls... do you really think insulting me or my mental capacity after you have been told I am not interested is going to hurt my feelings and make me decide I was wrong about you after all? Please. Grow up. Had you read the profile you would have already known you were going to be denied. I am not going to be really sad because of your immature sour grapes response to me telling you what you should have already known. Boys and girls... do you really think insulting me or my mental capacity after you have been t
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4/20/2009 5:48:29 AM |
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Finally getting my machine back this afternoon. I am password protecting the damn thing this time, to make sure Dad doesnt 'help' again. Finally getting my machine back this afternoon. I am password protecting the damn thing this t
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4/17/2009 2:24:23 AM |
I swear, if people would put half the effort into finding those they are compatible with that they put into bitching and moaning about the pros on the site theyd have so much more luck. Why waste your time complaining about someone who doesnt really care if you object or not? Make better use of it and just hide the profiles you dont like and move on.
I swear, if people would put half the effort into finding those they are compatible with that
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3/26/2009 9:05:21 AM |
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Computer is all messed up. Dad was helping, and I think he got it infected with some sort of vicious malware somehow. Damn thing wont even start up. Have someone taking a look tonight, but who knows how long I'll be offline. Computer is all messed up. Dad was helping, and I think he got it infected with some sort of v
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3/14/2009 4:49:50 AM |
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Vacation in Vegas. Seeing the family, leaving Fox home on his own for the first time since he moved in. 2 animals to care for and the days off strategically placed around when he was working/in school. This should be funVacation in Vegas. Seeing the family, leaving Fox home on his own for the first time since he
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2/15/2009 4:02:41 PM |
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We are off for a few days. No computer, no internet, no work, no cell phones.It is going to be fantasticWe are off for a few days. No computer, no internet, no work, no cell phones.It is going to be
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1/22/2009 9:28:04 AM |
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Change of original plans: To make it easier to actually manage a honeymoon trip, Fox and I are changing our wedding plans to January 2010. We dont have anything more planned yet.Change of original plans: To make it easier to actually manage a honeymoon trip, Fox and I are
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1/2/2009 5:46:16 PM |
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If I tell someone I do not want a picture of their genitals... do you not understand what that means? A quick definition... your genitals include your cock, your balls, your pussy, your clit, and any variation thereof in any position. I dont care how pretty you think it is, I do not want to see it, and I am not goig to make an exception for yours. I will not be impressed and you will be blocked. I find it hard to resepct a dominant or a submissive who doesnt know what a gential is, or who couldnt care enough about my interests in not seeing them to keep their pictures to themselves.If I tell someone I do not want a picture of their genitals... do you not understand what that
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12/13/2008 6:43:53 AM |
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I am starting to get the itch to meet some new people again. Its been a few months, and I get this way. Fox and I will have time to travel a bit before school starts back up so aybe we can figure out a mini road trip or something... money allowing.I am starting to get the itch to meet some new people again. Its been a few months, and I get
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11/21/2008 2:26:32 PM |
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I have now, as does Fox. If I KNOW you, feel free to ask and we can shareI have now, as does Fox. If I KNOW you, feel free
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11/7/2008 11:56:14 AM |
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Dunno how or who I annoyed to get hidden... but I am back! Didja miss me?Dunno how or who I annoyed to get hidden... but I a
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11/2/2008 2:20:34 AM |
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I must be lucky. I do not get tons of email from fakes, like everyone else talks about. I do get a lot of mail from people who do not read the profile, and from those who are tossing out form letters and hoping someone bites. I do not get scams and crap like that more than once every couple of months. Count me blessed I guess.I must be lucky. I do not get tons of email from fakes, like everyone else talks about. I do g
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10/30/2008 6:21:37 PM |
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I do not owe anyone attention. I dont care if its your birthday, anniversary, first day back from deployment or what... I am not looking and that includes you. I do not owe anyone attention. I dont care if its your birthday, anniversary, first day back f
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10/29/2008 2:10:04 AM |
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Daylight savings never fails to really confuse my body clock. I guess this is better than being an hour late for everything though.Daylight savings never fails to really confuse my body clock. I guess this is better than bein
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10/16/2008 10:34:57 AM |
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Ahh, clean apartment. If anyone would like to take issue with the fact that I do my own cleaning... feel free. I refuse to live with a mess until such time as Fox is free to clean up. I'd rather clean my own apartment and let him do his homework without concerning himself with a growing mess.Ahh, clean apartment. If anyone would like to take issue with the fact that I do my own cleani
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10/9/2008 5:29:01 AM |
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1 year today and many more to comeCollarme.com - The Largest BDSM Community on the Planet
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10/6/2008 4:55:40 PM |
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I believe that I now have a new pet peeve. Those who are Dominant, or just call themselves Dominant, and believe that dominance is an open licence to be a complete and utter jackass. To their property, to their friends or to random people. Dominance does not give you carte blanche to say whatever you wish to whomever you wish... or at least not and still expect to be respected and treated in the manner in which you would like to be accostomed. Heres a hint, even a very loyal and well trained collared slave will eventually tire of a know it all dominant who believes they are never wrong just because their name is in dark blue or red. I believe that I now have a new pet peeve. Those who are Dominant, or just call themselve
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10/1/2008 10:28:47 AM |
Yay, Firesilk finally have up photos (I took a few) There will be more when we actualy have time for a photo shoot and not a quick hey go stand by that wall and look cute.
Yay, Firesilk finally have up photos (I took a few) There will be more when we actualy have ti
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9/28/2008 4:49:53 AM |
The more someone boasts about being real, the more I suspect that they are not. After all, it isnt like there is anyone on the site boasting about being fake.
The more someone boasts about being real, the more I suspect that they are not. After all, it
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9/23/2008 2:29:42 AM |
Hint: not everyone thinks that your being worthless is a selling point. If you arent worth my time, why should I spend it on you?
Hint: not everyone thinks that your being worthless is a selling point. If you arent worth my
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9/22/2008 4:48:31 PM |
Keep an open mind, but not so open your brains fall out
Keep an open mind, but not so open your brains fall
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9/2/2008 5:57:52 PM |
While browsing, Ive had an epiphany. The more I see of them, the more I dislike maids uniforms.
While browsing, Ive had an epiphany. The more I see of them, the more I dislike maids uniforms
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9/2/2008 5:33:02 PM |
My collar fetish is going crazy, Fox has a new locking 3 ring collar and I am DYING to play with him in it.
My collar fetish is going crazy, Fox has a new locking 3 ring collar and I am DYING to play wi
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8/25/2008 6:41:29 PM |
If I never have drama in my life again, itll be too soon.
If I never have drama in my life again, itll be too
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8/18/2008 5:47:24 PM |
I wonder what the chances of actually finding a "no strings housework" slave REALLY are.I would love a boy or girl to come over, clean up, expect nothing, get a little praise and go home. They would not be as important to me as Fox and Angel. They'd rank about where hired help would... without the paycheck. Heres where al those no strings housework types run and hide. No strings doesnt mean you expect very little... it means you expect nothing. I have yet to meet one who actually wants to serve without strings of any kind. I dont think they exist.
I wonder what the chances of actually finding a "no strings housework" slave REALLY
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8/4/2008 7:30:10 AM |
OK, heres the question:If, as a sub or slave, it is not about you at all... why do you come on here? You make decisions about who you want to serve. If it isnt AT ALL about you... it shouldnt matter who you serve as long as you are in service. If it isnt AT ALL about you, it shouldnt even matter what gender you serve, as long as you are serving. Unless you suddenly cease to be human just becasue you have decided to be on the s side of the slash, there is always going to be an element of this that IS about you. You have to be happy serving. You have to be fulfilled with who you're with. If you arent, and if it really doesnt matter about who then you arent much of a sub. You want to serve a title, not a person. THAT is the most unattractve thing about a sub/slave that can be presented. A disinterest in who they serve as long as they are a D or an M it doent matter about the person it is.
OK, heres the question:If, as a sub or slave, it is not about you at all... why do you come on
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7/27/2008 2:40:32 AM |
Going to be AWOL for a few days. Fox and his sisters will be here from Thursday night until Saturday morning, and then unless plans change on me, I am going to Angel's Saturday night until either Sunday night or Monday morning. Great few day, but likely no time online.
Going to be AWOL for a few days. Fox and his sisters will be here from Thursday night until Sa
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7/18/2008 6:26:38 PM |
Anyone who is interested, I have a new yahoo group, geared toward the younger sect of BDSM interested people, newbies welcome, and nashville locals encouraged to join :) Just ask for the link
Anyone who is interested, I have a new yahoo group, geared toward the younger sect of BDSM int
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6/24/2008 3:36:08 PM |
I am starting to wonder if there is a fetish for rejection that leads submissives and Dominants to email me and demand attention, or request to serve. You already know im gonna say no!
I am starting to wonder if there is a fetish for rejection that leads submissives and Dominant
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6/21/2008 8:14:36 AM |
Back, kinda, from the canoe trip. Great time, Great pictures... very very sunburnt. Just becasue it says its waterproof sunblock... dont believe it!!!
Back, kinda, from the canoe trip. Great time, Great pictures... very very sunburnt. Just becas
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6/15/2008 6:37:03 PM |
There is something very intrinsically wrong with taking bondage themed pictures while a christian choir is singing in the background. In our own defense, though, we started the pictures before they started singing.
There is something very intrinsically wrong with taking bondage themed pictures while a christ
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6/12/2008 1:21:35 PM |
Back from cincinnati. Very tired. Very sore (2 days of nothing but roller costers, thrill rides and the occasional water flume) and then 5 hrs in a car each way. Much fun was had, my boy had a great time with me... except on the Beast... And I quote... "You feel a little tougher when you get off that ride, like youve been through an ordeal. Yeah, a little tougher, or a bit tenderized depending on how you look at it"
Back from cincinnati. Very tired. Very sore (2 days of nothing but roller costers, thrill ride
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6/9/2008 7:05:39 AM |
I leave this evening for a few days off in Cincinnati with my Angel. WE havent had a vacation together in more than a year, so it is way past due. Granted, it will slightly complicate things monetarily until my lovely little tax check comes in, but between this vacation and a short one to see Fox in a few more weeks... I cant think of a better use for my economic stimulus really.
I leave this evening for a few days off in Cincinnati with my Angel. WE havent had a vacatio
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5/31/2008 5:39:33 PM |
If you are not a SUBMIT, why would you think we are DOMINATES?
If you are not a SUBMIT, why would you think we are
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5/30/2008 2:20:33 AM |
Home from vegas, almost back to normal (or my version of)
Home from vegas, almost back to normal (or my versi
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5/28/2008 7:50:23 AM |
FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THAT IS HOLY! If you are going to crossdress can you PLEASE shave your chest and legs? Fur in lengerie is SOOO unappealing.
FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THAT IS HOLY! If you are going to crossdress can you PLEASE shave your che
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5/24/2008 4:58:25 AM |
Off to Vegas for a few days. May or may not be able to get online. If you mail me and dont get a response you'll know why. I am gone till Tuesday. - DV
Off to Vegas for a few days. May or may not be able to get online. If you mail me and dont get
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5/21/2008 7:15:50 PM |
It does not make someone look more intelligent to attack someone elses beliefs. Especially when that someone else is not around to defend themselves. Its easy to argue your side knowing they arent going to cime in with theirs. Taking the low road and arguing with the defenseless instead of those who are present is sort of cowardly... in my oh so humble opinion. And anyone reading this will likely know exactly what I am refering to.
It does not make someone look more intelligent to attack someone elses beliefs. Especially whe
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5/8/2008 3:57:26 AM |
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Is it really that hard to understand that I might not want random CM friends on my other networking sites, like FaceBook or MySpace? I am getting fairly sick of people who bitch and moan about how terribly I treat them because I wont add them on. There are connections there I do not WANT to have access to my CM life. Simple. If I say no, dont argue with me, it isnt going to get you on my good side and make me see the error of my ways. ITs going to piss me off and make me find a way to BLOCK you.Is it really that hard to understand that I might not want random CM friends on my other netwo
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5/4/2008 1:25:07 PM |
Please dont bother writing to me if you find it so difficult to type that you need to abbreviate 3 letter words. It is YOU, not U. ARE not R. If you cant be bothered typing out the whole of your words to me, I cant be bothered reading your messages, much less replying.
Please dont bother writing to me if you find it so difficult to type that you need to abbrevia
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5/1/2008 4:34:54 PM |
Ice cream in a box. One of life's little mysteries. No matter how hard you try, by the second serving, you are GOING to make a mess. What the hell were they thinking?
Ice cream in a box. One of life's little mysteries. No matter how hard you try, by the second
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4/27/2008 6:21:58 PM |
The boys met! We had dinner, and wandered around Walmart for no good reason. It was quite nice, actually, and I am rather happy with the way it went. I cant exactly see them hanging out with one another without me around, necessarly, but if all 3 of us decide to go somewhre, its is comfortable. I am a VERY happy Mommy tonight.
The boys met! We had dinner, and wandered around Walmart for no good reason. It was quite nice
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4/26/2008 10:09:53 AM |
In case the profile isnt clear enough on this, I'll make it even simpler. I am not looking, not wanting anything new, not looking for discreet fun, not wanting a new foot/ass/pussy slave... whatever it is you are offering I am not LOOKING. If you want to CHAT thats cool, but you wont be serving online or anywhere else. That clearer?
In case the profile isnt clear enough on this, I'll make it even simpler. I am not looki
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4/22/2008 11:59:23 AM |
An eventful week! My darling Fox has turned 21 (amidst jokes that he is now getting too old for me and I wil be looking for a replacement... jokes, which are not true!) and my beautifl Angel will be graduating college Saturday! I am such the proud Mommy right now. Enter second set of jokes about how fast the babies grow up and all that. I love my boys :)
An eventful week! My darling Fox has turned 21 (amidst jokes that he is now getting too old fo
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4/19/2008 7:33:04 AM |
If you havent read the profile, dont expect me to be nice and sweet to you. I will point out that you didnt read it, and I wil not sugar coat my stand. I am under no obligation to be nice to everyone. I dont know where some people get that into their heads. I wont be nice if you dont deserve it.
If you havent read the profile, dont expect me to be nice and sweet to you. I will point out t
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4/13/2008 11:50:46 AM |
Let me make something very clear!You do not stand a chance. If you are married, or single, if you are younger, older, Dom, sub, black, white, yellow, green or purple... you do not stand a chance.I am *NOT* looking. I dont care what your sob story is about having a wife/partner who just doesnt understand, having no experience and desperately needing to get out and try things, needing someone as sexy/beautiful/hot as me... you do not stand a chance. Why? I already have my 2 wonderful boys. They are already trained. They love me, and I love them. No matter who or what you are or do, you will not compare to my boys. You will not onvince me you are better than them, you are not going to convince me I need a third, and you are not going to convince me that no-strings playtime will not hurt my relationships with my boys.
Let me make something very clear!You do not stand a chance. If you are married, or single, if
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4/4/2008 6:45:32 AM |
Completely random aside, not realting to much of anything. When I finaly buy a house, I have decided on 2 things. I wil have at least 3 bedrooms, so one can be an office/studio for picture taking and work, one can be a nursery/guest room (guest room only until Angel is living in permantly and then full time nursery and the office can double as a guest room if need be) and one can be MY bedroom. Second thing, my kitchen will have at least 4-6 feet of counter space strictly for preparation and gadget use. My tiny little kitchen has nearly no space and its killing me! I dont need a dungeon, I dont need a luxurious living room, I just want a realy nice kitchen and enough bedrooms to be comfy. Oh, and a garage for storage. Definately need a garage.
Completely random aside, not realting to much of anything. When I finaly buy a house, I have d
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3/29/2008 5:26:14 PM |
In an attempt to get away from the endless arguments of sub vs. slave, I have decided that Angel is now a Serf and Fox is now a Sherpa. Case closed.
In an attempt to get away from the endless arguments of sub vs. slave, I have decided that Ang
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3/24/2008 1:40:22 PM |
OK, Theres nothing quite as funny as having a doctor tell you you have to take some time off "unusually rough sex"...
OK, Theres nothing quite as funny as having a doctor tell you you have to take some time off &
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3/20/2008 8:03:45 AM |
Finally, Angel and I had enough time togehter to have an absolutely amazing day together. Real life schedules keep this from happening nearly as often as Id like, or he would. We are hoping to make nights like that more common *knock on wood*
Finally, Angel and I had enough time togehter to have an absolutely amazing day together. Real
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3/16/2008 6:04:00 PM |
OK, I am in social butterfly mode. Fox and I have no problem travling a bit, if we have some mutual time off (mainly weekends)and some spare money in the budget for a place to stay. We would love to meet some people in the nearby areas, just friends of course... and maybe photos.
OK, I am in social butterfly mode. Fox and I have no problem travling a bit, if we have some m
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3/15/2008 9:35:22 AM |
Pussy shots are no more welcome that cock shots. I dont want to see you naked and spread, whether you are male or female. If I wanted to see something like that , Id ask.
Pussy shots are no more welcome that cock shots. I dont want to see you naked and spread, whet
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3/14/2008 7:34:19 AM |
OH the EXCITEMENT! Saturday March 29 is the first screening for one of the movies I did the poster art for. My poster will be displayed all over the theater, I am going to be present to make more contacts and to photograph the event... and there is possibly the idea running around of getting the entire staff to sign a poster or two to keep incase it gets famous. While I am not holding my breath on that one... I must admit the possibility is pretty damn awesome.
OH the EXCITEMENT! Saturday March 29 is the first screening for one of the movies I did the po
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3/10/2008 7:31:07 AM |
Using big words is only impressive if you can do 2 things: USE THEM CORRECTLY AND SPELL THEM! You might get points for trying, but when you are attemtping to look smarter by using a bigger vocabulary, make sure it is your vocabulary... not one you borrowed for the occasion and cant actually hold up in a conversation later.
Using big words is only impressive if you can do 2 things: USE THEM CORRECTLY AND SPELL THEM!
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3/3/2008 2:16:46 AM |
Well the traveling munch has been a huge success. We had a fantastic time in VA with DRH, and in DC with DC and Trapped. We fully plan on coing back and seeing everyone again.It might take a bit, and by then I swear I will have street maps for my GPS for ALL the relavent areas! The meetings were a success, my driving abilities and our sense of direction... not so much.
Well the traveling munch has been a huge success. We had a fantastic time in VA with DRH, and
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2/27/2008 7:06:51 PM |
Finally, tomorrow is my last day before vacation. It is going to be the LONGEST day in recorded HISTORY at work... isnt the day before vacation always the hardest to manage though? Bah... However I do get to go see Fox's family tomorrow before vacation, and then off to friends we go!
Finally, tomorrow is my last day before vacation. It is going to be the LONGEST day in recorde
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2/24/2008 8:11:44 AM |
Pictures of me, in a dress AND makeup... will exist after next sunday. I make no proises that hell wont freeze over shortly after
Pictures of me, in a dress AND makeup... will exist after next sunday. I make no proises
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2/23/2008 3:29:01 PM |
Anyone else want to give me shit about my decision to stay on the site even if I am not actively looking for a new submissive? Come on now, I have plenty of room on my blocked list still. If anyone who thinks they can contact me, and question my choices to stay, to belong, and anything else... they are sorely mistaken. I do not answer to anyone, least of all a cyber contact who will never be a real life one.
Anyone else want to give me shit about my decision to stay on the site even if I am not active
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2/2/2008 3:00:45 PM |
Which part of I AM NOT LOOKING is open to interpretation?
Which part of I AM NOT LOOKING is open to interpret
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1/20/2008 12:15:08 PM |
Why do some people act surprised when I say I am taken and they ask if I would play anyway and I say no? Its not like I give the indication I will and then back out... they are trying to convince me to play and I dont go for it. Why are they then surprised I dont want to leave Fox and Angel for them if I just SAID I wouldnt leave Fox and Angel for them?
Why do some people act surprised when I say I am taken and they ask if I would play anyway and
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1/18/2008 2:00:41 PM |
Chat != beg to serve ---I enjoy chatting. I dont like being begged to allow someone to serve me every time we speak. That gets old, fast, especially when you know I am going to say no!
Chat != beg to serve ---I enjoy chatting. I dont like being begged to allow someone to serve
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1/9/2008 3:13:04 PM |
A thought: If you truly are beautiful, why would you feel it necessary to tell people? It seems to me that they'd already know by loking, and you shouldnt have to mention it...
A thought: If you truly are beautiful, why would you feel it necessary to tell people? It seem
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1/8/2008 6:42:57 PM |
If you dont bother reading and you tell me you did read... dont be so surprised and insulted when you get called out on it! I put it there for a reason.
If you dont bother reading and you tell me you did read... dont be so surprised and insulted w
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1/4/2008 7:35:54 PM |
Now, just becasue we can add people as friends... doesnt mean I am going to add half the world. My friends list is going to remain people I ACTUALLY talk to. If you want to chat with me, we can become friends but I am not going to add everyone. This isnt myspace! I dont accept random friends trying to make their lists bigger there... I am nt going to start it here either. Dont like it? Tough... My friends understand and wont question that, and anyone who cant understand or wants to argue is never going to be a friend anyway.
Now, just becasue we can add people as friends... doesnt mean I am going to add half the world
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12/16/2007 7:01:24 AM |
Upcoming Divorce Day festivities... Jan 6, 2 years! YAY
Upcoming Divorce Day festivities... Jan 6, 2 years!
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12/14/2007 8:06:12 PM |
I dont get it. Maybe I am missing something. Can someone explain to me the idea of submitting an application to become a slave? Is it like getting a job? Do you submit a resume? References? A 3000 word essay telling me why you would be a better fit for the job than someone else? What happened to getting to know someone and then considering them for service, rather than taking an application for service and hoping you like the person as much as you liked their application? They are going to tell you what you want to hear to be considered... we have all applied for jobs, we know how to answer these things. There is just abslutely no substitute for getting to know someone. No resume can replace that.
I dont get it. Maybe I am missing something. Can someone explain to me the idea of submitting
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12/12/2007 12:38:35 PM |
Have you ever invited someone over, and then thought twice about actually wanting visitors? Kitten is coming to visit, and he knows im not up for much, but im not even sure i am all that interested in conversation. *sigh*
Have you ever invited someone over, and then thought twice about actually wanting visitors? Ki
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12/9/2007 8:21:18 AM |
Theres a turkey in my parking lot...how strange.
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12/9/2007 7:58:33 AM |
Do people not know what a genital is? I mean, really. I specifically say that I dont want pictures of genital in my mailbox, if someone wishes to send me anything for whatever reason. And LO and BEHOLD! I see PENISES!PENISES ARE GENITALS! Do I need to explain this in smaller words and maybe draw pictures to explain better? Come on now... I am not looking, why would I want to see your little dangly bits?And a hint for the equally clueless female sect. a Vagina is ALSO a genital! I get these too... and I dont want them! Come now, keep some of the mystery to yourself, I dont care to see all of you ever, why send it to my mailbox as some sort of first impression?
Do people not know what a genital is? I mean, really. I specifically say that I dont want pict
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12/5/2007 7:00:27 PM |
Fox: When was this Ron Jeremy person big?DV: You do know who he is right?Fox: Yeah, some porn star. When was he big?DV: Whenever he was hard.
Fox: When was this Ron Jeremy person big?DV: You do know who he is right?Fox: Yeah, some porn
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12/2/2007 5:04:30 PM |
Fox: Snarko ergo sum.
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11/28/2007 2:01:19 PM |
CAPS LOCK is not cruise control for Dominance....
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11/10/2007 6:58:11 PM |
There is possibly nothing that annoys me more than Dommes propositioning Fox with some of the stupidest requests I have ever heard... except those same Dommes BLOCKING me when they do it. You are brave enough to approach my pet, but you block me to make sure I cant say anything to you about it? Way to make an impression there. Hate to break it to you ladies... he tells me EVERYTHING.You arent being sly by not letting me message you, he'll be more than happy to play messenger when I tell him to tell you off. *bats eyes*And he will do so with my blessing. So, have at it, we can use the laugh.
There is possibly nothing that annoys me more than Dommes propositioning Fox with some of the
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11/5/2007 7:07:16 AM |
Finally back. Moms back in Vegas, and things are almost back to normal.I am slightly confused as to why it is that Dommes approach owned boys, want to chat and then act surprised that the boys they are talking to are REALLY owned. Then they apologize for it, if they dot get the compliance they want, knowing full well if they could have stolen him they wouldnt be sorry at all. I hate that.
Finally back. Moms back in Vegas, and things are almost back to normal.I am slightly confused
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10/29/2007 5:30:39 PM |
Try not to miss me too much, I'll be traveling Tomorrow through Tuesday... Doubt I'll get online. Hopefully I wont be insane when I get back.
Try not to miss me too much, I'll be traveling Tomorrow through Tuesday... Doubt I'll get onli
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10/27/2007 4:55:10 PM |
YES I REALLY AM A VAMPIRE! Will people stop asking! I bite. I do not always drink blood, but I have in the past. It is a VERY symbolic thing for me, not a kink. I am not going to drink your blood just because you offer. Thanks, but not my thing.
YES I REALLY AM A VAMPIRE! Will people stop asking! I bite. I do not always drink blood, but I
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10/24/2007 8:08:03 AM |
I must rant for a moment.This has been driving me batty, so I tink I will put it down.I am a DOMINANT FEMALE. This means I am NOT interested in submitting to anyone. Male or female, *I* am dominant, not just dominant until I meet the one to show me my "glorious submissive side". (yes, I really got that from someone)It also means just becasue your name is in red or dark blue I am not automatically going to respect you as an equal. I will not speak down to you, I dont do that to submissives either unless its called for, and I do not expect you to speak down to me. IF you do, you just prove to me you are an insecure Dominant trying to make themselves look better and I will not respect that. IF you cannot respect my boys, same problem. If you dont like how I handle my boys, then dont handle yours that way. Do not try and instruct me.. I dont care to hear "tips".Just becasue I am a dominant does NOT mean I am going to dominate EVERY SUBMISSIVE I MEET!!! Please, people, I have my boys and I am NOT LOOKING. This does not mean I am open for negotiation because you really are that good. I love the site, I love the people for the most part... but there are a few of you here and there that are the reason the serious ones have such a hard time. You do not make yourselves look better trying to fight an uphill battle when a Lady has already said she isnt interested.Just a little FYI, and my rant for today.
I must rant for a moment.This has been driving me batty, so I tink I will put it down.I am a D
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10/19/2007 2:55:34 PM |
Being without a car sucks. OK, Granted, It gives Fox a reason to be here constantly... so it isnt ALL bad. HOWEVER I am now going to pick my new car up in Vegas and Mom is going to be driving back with me. For...THREE...days
Being without a car sucks. OK, Granted, It gives Fox a reason to be here constantly... s
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10/14/2007 11:52:06 AM |
Respect is not optional.Do not speak to me if you cannot do so respectfully. I do not care if you are Dom or sub, male or female or anywhere in between. I dont ask you to bow, to use titles or anything else. But my boys are not BITCHES and out of respect to me you will not refer to them that way. If that simple request is an affront to your dominance... you might want to take a really good look at yourself. You should not be so insecure in your own dominance that having to speak respectfully about someone elses pets hurts you. Remember, my boys are MINE, they are not your subs. They may be your equals, and in my eyes they may be held higher than you, if you are unable to respect someone.Just a thought.
Respect is not optional.Do not speak to me if you cannot do so respectfully. I do not ca
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10/6/2007 8:27:44 AM |
I met Shawn1066 recently. Wonderful boy, and I look forward to teaching him a bit about the lifestyle. Between teaching him and my Wonderful Angel, I am going to have my hands full. But I wouldnt give it up for anything.
I met Shawn1066 recently. Wonderful boy, and I look forward to teaching him a bit about the li
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9/26/2007 12:04:35 PM |
I had to remove my ponderings on a pain slut. Many of you took this as an invite to serve. It was not. I would like a pain slut, yes, but it has to be someone *I* select. If it happens, of course. To answer a few of the questions that were sent. I am NOT unhappy with Angel in any way shape or form. I am THRILLED with him and do not plan on changing anything with him. At all, for anyone. He is not a masochist, and so I am not sadistic with him. I enjoy the sadistic interaction, but not with him. So, I might eventually possibly find someone with whom I do enjoy that. I am not looking to collar a secondary pet to make up for the things lacking in my relationship. I do not consider there to be a LACK, just a difference in enjoyable activity. Last but not least if you email me to tell me you are the answer to my needs... you should already know you are not going to get a positive response. If you'd like to chat, thats fine. I love to chat with new people. But as soon as the "when do I get to serve?" question comes up, I am done. Hopefully that can clear up a bit of confusion I didnt know would exist.
I had to remove my ponderings on a pain slut. Many of you took this as an invite to serve. I
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9/16/2007 4:24:02 PM |
Why is it that it is SOOOO hard to stay awake when you have to. Most other nights, id be looking at the clock and rolling my eyes at 10. Now, I am fighting to stay awake until 10 since i have to be up so early. My week lately has been awful. The ONLY redeeming quality was the time spent with Angel. Work has sucked. The car thing has beyond sucked. Reminds me of a prayer:God give me the patience to deal with my day, becasue if you gave me the strength I might have to beat someone to death.
Why is it that it is SOOOO hard to stay awake when you have to. Most other nights, id be
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9/14/2007 6:16:29 PM |
new pictures!
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9/13/2007 6:31:34 AM |
My luck, they discontinued the bridesmaid dress in the style I liked in the color we needed. I guess I am going with option 2. GRRAnd car issues. Always sometingI must say, though, that Angel is being absolutely amazing through all these car woes. He has driven me to and from work, even though it has meant he has to wake up early on his weekend. He has not questioned or complained once, and I love him for it. I would have been in a very bad situation had he not been here. It is times like these, the real life situations that come up, that remind me so strongly why it is that Angel is and will be mine permently. I could never ask for a better boy, and I know he knows how much he means to me. On the off chance he does see this, of course, Your the best Angel!
My luck, they discontinued the bridesmaid dress in the style I liked in the color we needed. I
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9/6/2007 11:11:34 AM |
Vacation was WONDERFUL. CTArtist143 made a fantastic host. I look very much forward to seeing him again. And I picked out my bridesmaid dress. SO, come March (when CTArtist is going to be my date at my best friends wedding. YAY) There will be pictures available of me in actual formal dresswear. I am going to be the only bridesmaid.
Vacation was WONDERFUL. CTArtist143 made a fantastic host. I look very much forward to seein
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8/27/2007 8:57:54 AM |
I am finally getting back into my photography pretty heavily. I had forgotten how much I could enjoy this until I went out to do some shooting again.If anyone is curious I have a good bit of my work displayed (what still exists that Ive gotten back from friends and relatives after my exhusband destroyed everything)I am hoping to get more models, artistic ones who dont seem to think that the end all be all of modeling is getting naked and touching themselves *sigh*
I am finally getting back into my photography pretty heavily. I had forgotten how much I could
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8/20/2007 10:10:38 AM |
I am confused. I see a lot of ads saying that someone is searcing for a FemDomme Relationship. And then they leave it at that. What does that mean?!? What does that mean you want, what does that mean you are looking for? That isnt a universal, what my relationship is with Angel and what it might be with someone else is completely different. I wonder if anyone realizes that looking for a "relationship" is a fluff response at best and mostly meaningless unless you define that relationship pretty specifically.
I am confused. I see a lot of ads saying that someone is searcing for a FemDomme Relationship.
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8/16/2007 1:37:33 PM |
Come on boys... really. If you are going to write to me and offer yourself (which is something I state VERY CLEARLY I DO NOT WANT) and I tell you I am not interested... why oh WHY do you feel it necessary to tell me off for it? I didnt mislead you, assuming you can and try to read. Just becasue you offer doesnt mean I am going to accept. Get over yourselves! I have Angel. I am not expressly looking for another. Yes, I gave up Kitten... and I dont know IF or WHEN I will be looking to replace him. Lets not apply for a position that isnt open for consideration yet, OK?
Come on boys... really. If you are going to write to me and offer yourself (which is something
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8/7/2007 5:43:01 AM |
This weather is just simply EVILI am sorry, but 103 out here is far worse than 103 in Vegas was. All that stuff you hear about dry heat... well, its true. Humidity makes it unbearable.
This weather is just simply EVILI am sorry, but 103 out here is far worse than 103 in Vegas wa
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7/23/2007 3:10:18 PM |
Since this has been missed in the profile by many, I'll put it here and see if it gets noticed.I am NOT LOOKING to dominate someone online. I am NOT LOOKING for a new slave. I am NOT INTERESTED in playing with you when you happen to be coming through my city while you are traveling. I DO NOT want to see you do things to yourself on your webcam to make me happy. So please... stop asking.
Since this has been missed in the profile by many, I'll put it here and see if it gets noticed
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7/17/2007 6:00:19 PM |
I am fascinated by the cuteness of the new Ragin Rabbids game for nintendo WII. Angel showed me the youtube link and now ive been screen capturing and making jpegs of the cute stuff.
I am fascinated by the cuteness of the new Ragin Rabbids game for nintendo WII. Angel showed m
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7/13/2007 7:36:59 PM |
It is confirmed, I have a collar fetish. Not collaring someone to me, I have Angel and I am not looking to collar someone else. However, the sight of a collar around a pretty male or female's neck is a real turnon.
It is confirmed, I have a collar fetish. Not collaring someone to me, I have Angel and I am no
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7/8/2007 6:18:03 PM |
Random compliments can almost always make someone smile.
Random compliments can almost always make someone s
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