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4/25/2009 4:02:52 AM |
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Going to Canada again! Anyone from Canada, close to the border?Going to Canada again! Anyone from Canada, close t
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9/21/2008 7:47:23 AM |
To handle yourself, use your head; to handle others, use your heart.
- Donald Laird
You cannot raise a man up by calling him down.
- William Boetcker
Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going.
- Unknown
If you would lift me up you must be on higher ground.
- Ralph Waldo Emerson To handle yourself, use your head; to handle others, use your heart.
- Donald Laird
You
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9/21/2008 7:46:47 AM |
Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character.
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.
- Frank Outlaw Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your ac
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9/21/2008 7:42:54 AM |
'You become that which you think you are. Or, it is not that you become it, but that the idea gets very deeply rooted - and that's what all conditioning is. '
Osho'You become that which you think you are. Or, it is not that you become it, but that the idea
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9/21/2008 7:40:51 AM |
'The feminine is more powerful than the masculine, the soft is more powerful than the hard, the water is more powerful than the rock. '
Osho'The feminine is more powerful than the masculine, the soft is more powerful than the hard, th
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8/25/2008 2:30:06 PM |
My definition of a 'submissive male' is a dominant, or a moderately dominant, or an even an unassuming type of male, who enjoys submission to a Female beyond merely the physical aspect. The term 'submissive' male can be misconstrued as a male who is submissive in all aspects of life, i.e., the 'doormat' - - I do not believe they even exist in real life!
My definition of a 'submissive male' is a dominant, or a moderately dominant, or an even an un
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7/21/2008 8:51:33 AM |
You must look into people, as well as at them.
Chesterfield, Lord
You must look into people, as well as at them.
Che
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7/21/2008 8:51:00 AM |
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The test of courage comes when we are in the minority. The test of tolerance comes when we are in the majority. -- Ralph W. SockmanThe test of courage comes when we are in the minority. The test of tolerance comes when we are
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7/12/2008 11:51:22 AM |
“There is no such thing as absolute value in this world. You can only estimate what a thing is worth to you.”
Charles Dudley Warne“There is no such thing as absolute value in this world. You can only estimate what a thing is
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7/12/2008 11:47:29 AM |
The strength of women comes from the fact that psychology cannot explain us. Men can be analysed, women ... merely adored.
OSCAR WILDEThe strength of women comes from the fact that psychology cannot explain us. Men can be analys
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7/12/2008 11:45:17 AM |
If young women were not deceived into a belief that affectation pleases, they would scarcely trouble themselves to practise it so much.
MARIA EDGEWORTHIf young women were not deceived into a belief that affectation pleases, they would scarcely t
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7/12/2008 11:40:48 AM |
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There are three things men can do with women: love them, suffer for them, or turn them into literature. ~Stephen StillsThere are three things men can do with women: love them, suffer for them, or turn them into l
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7/12/2008 11:38:15 AM |
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Men enjoy being thought of as hunters, but are generally too lazy to hunt. Women, on the other hand, love to hunt, but would rather nobody knew it. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966Men enjoy being thought of as hunters, but are generally too lazy to hunt. Women, on the othe
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7/12/2008 11:36:23 AM |
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If women didn't exist, all the money in the world would have no meaning. ~Aristotle OnassisIf women didn't exist, all the money in the world would have no meaning. ~
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7/12/2008 11:35:08 AM |
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I have an idea that the phrase 'weaker sex' was coined by some woman to disarm some man she was preparing to overwhelm. ~Ogden NashI have an idea that the phrase 'weaker sex' was coined by some woman to disarm some man she wa
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7/12/2008 11:35:04 AM |
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Men who don't like girls with brains don't like girls. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966Men who don't like girls with brains don't like girls. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neuroti
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7/12/2008 11:33:59 AM |
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Women really do rule the world. They just haven't figured it out yet. When they do, and they will, we're all in big big trouble. ~'Doctor Leon,' drleons.comWomen really do rule the world. They just haven't figured it out yet. When they do, and they
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7/12/2008 11:33:09 AM |
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There is a special place in hell for women who do not help other women. ~Madeleine K. AlbrightThere is a special place in hell for women who do not help other women. ~Madeleine K. Albrigh
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7/12/2008 11:32:33 AM |
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A pessimist is a man who thinks all women are bad. An optimist is a man who hopes they are. ~Chauncey Mitchell DepewA pessimist is a man who thinks all women are bad. An optimist is a man who hopes they are.
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6/20/2008 4:59:18 AM |
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Turn that light off. You don't need it.Collarme.com - The Largest BDSM Community on the Planet
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6/19/2008 4:59:52 PM |
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I like guys who listen well. :)Collarme.com - The Largest BDSM Community on the Planet
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6/19/2008 4:27:20 PM |
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He asked what do you think about those movies on 'straight' men getting fucked by He-Marys. If this 'straight' male likes all the cock sucking, is he gay, is he straight or is he gay AND straight. Seems obvious bi fits nicely.He asked what do you think about those movies on 'straight' men getting fucked by He-Marys. I
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5/19/2008 10:04:03 AM |
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If you are not having fun, what the hell are you doing then? :-)If you are not having fun, what the hell are you do
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4/30/2008 4:24:11 PM |
This is from a message in utube.
johnny_: A question that i often wonder about is this tho...take you personally for example.I seen a couple of your vids and seen how you humiliate and abuse men,which obviously they love! But would you ever find yourself attracted to these type of guys? Or would you look at them like they are losers and only go for guys who are not submissive n sh!t? Cool if you dont answer that i just do be curious whether Dominant women in general would ever 'date' the guys they abuse yno!
Me: No one, male or female, is 'submissive' to anyone or everyone. Because a male or female submits to a chosen person, that does not mean they will submit to the next. It takes a lot of trust but the reward is significant. It is a choice. And yes, I happen to prefer men who adore me and get off on my happiness than I do arrogant males. Men who submit are strong; it's not easy to go against convention, give up control, etc.. If you have more inquires, you can email - you seem polite enough.
johnny_:Hey you said it was cool to message you hope thats cool.i was'nt expectin that answer from you to be honest that you would prefare a submissive man who worships you and is willing to humiliate themselves for u.I mean lookin at alot of dommes i tend to see that they think of submissives as weak losers who they can totally manipulate and use! like i have to admit i see myself as an aggressive,confident and pretty assured guy but somewhere in the back of my head i feel a sense of submissiveness towards dominant women which fucks my head right up yno,especially since ive seen alot of dommes seem to say 'my submissive would never get near me only real men do etc etc'...so i suppose im at the stage where im fighting the submissive sh!t away as hard as it is...dnt get me wrong humiliation is ok for me to watch n stuff but for it to happen to me it would fck my self-esteem up!! I enjoyed your video n all but i understand what your saying about 'ballsy men' being submissive.Not that im ballsy but i do see myself as a very strong person who'd never take sh!t,go for what i want,brave etc but i guess im just struggling with the fact that im submissive.especially since i have a g.f who thinks im a mans man if you get what i mean! sh!tty problem i got! hope u dont mind me askin but if u were to ever settle down would it be with a guy who you would constatly dominate,humiliate for fun etc totally cool if u think that question is inappropriate. anywaaaay....i should'nt be botherin you or borin you with this pointless sh!t jus thought id hit you up you seem really cool and confident about what you are into and it would benefit me alot from tlkin to you about what you think and what you know.Cool site by the way.
Hve a good week Usa gal,im off to hide my weak ass submissiveness :-/
johnny_: Hey :-) I checked out collarme.com and read alot of your posts.Thats a really cool site.It was VERY interestin.I feel im gettin alot more into this stuff,whether that is a good or bad thing i dont know..yet.Your simplified breakdown was helpful! I guess im either a bottom or a submissive.I know what you mean about the whole escaping from vanillaville it makes sense.I guess that applies to me too,i do get fed up with the whole vanilla s*!t yno! What a difference a week makes,from looking at your humiliation video thinkin that was heavy to understanding it.Have to admit though it is a great video,as weird as it may sound your laugh in the video was the best...but thats just weird me!Once again you explain it very well.My head is so far into this now.
So Hey thanks alot for taking time out to hit me back,offer me links and help me out.Just confused its frustrating.Everything you've done has helped though.So your not as cruel as you may think Mistress :-p Nah thats a lie your devilish videos prove otherwise my cruel friend :-) Thanks again im grateful.I shall continue lookin into your postings:-)As helpful as they are i also like reading what you have to say,i happen to really enjoy it! Oh i noticed on your site on one of your vid samples you say you pee'd on the slave to warm him up..which was funny,yet caring...but it got me thinkin can a person drink urine without gettin sick? And regardin the 'human ashtray' issue do your slaves swallow the ashes and is it harmful? I better end this im sure you have better things to be doin !
Take care :-)
[Real name]
This is from a message in utube.
johnny_: A question that i often wonder about is this tho
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2/29/2008 7:22:49 AM |
I guess you want your mail opened, male? *smirk.
Sure thing.I guess you want your mail opened, male? *smirk.
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2/18/2008 8:05:16 PM |
Thought this was cute (ahmadanvari.org) :)
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9 Words Women Use
1.) Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are
right and you need to shut up.
2.) Five Minutes : If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour.
Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more
minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.
3.) Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing
usually end in fine.
4.) Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!
5.) Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an
idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to #3 for the meaning of nothing.)
6.) That's Okay : This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.
7.) Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or Faint. Just say you're welcome.
8.) Whatever: Is a women's way of saying FUCK YOU!
9.) Don't worry about it, I got it : Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to #3.
Thought this was cute (ahmadanvari.org) :)
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9 Words
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1/22/2008 7:53:30 AM |
To Sissyboy:
Good girl on following my orders. I have very little tolerance for those 'interested' in real time but rarely get beyond the keyboard. Your authenticity and courage is a pleasant rarity. Go to your personal email...
*****Real time does happen with men who truly desire and seek feminization under the guidance of a Mistress.****To Sissyboy:
Good girl on following my orders. I have very little tolerance for those
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1/4/2008 11:29:49 AM |
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To _________. No longer 'under consideration'. Good job!To _________. No longer 'under consideration'. Go
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12/9/2007 4:23:22 PM |
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To Bottom Boy (you know who *wink)
Yes, I did enjoy using you the day before last. You had no idea what I was going to do to you, did you? *grin. I sat on the couch and ignored you while I played with your male 'thingy' for a while.
Tell me what of the rest had you so d__, ___?!.
To Bottom Boy (you know who *wink)
Yes, I did enjoy using you the day before last.
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12/6/2007 9:08:58 AM |
Reprimanding transgressive behavior.
Submitting to a Woman has been a childhood dream for one of my males. It took him most of his life to find the right Woman to worship. Prior to serving me, he had never served a Woman—they had been serving him, in fact. Unable to find an authentic alpha Female, he eventually abandoned his search and embodied the dominant ideals he sought; if he could not find what inspired him in another, he would invert his original dream. Having Women serve him never felt quite right to him. Granted, it sated his dark imagination and sadism, and it certainly made his domestic life easier, but somewhere, somehow, something was missing. Enjoying the reign of his dominance, those old fires still burned—those dreams of submitting to a Woman secretly haunted him all the more. As fate would have it, we both met one day quite by chance. In the course of our relations, he revealed to me that I stirred those old desires to submit. When he finally did, it was not difficult for him to put aside his dominant side; his submission to me was much more fulfilling to him. His devotion to me is whole and selfless. He follows and serves me as a slave in training. He’s been doing a fantastic job thus far. Once in a great while, shadows of his former dominant side creep up and disciplinary behavior is sure to follow. In order to keep this grossly defiant behavior at bay and maintain compliance and appropriate obedience, I punish him. Below is a snapshot of the welts and bruises which tell the tale of just such a recent humbling.
I posted a photo on a journal elsewhere.
Mistress Dolly (the original) Reprimanding transgressive behavior.
Submitting to a Woman has been a childhood dream for
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12/4/2007 3:56:54 AM |
Thank you sissy for working on your stretching! Your assiduous work is duly noted!
Mistress Dolly (the Original)Thank you sissy for working on your stretching! Your assiduous work is duly noted!
Mistres
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12/3/2007 7:21:48 AM |
Web Site Designer/Photographer
I design websites if any Females are interested.
:)
MistressDolly (the 'Original')
xoWeb Site Designer/Photographer
I design websites if any Females are interested.
:)
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11/27/2007 4:30:18 PM |
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......areas one finds beautiful and worthy of celebration, adoration and worship. ......areas one finds beautiful and worthy of celebration, adoration and wo
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11/24/2007 6:02:45 AM |
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TamedDemon (my email moderator) begins the 7 to midnight run. Stay tuned. TamedDemon (my email moderator) begins the 7 to midnight run. Stay tuned.
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11/21/2007 5:13:35 AM |
Below is an essay I asked a fellow member of Collarme to write after discussing his views together last night on the telephone with me. Enjoy:
Obedience.
Devotion.
Transformation.
Slavery.
To the truly devoted even the sound of these words is erotic. It's like swirling a deep complex red wine around the mouth and allowing it to release all its flavour.
In truth I've never found what I was looking for. Many view bdsm as a sex game, or a service provided by women towards men. But female supremacy is hard to find. And when it is found it usually has a harsh, gruff quality. If that was what I wanted I'd go and work in the salt mines. No i desired something different. Something sensual and deep and controlling, which wasn't dictated by me, but filled all of my senses and opened up a few new ones two. Like a sip of that fine red wine.
Devotion. It is a yearning. An ache. It never asks but it always desires. Desire buried deep within and always looking for opportunities to exercise itself. Opportunities to serve, to be carried on that great gust of obedience and drop finally on the shores of slavery. Slavery is such a full and deep word in itself. Literally it means the ownership of one by another but there are continents of meaning contained within that. The transaction, the interchange, the journey from starting as equals who meet all the way down to the final point when that wonderful moment of slavery is reached. These are all sublime moments that arouses the full palette of sensation. To the ones lucky enough to appreciate it the journey offers myriad delights. In fact it speaks with a beautiful delicate voice. There is a moment of pure exchange that can almost be sensed. In that moment both woman and man can simply be silent and listen to the music of power exchange as the man descends deeply and silently over time. These silences can be deliciously sensual, as if the woman's spirit is making its imprint on the man's soul. It is a sensation to be fully savoured, to be felt in every crevice.
And I felt it last night.
This is the first in a series of regular dispatches and essays.Below is an essay I asked a fellow member of Collarme to write after discussing his views toge
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11/8/2007 4:24:55 PM |
Tonight I took My sissy slave to a Female friend's house of Mine to lend him to Her as a sissy maid. He had to clean Her entire home in the handful of hours allotted to him while I went out and enjoyed the evening. When I returned, the Madame and I (donning white gloves) inspected his work. We, of course, found his performance deficient on several counts,:) and he received some corrections, lol.
Tonight I took My sissy slave to a Female friend's house of Mine to lend him to Her as a sissy
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11/8/2007 4:10:28 PM |
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Collarme.com - The Largest BDSM Community on the Planet
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10/25/2007 4:12:22 AM |
Lovely Essay from LivestoserveHer:
'Whats more significant is not who you are as a slave.... its Whose slave you are...'
From the beginning, the Gift of Life comes from a Female. Reflect upon She Who nourished you from Her breasts, remember Her softness, Her scent, Her sweet life-sustaining lactation. She was the One you first looked up to from the very beginning… Your Creator, Your Provider, Your Teacher, and Your Mentor.
Can you deny, even for a moment, the innate Superiority of a Female? Reflect upon the development of Her innate maturity, wisdom, global perspectives, and keen insight… all traits well established in a Female… long before the selfish, destructive, primal ego of a male ultimately and inevitably withers away to allow him to discover, experience, and cherish true Enlightenment. The Enlightenment to realize, understand and accept one’s place within the real World, the world of divine Femininity, where the male is privileged to kneel at Her feet, head bowed, will surrendered, solely for Her, and Her unrestricted Pleasure.
Only in acknowledging Her divineness as a Goddess, can one hope to understand the relentless and undeniable force that propels you to kneel in Her Presence. Only after you surrender your ego and pride, after you acknowledge your abject insignificance and inferiority, after you embrace your natural slavery and accept Your place as a servant to Her flesh, a mere tool of Her Superior Mind, and an instrument of Her Divine Will… can one even hope and perhaps dare to be what it is your nature to be and in so doing, attain true enlightenment, and with Her acknowledgement and/or usage, possibly even some value… to a true Goddess…
Beg for Her acknowledgement… beg to suffer accordingly to Her Will… revel in the perverse pleasure She derives from your use and abuse… beg to learn how you can best serve Her Pleasures… again, and again, and again… and should She deem you worthy of Her ownership, take pride in being the very LEAST of Her personal possessions. Remember that you are nothing and without purpose, without Her.
'Whats more significant is not who you are as a slave.... its Whose slave you are... always'Thank You, Mistress Dolly...........Lovely Essay from LivestoserveHer:
'Whats more significant is not who you are as a slave...
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10/6/2007 12:50:44 PM |
males:
Reflect upon the desires that have driven you here
and acknowledge the innate force that propels you.
Surrender your ego and pride.
Embrace your natural slavery to the Female.
Accept your place as a servant to Her Flesh;
Dare to be what it is in your nature to be
and in so doing, reach a waking enlightenment.
males:
Reflect upon the desires that have driven you here
and acknowledge the innate force
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9/26/2007 7:15:14 PM |
Hope yet for the less endowed maleBelieve it or not, there is a purpose for you. Not all men with small dicks are a complete waste; in possession of certain skills, they can be salvaged.I have a sudden, small opening (no pun intended) for a cuckolded slave.Requirements:• Single• Penis size: 4 inches or less• Intelligent• Possesses an interest in and a deep understanding of slavery• Ages 30 - 50• Skilled in domestic laborIf you're interested, send a query to Me and adhere to My four-photograph requirement outlined in My profile.
Hope yet for the less endowed maleBelieve it or not, there is a purpose for you. Not all men
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8/16/2007 7:49:50 PM |
Passively seeking a slave: PA, NY, NJ, CT and MA.
Hello,
Before you proceed any further with reading my profile, you should know a few very important things about Me. First, I am a Female supremacist. If I were Queen of the world, every Female would have a male slave at Her feet. But alas, I am not, therefore, in My small world, I ensure the males present are! :) Second, I am not a professional Domina. To avoid wasting your time and mine, I ask that you reflect upon these two points very carefully before making any form of contact with Me.
While I am surrounded by servile males, those who exude the qualities ideal for actual slavery tend to be rare creatures. The most critical component in a prospective candidate is the mere understanding of what the term slave entails. That may sound simple enough, but given the tremendous amount of invention this word has suffered in the 'lifestyle community,' it is rare and refreshing when I find a male who understands what slavery is, containing the correct set of motives that allows him to wholly and completely enter into bondage made of reality, not role play. An ideal candidate will not take the notion of slavery frivolously, for I certainly do not. Let this be a second warning to those who may be reading.
A candidate's understanding of and potential for slavery is not where My prerequisites end, however. I am looking for certain qualities in a male that I find crucial if I am going to accept him into my inner circle as a personal slave. These additional qualities are as follows:
• The male must be anywhere from 25 to 45 years of age. While quite unlikely, it's possible I may make an exception to this rule for those slightly above or below this age range.
• The male must understand fulfillment through selflessness. Never self-centered or possessive in any capacity, his reward comes through being allowed a future of continued servitude in any way I see fit. He will give all of himself to Me, living completely as My property.
• The male must desire to be humbled at a Woman's feet, understanding that as a male, he is inferior by design. He understands Women are naturally superior to men, overall. He believes wholly in the guidance and correction of Female authority and wishes to live under it permanently.
• The male must be relaxed, sincere and down to earth with a positive outlook on life, himself and others. He must be friendly and have the ability to interact well with people.
Should I take interest in your query, we will share in-depth communication via email and then phone. During this time, there will be a very thorough screening and disclosure process. If you are unsure of or insincere in your interest to serve as a slave, it will become apparent. If you are a self-consumed fetishist, club creature or general blockhead looking for an overglorified wife with a whip, I will know.
If you honestly feel you fulfill the qualities I have mentioned above, you are invited to send a query letter to Me and request a dialog. Your first message should be written with the utmost care. Mention that you are writing to apply as a prospective slave, and describe yourself in a neatly written paragraph or two; I will ask for more detail later if I want it. Attach four photographs with this first message. Messages without photographs will go unread and will be deleted immediately. Photo criteria is as follows:
• Photos must be at least 500 pixels wide or greater, in full color and in jpeg or gif format.
•Photos must be new and taken specifically for this query.
• The images must be clear and the subject must be reasonably close to the frame, with the background free of clutter.
• The first photo will be a chest to head portrait, with the subject holding a dated, hand written sheet of paper saying 'For Mistress Dolly.'
• The second photo will be a full body shot of the front (clothed).
• The third photo will be a full body shot of the side (clothed).
• The fourth photo will be a full body shot of the backside (fully nude). You may turn your head away from the camera or crop it out, if you wish.
Some final words:
While past experience in serving a Woman can be a good thing, it is not always necessarily so. If you have had x-many years of being conditioned incorrectly, that will mean more work for Me in making you unlearn your past training. In this light, a passionate and determined novice would be more desirable than a self-important lifestyler. What I am ultimately looking for is potential, and this will be measured by what you show and do, not by a flowery resume.
Thank you for reading,
Mistress DollyPassively seeking a slave: PA, NY, NJ, CT and MA.
Hello,
Before you proceed any further
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