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2/12/2010 1:05:57 PM
I am now chatting in #cafe`BDSM  and as the name suggests its a great room to just hang out, relax and talk about anything and everything you like as long as it isn't against the collarme TOS.    Look forward to seeing you all there!!!   
I am now chatting in #cafe`BDSM  and as the name suggests its a great room to just hang o

6/20/2009 1:37:11 AM
Have you ever watched kids playing on a merry go round? Or listened to the rain, lapping on the ground?Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight? or gazed at the sun into the fading night? Do you run through each day on the fly? When you ask "how are you?" do you hear the reply? When the day is done do you lie in your bed, with the next hundred chores running through your head? Ever told your child, "We'll do it tomorrow." And in your haste not see their sorrow?Ever lost touch, let a good friendship die? Ever call just to say "Hi"?  When you hurry and worry through your day,  it's like an unopened gift, thrown away. Life is not a race, take it slower. Hear the music before the song is over. ~author unknown~  
Have you ever watched kids playing on a merry go round? Or listened to the rain, lapping on th

11/26/2008 2:29:47 AM
I started a thread on the message boards and learned some important things from the wonderful answers.  I'd like to share what kind of a person i am.  Some of my non kink things.  i enjoy watching Ghost Hunters and some paranormal shows.  I'm a fan of the Bob and Tom show. I'd love to share this with the girl who comes to live here.  We could do each others nails while watching the shows, trying not to mess up the polish when we are laughing.  I don't care for people who make fun of others for a good laugh.  i do not like jerry springer.  I am more into the 'how it's done' shows more so than the reality shows.  I enjoy playing some computer games, mainly the ones where you build things and make things grow, not so much into ones where you destroy stuff.   But i would much rather spend time with my sister slave than play any games. I love to be out in my garden,  feeling the cool dirt on my feet and the warm sun on my body.   It is not important to me if the girl likes to be in the garden or not.  I'm happy there alone or with someone to talk to, either way.  I like to go horseback riding, even though we don't have a horse here, there are some stables that rent horses out not far from here.  We have two dogs, three cats, and four fish.  But we have room for more animals  if the new girl would like to get a pet of her own or bring her existing pet with her.    I love animals.  Master doesn't care for snakes though.   And i'm afraid we don't have room for horses or cows.  I'm working on Master letting me have a baby pigmy goat but no success so far.  I'm not so good with plants though. If it doesn't tell me it needs food and water it's gonna die.   I'd like to have more plants in the house.. maybe a more conscientious slave would be a great compliment to that. I'm not a big fan of shopping.  I do like going to goodwill though where i get most of my clothes.  We have a really good one here.  All of those dresses i'm wearing in my profile have come from our goodwill store.   I don't expect my sister to want to buy everything at goodwill, but i would like for her to give it a try and at least go there with me.  I'm not the best housekeeper but i do like a clean house.  I am afraid i have a medical issue that puts me down sometimes and i have to prioritize what i can and can't get done.  Somedays it's just the dishes and the laundry.. other days i can clean the whole house.    I have two empty bedrooms upstairs that my sister would be able to use for her personal space and things.  However she keeps those room is her business.  We also have a full basement for storage.    Master and i have talked about this before, how important it is to have the same level of "clean".  My ex husband was psycho about it but never wanted to do any of the work to keep it that way.    I enjoy when Master makes me a "todo list" of things to get done in the day.  I think that helps to motivate me to try harder to get things done.  I like to check it off as i go and that gives me a sense of accomplisment.  I make my own todo list as well but Master's list comes first.    If it's warm enough i like to dress up to do the list, course that usually leads to sex and not much gets done  LOL but it's worth it.  Master and i run our own business.   We buy things at auction, fix them if neccessary and then resell them on ebay.  Trying out the items is fun, especially the tv's  and once we make so much we can keep the extra stuff we want.  I'm more than happy to show my sister how we do this and if she wants to make some money on the side doing this she can.. if she doesn't want to that is fine as well.   This is getting kind of long.. even though i have much more to add.. if some of this stuff sounds good to you, please drop me a line and we can chat.  look forward to hearing from you.  
I started a thread on the message boards and learned some important things from the wonderful

11/19/2008 3:55:58 PM
I read a profile that has me thinking lately about the Reality of a BDSM 24/7 lifestyle.   It seems that some on here like to perpetuate the silks and spankings fantasy.  or, its just bedroom kink, something to turn on and off when the mood strikes.   So Master and i have started playing a game called "reality is...."  and then we fill in the blank.   Here are some we have come up with so far. Reality Is...... a slave still gives Master head after he's eaten White Castle. Reality is.... being woken from the bestest deep sleep ever, to serve Master some water,  and still smiling as you kneel on the cold floor to serve him his water and hoping it pleases him.   Reality is...  doing the pee dance because you have to go so bad but Master must be served his coffee/pop/dinner first.  Reality is... working together to pay the mortgage.   I'll add more later.. because Reality is.. Master says it's bedtime and nothing else is more important than pleasing Master.  
I read a profile that has me thinking lately about the Reality of a BDSM 24/7 lifestyle. 

11/13/2008 11:14:24 AM
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2/20/2007 2:08:46 PM
Master is the light that leads me through the darkness that would be my life without Him.  He is my everything, my life, my breath, my night and my day.  He fulfils my every need, every want, every desire, as my only wants, needs, and desires are His pleasure.   i hope to always please Him and be his kajira forever, as long as it pleases HimMaster is the light that leads me through the darkness that would be my life without Him. 

    

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