Read all of this and do not waste time with contact if you do not qualify.
How to get a response from me:
1) Write a nice message
Use adult punctuation and grammar. Pitch yourself--why should I be interested in you?
If you want me to like you, let me know you, not the bullshit you want to be "the true you".
2) Have an image
Have a photo on your profile or attach one to your first message. It must be current (within last six months), real (I can prove my "model" shots), and contain a clear view of your face. No photos? Too bad.
3) Include the filter ***
There is a sentence in this profile which I expect to find in the first line of your message. It shows me you read my profile, understand its contents and believe yourself compatible to me.
Failure to follow ALL THREE will result in your message being ignored.
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About Me:
I have four images on here. It is very telling who looks at all of them before contacting me...or not.
Most of my 'relationships' have been with males while I have dated a lot of females. There are good, bad and grey qualities of both.
I honestly want a guy who will be faithful to me as a woman. I seek only one man.
I have a lot of experience in and of The Lifestyle. But I make my decisions based on what would be considered 'vanilla' compatibilities. I want more than just a BDSM connection with my collaree.
I am brutally honest and get to the point quickly with people--especially if I do not think we are compatible.
I am not interested in anyone who already has children! I don't care how old they are, it does not matter who has custody, etc, etc. I AM NOT INTERESTED IN YOU IF YOU ALREADY HAVE CHILD(REN).
Do not lie about it.
I may be interested if you have already been married, but I have qualifications and conditions regarding your status.
I do not want married, engaged or otherwise emotionally involved with someone, persons to bother me. I will not "hook up" with you.
I am relocatable under certain conditions which involve your area being a growth opportunity. I will not move to a sideways or lower condition than my current one.
If you are not going to ever relocate, do not check it in your profile!
I will not travel unless you pay for it.
If you cannot afford this, then do not waste your time to "bitch out my gold-digging ass". I am a financially responsible person with a careful budget that does not allow for frivolous expenditures such as travel for meetings where other person does not show. If you decide not to show up when traveling to me for a meeting, I lose nothing but your information.
However, there will be lots of messages before I share my email address, many emails before I share my IM name and screens of IMs before I share my phone number followed by calendar time of calls before I agree to a meeting. I am not quick and easy.
If you think you cannot handle "my shit", then go bother someone else. I am not here for you.
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Of Which I Seek:
I am looking for a man who wants a Dom wife who will control him every way but obvious.
I prefer single, childless straight males who will not have an issue with my girlfriend.
I want kids within a decade, so you must be under 50. I also want someone with life experience who is mentally strong, hygienic, employed, responsible and capable, so you should be over 33.
I have no racial preference. I have religious biases so orthodox Scientologists who literally believe bibles will be rejected. I am a spiritual person but I do not adhere to dogmas.
English is my primary language. If you cannot have a functional English exchange both verbally and through written words, you will be rejected. I am not looking for lots of communication misunderstandings.
I am a citizen of the United States of America. I am only interested in those who can legally live in the USA without my assistance.
I have cats. I have also had a dog and am currently between fish. I believe that with good training, different animals can live together, but I am not seeking a menagerie--even on a lot of land. If you are allergic to cats, do not bother to contact as that makes you automatically incompatible with me.
I am considered tallish for a female. I have dated shorter (5') and taller (7'1"). The biggest issue I have with height is people lying about it.
I am also someone who is concerned about their health. I consider myself proportional. I eat carefully and exercise regularly. I am not going to pass out during a scene or walking up an escalator. I expect the same (as a minimum) of my collared sub. Doing WiiFit does not make you "athletic".
I need to wear glasses. I should not wear contacts. Some people feel a need to know this as my fetish photos do not show me wearing them. I do not feel it deceptive as contacts exist.
I drink alcohol and sometimes socially smoke around 420. I do not have a problem with those who do not drink or smoke and/or cannot be around either. But do not be preaching at me about your choices while refusing to accept mine. I am upfront.
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Why do I include all of this? Because it weeds out the people I would not be interested in. I do not like wasting time with incompatible people. I ignore, block, ban and delete with abandon.
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Now, if you have read this far and want to know more, below and the list at left are my BDSM interests. I want someone with similar preferences in the spectrum.
Hard limits--as in will not do under any circumstances!!
No animals. Furries are one thing, fucking Fido is the uh-uh for me.
No children. Dress-up and role-playing between legally consents adults is great, the new Jon-Benet next door is not.
No scat. I have peed on people in play, but its not really my thing. I will not allow peeing on me. Shit is something to say, not eat. I will toilet-train my children to use a potty, not each other.
Soft Limits:
Drugs I adhere to SSC! This means Safe, Sane and Consensual. Being drunk or high during play is dangerous.
Basking in the smoky glow after is alright, but getting buzzed beforehand means no play.
The same goes for "prescription" medications. I want you functional in subspace, not wasted.
I list drugs as a soft limit because I have indulged in pot--but NEVER before or during scenes! Any substance considered "a harder drug" is a hard limit for me.
CBT. I don't mind some of this (stimulation is fun) but as I want children--Prince Albert and piercings, severe damage and castration are not on my "wanted" list.
Feminization. Dress-up and play are fun, but I would only consider those males looking to be/identifying as females--no matter where they are in the process--as my girl friend, not my collared submissive husband.
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I believe everyone has the right to their own choices but pushing yours on me is not acceptable. Therefore I push mine on no one; I merely lay out my preferences in life, not judgment of others.
***If you have read all the way down here and are interested in getting to know me better, message me with the words: Lady Serena is an interesting person.
Should you choose to not include these words (and an image) in your nice initial message, I will choose to ignore you--and most likely mock you in a journal post.
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