I am specifically hoping for a Taken in Hand / Male Dominated relationship. I do not defer to the Man I am with just some of the time and at other times lead. I simply am not wired that way. I need to be in a Male Dominated/ HoH/ Taken in Hand relationship to thrive.
Of course I still enjoy many aspects of 'play'; Not just spankings. Spankings, floggings, hair pulling, face slapping (just to name a few) are very much a turn on for me BUT what I need is a Man who wants to take the lead, to be in control of the relationship.
I am also a medium sexual masochist and submissive to certain men. I've been in this 'lifestyle' (I dislike that term) long enough to know how I need to live my life. I did the whole micro-manage, Call him Master, 36 rules thing; It did not work. I did the sub in the bedroom but equal partner's outside the bedroom; It also did not work.
I feel the Man, the Dominant, should be the head of the household though I do not mean financially. I hope he will value my opinion even if it differs from his own, but in the end the final decision is his.
I am intelligent, out spoken and can hold my own whether we are talking about current events, the weather or anything in between.
I will always respect the Dominant. I will defer to the Dominant. I hope to be someone's best friend, confidante, lover, slut, submissive and yes if he has a bit of a sexual sadist streak in him then I have struck gold :-)
I have some meat on my bones. Too much meat for some men but that's okay- You have your own preferences just as I do. For instance, I prefer to date black men though I never rule anyone out simply because of the color of their skin. Good people come in all shapes, colors and sizes.
Laughter is essential to me. I need it as much as I need air. When time permits I like taking little getaways. I love taking Carnival cruises. Other places I enjoy are Vegas, VictoryLand, Biloxi, Gatlinburg, Cherokee, Helen and Busch Gardens. (My dream: An Alaskan Cruise)
I'm very down to earth and most comfortable in a pair of jeans. I see myself as quite cute, kind-hearted, loyal and honest. I have 1 daughter who is 20, bi-racial and recently blessed me with a beautiful baby granddaughter.
I'm an animal lover (and NO, not in the icky way) 3 cats own me right now. The three of them were adopted from the animal shelter.
I have opened my own business which is why I have decided to remove my pictures. Should you want to get to know me, I will send you my pic. Hmm, guess I should mention that I do smoke cigarettes. I also enjoy occasional drinks be it Margarita's, Cheap Champagne or shots of Patron.
So...If you're interested please go ahead and shoot me an e-mail.
Laura
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