my head is starting to clear and i'm learning more and more about my submission.
i've come to realize that what i look for is more important for me to share than what i will give to my Owner. Because what i give, is me and i am so much more complicated and that will take time.
Here are some qualities that i'm looking for.
Honesty is the number one thing i am looking for. i will not tolerate lies or fakes. Secrets like the fact that you are married, will not work for me. But a secret like a surprise, i love! i want a real life relationship. Online D/s is not for me. Please be honest about this. Touch is important to me and what i seek.
Selflessness in this lifestyle is not just for the submissive. The Dominant gives of himself just as much, if not more so and i respect that. He has much more to plan and to think about to help me grow as His submissive.
i seek my Owner to have
passion. Not just a little passion, but a whole *%#@load of
passion. i want there always to be something new and exciting
happening. Well, that would be fun and all but to have a little adventure
every now and then. i don't want to be bored. W/we both only have this one
life to live and i rather not miss out on anything. i want someone to
share all that life has to offer both BDSM and vanilla life.
Acceptance - Nobody is perfect
but every now and then, it would be nice to look my Owner in the eyes and see how
much He cares for me. How much He desires me and how much He wants
me. i NEED to feel that. To have that unconditional love and
acceptance.
Because of a couple bad relationships,
respect goes hand and hand with honesty and is right up their on the qualities i look for. But respect me as His
submissive and not take me for granted. It means that i want to to give
myself unselfishly to Him and in order for me to do that, there has to be
respect shown both ways. If there is not mutual respect, how on earth can i serve You?
You must possess patience to allow and help me grow as Your submissive.
The kind of patience that one has with a young child...when they do something
wrong, they are punished but the punishment suits the wrong doing. The
punishment is meant to be a lesson in some ways and to help the child develop into their being. And last but not least, i am looking for real time...face to face, body to body. If You live in Ohio, i live in NH, it won't work for me right now so please respect that i am looking for real time, not online. i know that it all will start with online but in the end, i want to feel Your hand on my skin.
If You have come to the end of my "wish list", do You possess these qualities that i am looking for? Do You think the same as i do? Then please, by all means, send me a note! i would love to get to know You.
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