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I'm a 43yo woman, looking to find my Dominant match ... someone with whom I click on many levels - we can laugh over coffee, discuss politics over lunch, take a walk and talk about life in general. All before we get involved with the Ds dynamics in our relationship.
I think I've been screwing up this past year because I got involved too quickly with Doms that I was not compatible with. I've given too much of myself - my faith, my body, my heart - without ever really knowing for sure that this is the person that I want to be with.
So ... this time around I'm going to move very slowly. I don't take entering into a Ds relationship lightly and I need that understood and respected. (Yes, this means I won't submit on the first date ... nor do anything sexual. Can you handle it? Can you prove you're not just about getting your rocks off? ;-) )
Long distance doesn't work for me. I'm not interested in cybering - I find waiting for the real thing much more compelling.
I am not interested in poly. I want to be his one-and-only and vice versa.
I'm intelligent, well-read, intuitive and engaging.
I'm listed as a submissive, yet I have a distinctive bent towards slave.
I have a pic available upon request, if you send yours. You won't be disappointed.
"And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom."
"I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naïve or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman."
Anais Nin
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