| HARD LIMIT: NO GUYS!!! NO SEX, PERIOD!!!!
UPDATE: The paths shared by myself and MzLoretta have parted on good terms and She will always hold a special place in my heart and soul. At this time, i am not seeking to move on so quickly as i have seen some do in the past. When i am ready, i will post here.
If You're looking for a sex submissive or a foot slave...keep on looking because i'm not the one You are looking for. If You are wanting to cuck someone...keep going, too. i'm not interested in ANYTHING sexual. i'm strictly a service submissive...nothing more...nothing less.
Just need to add this to my profile:
As of April 2011, mstedie and i are officially married.
If you send me a friend request, expect that i will be courteous to at least send you a message back. If writing you is a problem, then please...DO NOT SEND ME A FRIEND REQUEST. thank you
here for friends and chat. just to be clear, no sex will ever be involved. i know that limits me greatly, but why BS people with things that aren't there?
They say that a submissive is someone who tends to the needs of another, surrendering everything to serve someone else. Well, if that is the case, then i think i fit this description. Taking care of someone with a disability, someone in a wheelchair certainly qualifies.
In a day's time, i get up in the morning, spend some time getting awake and alert. i then snuggle with my wife, i give her a back rub while we either watch a movie or just enjoy the quiet. once it is time to get up, i give her a sponge bath, get her up and let her do her morning business, then i get her dressed for the day. if we're not going anywhere, i dress her in something casual to lounge around the house in. if we're going out for the day, i help her dress in a dress (including a bra). then i give her her meds, brush her hair and get her something to drink it down with (water, if we're going out...coffee, if we're not)
if we do not go anywhere, i fix her breakfast, i clean up the kitchen, this includes emptying the previous night's dishwasher load and setting it up for the day. if she has to use the restroom again, i take her.
then, i make sure she has what she needs for awhile and she goes to her MAC computer and does her daily things. and then do my daily things.
i am at home all day. on days we go out, we get in her van (which only goes out when she needs to go) and we do whatever we have planned for the day. be it grocery shopping, movies or (during tax season) to her job (where i help her set up her work station, making sure she has everything she needs on her desk for the day.
then, about mid afternoon, i take her to the bathroom again...plan the evening meal and make sure she has all she needs until dinner. i cook the meal. once the meal is cooked and eaten, i clean up the kitchen again, placing all dirty dishes and such in the dishwasher and make sure she has something to drink. i often take out the trash also.
some mornings, i set up the laundry to wash while we watch a movie. then, after the movie, i put the wet clothes in the dryer then i get her up for the day.
in the evening, i get her ready for bed, sometimes sitting there watching wrestling or something else, then cuddle for the evening. we talk for awhile until we sleep.
yes, at present, i don't have a "paying" job, but this is what i do during the day and it has it's own rewards. no, there is no bondage involved...no whips, no chains, no dressing up, no kneeling...but it's still submission.
where is it said that submission has to include these things? it's true, i would like to experience these things. but, as you all can clearly see, it is not a requirement for being a submissive. |
