" *Not Looking~Happily Collared* Greetings, A few words to introduce myself....I am submissive..."

Greetings,

A few words to introduce myself....I am submissive, this is not what I do, this is who I am. My submission comes freely from a place of joy and not from a place of insecurity or fear. I do not survive in this world…I thrive in it. I have been in real life, long term, D/s relationships for more than 25 years now. I am entirely at peace with this title at this point in my life. This does not in any way however, take away from the fact that I am also a strong, competent woman with strong beliefs and values. There were times in my life that I was not always so comfortable in this skin but I have done a lot of soul searching and have come to a place where I am completely happy with who and what I am. On that note, I do wish to also say that this is very serious to me. I am happily collared to Master Sage and am not looking to replace him. He graciously allows me to have contact with whomever I choose to communicate with, so if you would like to make a new friend I would be happy to correspond. I am not a player and am not looking for anyone to play with, so if that is your interest that may be best served elsewhere. I am active within my community and I do enjoy that interaction, however, it is not the most important aspect of this lifestyle to me. I don’t need rituals or fetish wear or play parties to confirm who I am. I enjoy all of those things but they are things that enhance and enrich me, not make up the entirety of me. The play aspects, while certainly important, are merely the icing on the cake. While it’s nice to have that icing…without a substantial piece of cake underneath it is unappetizing to me at best.

Outside of the aspects of D/s who am I? ....Well, sometimes it feels as though I am a dinosaur caught in the wrong space of time. I am a woman who relishes being a woman in the more traditional sense of definition. I love being the warm, welcoming light at the end of a long day, the partner who Sir turns to and finds sanctuary from the roughness of the world. I enjoy making home a peaceful and fulfilling place to be. I love to cook and make a home and very much enjoy being the soft, nurturing force in our relationship. A regular June Cleaver. That being said, I am also a very bubbly, outgoing woman. I have a very strong personality and am confident in myself and in all that I do. I am just as comfortable at a biker party as I am at a black tie affair. I fit into most situations with relative ease and eloquence. I am a strong and competent woman. I do well in the working world but home is where I find my center. I am a fairly well rounded person with a large variety of interests. I love the outdoors. I hunt, fish, camp and hike. There is nothing quite like the smell of the air on a crisp November morning. I have a strong fondness for campfires. I love beaches and mountains, hot tubs and candles. I love to read. I am fun loving and warm hearted. The most important things in my life are my family, friends and good conversation. Dining out is always a wonderful experience but I also love to put a nice meal on the table at home. Quiet evenings at home are priceless and I'd rather rent a movie and cuddle on the couch than to sit in a theater. I love motorcycles, flea markets, antique stores and coffee shops. As for the party scene., well I am not much of a drinker. A cocktail or two, a glass of wine with dinner or an ice cold import with a burger is about my speed. I do very much enjoy a good party, I love the interaction with people, but I don't go with the intent of getting toasted. The attraction for me is in the companionship and not in the bottles. I'm sure that I could go on but I think that this gives at least some insight into who I am.

A little bit about my Sir... Sir is a wonderfully and wickedly twisted sadist. He is also a tender and loving sensualist. It is an intoxicating balance that he has perfected. He is an honest man who is strong in character and integrity. He holds true to his own personal code of morals and values. He is self-confident and in control of himself. He possesses a good sense of humor and a strong work ethic. He is my best friend, my confidante, my mentor and my guide. He is the safe place I curl up and the rock that I turn to for strength. We share in each others joy…and our sorrows. He is my grounding center. He is my True North. I am blessed.

I am interested in meeting new people within the lifestyle for friendship and the sharing of thoughts and ideas.

Peace and light,
~erin~